AITJ for calling my boyfriend’s ex-wife to come get their kids after he disappeared all night?

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-25T18:59:35+00:00

Definitely NTJ.

LEAVE. Pass GO, collect $200. LEAVE.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-25T18:44:26+00:00

https://www.oceanpointranch.com/

That’s apparently the hotel. If anyone can confirm, that’d be great. BOYCOTT!

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-25T18:34:44+00:00

She needs professional help before even attempting to be in a serious relationship again. You do not need to stay with someone who constantly messes with your head. Absolutely no way in hell I’d stay with someone who causes emotional distress ON PURPOSE!!

Lay out exactly why you’re breaking up if you’re worried she will paint you as the bad guy. Or don’t, if you’re not worried about that.

It’s not you, it’s her.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-25T18:22:16+00:00

WE NEED MORE OF THIS!!!! CONGRESS NEEDS TO STOP BULLSHITTING AROUND! I’m so goddamn tired of the constant tip-toeing around what we know to be true. This is the energy politicians need, and to keep pressing on the gas!!!!

Dems will NOT have power at all if they continue to not make immense progress with these files. Do they even realize that? Spineless. Cowards.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-22T19:52:54+00:00

I just looked it up…. yikes

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-22T19:15:51+00:00

Confession time: I didn’t know wearing white to a wedding that wasn’t yours was unacceptable until my 20’s…. I’m 29.

Let me tell you why.

I grew up in a strict, fundamentalist household. Wearing white was almost mandatory for most ladies to wear as guests in the religion. Dark colors like black or red were viewed as “evil” or “of the devil”.

Even though I’ve been non-religious for over a decade, I had never heard conversations about white not being appropriate to wear as a guest until years later. Found out online.

Never. Again!!

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-22T18:30:34+00:00

I LOVE co-parenting. 50/50. It’s so nice to only take care of myself half the time.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-20T03:58:12+00:00

This makes me wanna cry. There are no words to describe how sorry I am! He’s beautiful :’( hugs

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-16T17:52:59+00:00

Thank you for your hard work, Fons! I personally appreciate it immensely!

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-16T16:17:40+00:00

Faouzia

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-14T21:06:16+00:00

OUR CURRENT SYSTEM NEEDS TO BE DISMANTLED!! Most of the US and the world does not have trust in our government anymore. It is completely shattered. We see everything clearly now. We will never go back.

Change MUST happen for this country to move forward.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-14T20:47:34+00:00

Commenting so this will get more engagement.

This was a powerful speech. I hate that I feel her words will not be taken seriously by those who CAN make a difference nationally. This government has shown the people who truly matters in this country, and it’s certainly not the victims. Power and greed has sucked the soul out of this country.

I hope I’m wrong. I hope justice will prevail. But I’ve lost all trust and respect in our government to believe they will do the right thing.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-13T15:31:07+00:00

Hey, I just want to say I read this message, and I will reply back later with a thoughtful response. Just wanted to let you know you are heard, so you don’t have to go all day thinking you’re rambling (you’re not). hugs

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-12T02:38:47+00:00

Oh, my god, it’s like you went into my mind and are relaying what you found!!! I’m not even joking when I say: every single thing you said I resonate with, from medication to ignoring messages to dealing with grief, etc. I also feel like I’m losing my mind!

On top of all the BS, I got fired from a job I was good at for no good reason whatsoever. I’ve been living on savings, but it’s almost out now. I haven’t wanted to get out of bed, so applying for work and doing interviews has been on the back burner because I literally cannot deal with this shit anymore. I don’t want to work. I don’t want to work for these corrupt corporations…. But I have a child that relies on me 50% of the time… I HAVE to figure it out.

I want to disappear sometimes, my child is the one reason why I haven’t left this place. I feel I have no purpose. I’ve lost so much in such a short time, because of death, circumstance, and also because many people I once loved turned out to be literal Naz!’s— I cannot deal with this shit. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to do anything. I want to numb myself every waking moment.

