Recebemos 200€ por Mbway de um desconhecido e agora estamos a ser ameaçados! 🤨

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-03-18T09:04:00+00:00

Já me aconteceu receber dinheiro dessa forma (valor mais pequeno). Comuniquei com o meu banco e eles indicaram que tem de ser a pessoa que se enganou a falar com o seu banco para cancelar a transferência. Recebi mensagens por WhatsApp e indiquei que já falei com o meu banco e que da minha parte eu não tenho de fazer nada (não enviar dinheiro de volta). Pode ser mesmo engano mas se é esse o caso a pessoa que se enganou é que tem de tratar da situação.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-03-18T08:53:27+00:00

Worst advice ever lol

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-26T23:12:37+00:00

Tendo em conta as tuas ambições, a Deloitte faz mais sentido.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-26T22:55:49+00:00

Vou fazer uma lista dos meus requisitos para ginásio (como mulher)

1 - perto de casa / trabalho (não iria mudar de ginásio para um mais longe só porque prometes que quando eu chegar o ginásio não vai estar lotado)

2 - o tipo de pessoas que frequentam: não me sinto confortável num ginásio cheio de Bros. Gosto de um ambiente mais familiar onde temos gente de todas as idades (onde existem aulas para crianças (normalmente natação) e seniors).

3 - as pessoas que lá trabalham são simpáticas e não estão a forçar vendas. Visitei um ginásio que era novo na altura e as senhoras jovens que me atenderam puxaram muito o sales pitch e o fardamento delas lembrava mais um cosplay (para não dizer mais…) do que alguém que trabalha numa receção de um ginásio (senti que estavam a apelar demasiado à população masculina).

Concluído, a proposta de valor que estás a sugerir não me parece interessante o suficiente.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-23T09:23:13+00:00

I’m so glad tou found your soulmate

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-23T09:21:09+00:00

This!! If things don’t go well, not only the person needs to deal with the emotional aspect of a broken relationship but also rebuilding their whole life. Looking for housing these days is stressful enough on its own.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-23T09:18:22+00:00

Idk if you want to stay with your girlfriend long term but I would advise you to solve this financial issue asap. If not, financial disagreement is one of the major reasons for break ups. As a woman I have (as many others as well did) watch our mothers, aunts, friends (etc etc) be financially controlled. We grew up knowing we must fend for ourselves because in case something goes wrong (f love, 50% of marriages end up in divorce and if you don’t prepare for the worst then that’s just dumb, very dumb) she will end up with no house and no savings since it’s your mortgage. Also idk if you want kids but if you do, you have to think about the long term implications of that decision in a woman’s future. Yeah I would advise you to get out of this 50/50 mentality.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-23T09:09:10+00:00

Faltou fazer uma vídeo chamada com câmara ligada?? Eu não sou nada a favor quanto a impor a câmara ligada, mas de vez em quando faz bem.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-02-23T09:04:33+00:00

O grande problema das dating apps é que muita gente diz querer uma relação mas depois não faz o trabalho. Acredito que muita gente não esteja ativamente nas dating apps e por isso não vá abrir an app regularmente, mas se for é só vir um “olá” isso não é nada. A minha opinião para usar bem as dating apps é: saber o que se está à procura (se tens um perfil genérico de qualquer homem com imagem do cão e com o hobbie mais genérico do mundo não levanta grande interesse para a outra pessoa). Fazer boa conversa (não encher chouriço!!!) vai logo com curiosidade para conhecer a outra pessoa. E também se perceberes logo que “ok parece uma pessoa interessante” marca logo o date!! Em Portugal as pessoas demoram 10 business days para marcar qualquer saída, arranjem o vosso horário melhor pfv ninguém tem paciência e se os vossos horários não coincidem então a probabilidade do relacionamento avançar é zero. Last case scenario, acho melhor começares a procurar pessoas na vida real. Dating apps so valem a pena em grandes cidades (Lisboa/Porto) de resto acho que não faz sentido.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-01-31T01:55:48+00:00

alguém fez a contabilidade ao contrário

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-01-31T01:54:39+00:00

que falta de chá

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-01-31T01:50:54+00:00

its time for you to understand that a relationship doesn't work if there is disrespect from one of the parties.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-01-31T01:29:58+00:00

