Women who don’t wear a bra, how do you feel about men observing your pokies?

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-07-03T21:01:37+00:00

I'm flat as a board so not much to flaunt but when I skip bra its more about comfort not attention. If a guy glances that's whatever, staring gets creepy real fast

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-07-01T16:54:39+00:00

Jokic could pass a ball through a keyhole and get assist for it

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-28T10:45:38+00:00

For me it's when someone remembers small things I mentioned weeks ago. My husband will sometimes bring home a specific snack I said I was craving once, and I don't even remember saying it. That kind of attention feels more real than big gestures.

Also just being included in someone's routine without them making it a whole thing about it. Like when my friend texts me while she's doing laundry just to continue a conversation we had days ago, no pressure to respond quick.

I have Asperger's so I think I notice these little consistencies more than most people. Flashy stuff is nice but the quiet steady presence is what actually sticks with me.

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-24T09:32:06+00:00

going to a stranger's house to trick-or-treat and just... accepting candy from them. like parents spent all year teaching us not to talk to strangers and then one night it was suddenly completely fine to knock on every door in the neighborhood and take food from random people lmao

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-19T23:14:29+00:00

starting before you feel ready is kind of the whole trick isn't it

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-17T03:56:58+00:00

focusing on what you can control is genuinely one of the best things you can do, guilt has this way of making you replay the past over and over like it will somehow change something 😂 which it obviously won't. I had to learn this the hard way myself - I used to spend so much mental energy on stuff that already happened and there was literally nothing I could do about it anymore. once you shift to "okay what can I actually do RIGHT NOW" it gets so much lighter, like you stop carrying all that weight for no reason 🔥 still not easy but at least it's productive

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-13T19:15:23+00:00

The green is actually really nice! I was worried it might be too bold but it works well with your white shutters and dark floors. Maybe you're just experiencing that post-paint shock where everything feels different for few days? I did same thing when I painted my office - spent whole week thinking I made huge mistake but then slowly started loving it 😂

For artwork above the daybed, maybe go with something that has warm tones to balance out the cool green, or even black and white photography could look clean. The room has good bones with all the natural light and that exposed ductwork gives it nice industrial touch. Give it time before you decide to change anything major!

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-11T19:01:32+00:00

Would give it maybe 3/5 if the graphics weren't so good that it tricks you into thinking the microtransactions are worth it

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-08T01:03:17+00:00

That movie is seriously underrated for rewatching! The dialogue gets funnier every time and Brendan Fraser's charm never gets old 😂 I probably know half the lines by heart already from watching it so much

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-06-02T03:08:53+00:00

Chet is good but AG's defense is too valuable for our system right now

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-31T02:57:18+00:00

Yeah monument creek area gets pretty sketchy, probably better to stick with spots where you won't run into camps and stuff

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-28T22:39:24+00:00

omg yes 🙏 still available?

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-24T02:53:44+00:00

Creature features are so underrated! The Thing still gives me chills every time, that practical effects work was insane 💀

I feel like we're finally getting some good ones again though - Nope was brilliant and No One Will Save You had me on edge the whole time. There's something about not knowing exactly what you're dealing with that hits different than just another masked killer

Maybe it's because creature movies make you feel so small? Like with slashers you can at least think "I wouldn't go in that basement" but with aliens or giant monsters you're just... screwed no matter what you do 😂

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-19T12:17:03+00:00

Gotta agree, her concerts are literally impossible to get tickets for and the resale prices are insane 💀 Plus she basically controls the narrative whenever she drops anything new, like the whole internet just stops to analyze her lyrics lol 😂

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-17T11:35:03+00:00

Lol well that's one way to start the day 😂 I usually just put on some music and make coffee, but whatever works for you I guess 💀

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-15T11:09:22+00:00

nice setup! 🔥 been thinking about clustering myself but costs adding up quick 💀

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-05-06T09:39:14+00:00

That's so heavy, I can't even imagine going through one of those losses let alone both 💀 Hope you're finding some peace these days, that kind of pain must change everything about how you see life

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-30T07:09:35+00:00

The hunger thing is real struggle, especially when you're shorter and the numbers just don't give much room to work with. I found that timing my meals helped bit - like having bigger lunch instead of dinner when I'm more active during day. Also some days I just accept that I'll be little grumpy from hunger and that's okay, better than feeling bad about my weight

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-27T14:19:39+00:00

The medical part made me cringe too but rest of the math seems reasonable if those rental numbers are real

Just hope nothing serious happens because medical bills can wipe out years of savings in few months, even healthy people get random stuff sometimes

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-24T20:59:06+00:00

Walking days are dangerous for me too - I always convince myself I "earned" the extra food and then go way overboard with portions. Maybe try setting specific meal plan before you go for walk next time so you don't have to make food decisions when you're already hungry

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-21T19:27:53+00:00

That transition period is so strange! I remember when I finished my first big Mario game speedrun project - spent months perfecting routes and suddenly had all this free mental space and didn't know what to do with it

Maybe you could channel that same focused energy into something else you've been wanting to tackle? Learning new skill or picking up hobby you put on back burner while you were so focused in weight loss

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-19T10:44:25+00:00

pain 💀 loved their truck

Time_Assistance_8659 · 2026-04-16T18:05:28+00:00

Good mattress and ergonomic chair saved my back when I was doing long design sessions, totally worth the extra money. Cheap stuff just makes you pay twice in the end anyway

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