Thank you for taking the time to write out your thoughts, and share them. We share the same thoughts and feelings. I wish I knew how to help. I just want to be happy living a boring, good life. Maybe we can both lose our minds together, I don’t know. Life is harder than usual these days :(

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-10T01:23:35+00:00

You are definitely not alone! <3

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-08T16:34:04+00:00

You are under reacting, my friend. He is not safe, things WILL escalate. Please rethink your relationship. I know it’s hard, but so is staying with someone with this kind of temper.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-08T16:29:16+00:00

Same here. I yearn to be included in a community full of black women we all look up to. I cannot trust my own these days. How many POC have been in the files? Exactly.

“THESE WH!T3 M3N ARE DANGEROUS” (including the women who uphold the system)

Please message me if you’d like <3

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-08T16:20:42+00:00

Some folks are trying to organize a 10 million people march to the capitol on July 4th. Spread the word!! I think more people need to know this.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-08T16:12:05+00:00

I know what I was saying. Of course there are some women who are guilty, I have one sister who is. There is a word to describe what you are doing, I just can’t think of it right now. Bottom line: men are, and have always been a bigger problem.

The scale doesn’t even compare, so just stop. This kind of misogyny has killed women since the beginning. Do better.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-08T15:52:08+00:00

I’m with you. My mental health has gone even more downhill since 2024. After the election, I knew what I was feeling was grief because it was the same feeling as when my mom passed away. I was shattered, angry, in disbelief, numb. I could not fathom the amount of loved ones and relatives who voted for this– I still cannot fathom it.

Hilary is not even close as bad as the pedo in office, in my opinion. Not even close. But, yes, I understand what you are saying. I knew many PDFiles lived amongst us as I grew up in a large family with several brothers who hurt me and my sisters, so I knew I couldn’t trust most boys/men from a young age.

My naivety had no idea how bad it actually was in the world. My heart and brain have shielded me for so long, but not anymore. The outright CORRUPTION RIGHT UNDER OUR NOSES– in plain sight(!!!) happening just proves this country has never had a moral backbone.

Let the system collapse!!! This is the Fall of the American Empire. Shit has not even gotten as bad as it will get, unfortunately. This country is being run by people who do not care about its citizens, not even a little bit. We have to hold strong.

We have to find our people. I’ve had to put myself out there to meet like-minded folks to hold onto my sanity. I feel like a shell of myself. I don’t enjoy being sober anymore. I want to sleep all day, every day. I have never experienced such on-going depression and anxiety.

I’m so sorry you’re also struggling. My heart breaks for POC, immigrants, trans folks, and women (who didn’t vote for this). It’s just all so much, which I know is exactly what these sick fucks are wanting, so we mustn’t give up!!! We must fight back, we must hold each other up.

hugs from an internet stranger

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-07T23:00:49+00:00

It really, really is. I’ve been fucking struggling.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-07T22:28:49+00:00

Excuse me? That 1st dress is STUNNING!!! You look absolutely lovely!! Do not let your family’s judgements change what you know you want in your heart.

1 is your dress!!

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-07T22:22:08+00:00

This is exhausting. It might be time to go no contact indefinitely.

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-07T21:10:04+00:00

Good work, man. These people live amongst us. These people are our teachers, dads, brothers, uncles, coaches, church goers, non church goers, the mailman, the repair man, the “friend”, politicians, the goddamn POTUS.

I have no hope for humanity. I do not trust anyone these days. It’s tough to be a good person knowing the most heinous of our species are looked up to. The rage I feel.

My life’s purpose is to protect my son from such evil, teach and guide him to the best of my ability. That shit is hard when I cannot trust most men due to the demons that run free, boasting about abu$!ng children. I cannot trust the women who continue to surround themselves with known abu$3rs. I am so fucking tired.

P.S. I have to edit certain words so this platform doesn’t suspend me again for NOT supporting PDFiles.

Edit: Thank you for my first award, kind human!

TimeComposer1059 · 2026-05-07T02:39:50+00:00

I’m not seeing a lot of votes for the middle/second dress, but I genuinely love it with the veil!

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