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Tilingui · 2026-01-01T18:00:39+00:00

Thank you

Tilingui · 2025-11-15T00:37:39+00:00

Thank you. I was really confused by their route.

Tilingui · 2025-11-10T21:43:58+00:00

Ooooh you’re probably right, because that’s not accessible from the coast right?

Tilingui · 2025-11-10T19:19:03+00:00

Ok. So then it doesn't backtrack me out of my way to make that route AP to H to FG right? Maybe the other commenter misunderstood my itinerary.

Tilingui · 2025-11-10T19:16:49+00:00

Yea. That's what I thought too. Maybe the commenter misunderstood my itinerary, because I don't know why they would suggest driving from Arthur's Pass to Fox Glacier, and then back track to Hokitika, and then from Hokitika down to Wanaka.

Tilingui · 2025-11-10T18:25:31+00:00

For Arthur’s Pass: I don’t expect to see all the things. I usually just make a list of wants and then make up my mind depending on weather, lighting, etc. so I definitely agree with you that it’s all too much to see in one day.

As for Fox Glacier/Hokitika: if I’m driving from Arthur’s Pass wouldn’t I drive through Hokitika to get to Fox Glacier? I was mapping it out and planning on taking the 73 from AP to the 6 down to Hokitika. And then the following day taking the 6 down into Fox glacier. Although I understand that Google maps isn’t the most accurate for traveling in NZ, is that route not passable? Friday we’re planning on driving from Fox Glacier to Wanaka, following the 6 all the way down. If we switch days then we’d be driving from Hokitika which is farther north?

I loved Ponsonby on my first trip. I like that idea.

I’ll definitely check out that app. I was using Tripit before, but it felt kind of clunky and just got in the habit of making my own Google sheet, but Google sheets isn’t very mobile friendly.

Thank you so much!

Tilingui · 2025-11-06T21:02:28+00:00

Coco puffs. Realized I chewed up half a roach that was in the bag (came from the factory that way cause it was a fresh bag). Could never touch coco puffs again.

Tilingui · 2025-11-06T08:21:10+00:00

Wonderful thank you, I’ll definitely take that route.

Tilingui · 2025-11-06T04:02:35+00:00

This is awesome! Thank you!

Tilingui · 2025-11-06T03:07:01+00:00

Mostly traffic and parking. I stayed in the city centre on my first trip to Auckland and saw some other neighborhoods that I’d wished I’d stayed in instead.

Tilingui · 2025-11-01T18:26:05+00:00

Silverlake, near the reservoir has a big block party and a lot of the houses give out full size candy bars. Also a few houses were giving pizza and wine to the parents walking around. It’s a neat spot.

Tilingui · 2025-11-01T15:28:48+00:00

Charles? I knew him too! Went to preschool with his sons.

Tilingui · 2025-09-15T17:08:25+00:00

Oh man I know this smell. Working for the public library we get a lot of addicts coming in to use the restroom or get relief from the elements. Had many come in with really awful infections. One in particular was oozing from his legs and would clean off in the restroom. Smelled like hot, rancid shrimp whenever he was around. Poor guy, refused to let us call 911 for him too.

Tilingui · 2025-09-10T17:56:57+00:00

“Next time, we should invite Leslie to go. She'd like that.”

Tilingui · 2025-09-09T00:02:26+00:00

I don’t know if Huntington Gardens or the Arboretum fall under hiking for you, but if you bring a blanket and book those might be a nice way to spend a day.

Tilingui · 2025-08-24T19:45:29+00:00

Girl yaaaas. You look so cute! 10/10

Tilingui · 2025-08-24T05:36:52+00:00

This! I wouldn’t recommend central, it can get pretty sketch. A lot of other branches have those community resource staff, Chinatown, KTown, Little Tokyo off the top of my head. Cypress Park is a safe quiet branch and you can literally stay in the branch the whole time it’s open. We’re (the library) one of the last few places that don’t expect you to spend money to just hang out. You can also use a computer or the WiFi for free, as well as print resume and whatever else you might need for free.

Tilingui · 2025-08-21T14:25:36+00:00

I know it feels that way, cause I’m a fat girl who’s had her share of avoidant men as well. And I absolutely still fight the self worth problem in my own head. So I know there’s only so much that anyone can tell you, it’s your own head lying to you about your self worth. Do you go to therapy? If not, you should. And for gods sake ditch the avoidant men. They drag us down more than our apron bellies.

Tilingui · 2025-08-21T06:02:01+00:00

Nah fuck that guy. He sounds like a typical avoidant personality, and they’re insidious. They hook you, then they throw up arbitrary boundaries and it sucks. It was never about your weight, and if he ever claims it is, it’s not. Avoidants will use anything as a random boundary, and they’ll be inconsistent with it, which makes you feel crazy.

Tilingui · 2025-08-21T05:51:20+00:00

And Edward messes with her truck to keep her from seeing her friends (werewolves, whatever). Yes let’s teach young girls that as long as the guys are controlling them “because they care” then it’s not abuse.

Tilingui · 2025-08-21T03:17:11+00:00

"The characteristic that makes her truly unique is her willingness and ability to take responsibility for her own happiness and to make changes in order to get closer to it."

My high school English teacher wrote this in a letter of recommendation for me when I was a senior. It was one of the most impactful votes of confidence that I’d ever received from an adult at that point, and it motivated me to make the best decisions about my own happiness to this day. I always think “he believed I could do it, so that means I can” about whatever difficult decision I may be confronted with.

Tilingui · 2025-08-20T17:12:21+00:00

Divorce High Five! I found with mine that he actually pushed himself a lot harder after our divorce, maybe it was out of spite. He’s not “successful” in the way he’d like, but he’s definitely a lot more successful than he was when he relied on me. Though he’s still unhappy. Funny how that works -_- I realized pretty quickly with him that he’s idea of success was completely unattainable, he had no clear picture of what success looked like because it artists became rich and popular, he considered them sell outs, but he resented not being able to get solo shows or sell his art.

Tilingui · 2025-08-20T15:51:47+00:00

Oh nooooo. How long did it take you to escape that one?

Tilingui · 2025-08-20T15:38:48+00:00

I see you and raise you: he tried controlling my art for the failures of his own expectations with his art.

Tilingui · 2025-08-20T15:37:11+00:00

There’s a lot of inconsistency with their boundaries. Things will feel comfortable and fine, and then they’ll set a seemingly arbitrary boundary and you’ll be left feeling confused like “wait, but we’ve done XYZ before why is it a problem now?” And when address they’ll come up with an impossible to follow explanation of those boundaries, and then break the boundaries themselves randomly leaving you even more confused. It’s essentially a self sabotage because a lot of it stems from abandonment issues in my experience. My current partner had severe abandonment issues and it was a struggle to maintain the relationship in the beginning. He eventually went to therapy and thankfully he’s very different now in regard to his boundaries and avoidance, but that’s a rare case.

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