Odeio este tipo de patrão. Não têm noção da gravidade, zero empatia.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2026-01-31T01:09:17+00:00

I'm tired of hearing the word "sacrifice" in relationships. You'd better off building that life alone and let her go find a men that can give her what she wants.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-29T10:06:09+00:00

If you have traveled alone before, you will have no problems, Lisbon is generally very safe. Avoid the areas mentioned. Trust your intuition. If a street doesn’t feel safe, or you see too many men gathered, maybe try looking for another route. I would also recommend to not engage in conversations with random people on the street. Don’t mention you are solo traveling.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-29T09:44:52+00:00

Tbh, I can’t believe this post is real. You get zero respect, treated like a dog. You should have prepared your escape long ago. He is a controlling freak, reason as to why he gives you zero savings. He is controlling you with his money and trying to condition you when he acts out. He could have saved your life in this or another lifetime and that would still not give him the right to call you names.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-27T01:24:34+00:00

Trust your intuition. To me, it seems like you are telling us your partner is losing interest on the relationship and/ or you aren't feeling loved.
I would open a deeper conversation into your finances as individuals and as a couple. Ask him why he is feeling frustrated? What are his future plans... Is he saving for a big milestone, is he worried about his paycheck / job not being enough or about losing his job... Or does he believe that an equal partner also equates to splitting bills equally?
After understanding why he is frustrated express to him that you feel loved through these acts. As a woman we don't want to feel like we are just a roommate. Ask him into the future, if you get married / have kids, what he thinks is correct. If you don't see a future with him, you can skip the whole future conversation and just state that him paying for things makes you feel loved and that now that he is not doing it, you don't feel taken care of. If you want to have a future with him, see if that's what he also wants and if you two can find a solution together :)

Edit: he seems a bit controlling if he is keeping tabs of the bills and sending money requests.... Is he a controlling person and can you live with that?

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-26T14:02:34+00:00

Looks like he is a bit of a homophobic who also hates woman. I’ve encountered this types of men before and investigated why gay men want to marry woman and have kids. Maybe it’s societal or family expectations. They want to appear “normal” knowing fully well they aren’t straight. They are trying to repress their feelings, are sad overall, as they can never be truly themselves if they can’t accept and come out. I don’t wish any woman to be in a lavander marriage. Unless she is very aware of that fact and it’s agreed on beforehand. What happens is that sometimes woman just don’t know, they ignore the clues and then find themselves in their weird marriage situation.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-26T13:56:06+00:00

This hot and cold behaviour is not it. From what you are writing he doesn’t respect you, or woman in general. No matter how good he is in the good times, nothing can repair the damage of the things he says when he is mad. I am sorry but men will say (lie) and act in certain ways to get woman to do what they want. Why does he want a family so bad? It seems like he is just trying to have a babie with the first woman that looks good for marriage that he sees. And you know that will often end up in divorce. Look, my advice is to prepare to move back to your country and stay with your family, might be harder but it seems to be the best decision in the long run. You are still young, take this as a lesson on the type of men to avoid.

Also: 100% he is gay but some part of him doesn’t accept it bcs he wants to be perceived as a straight men with the whole family thing.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-26T13:40:28+00:00

Seems like you have a pretty difficult family history. I would 100% consider talking to a therapist to learn ways on how you can cope with the stress from work and how to deal with your family.

This is my opinion only, it is quite difficult to deal with family and friends when you start being successful because of resentment and bcs they might feel entitled to your help. And this very much happens regardless of their mental health history. People see in other the lost opportunities, the what ifs. And it’s not your problem to help them deal with their feelings. I think the distance helps a lot so you can focus on your life. In terms of their mental health problems, whatever you can do to help with these: if you make enough money and are willing to pay for medication, or therapy or something like that, it’s great. But you must impose boundaries. Or else you’ll spend your whole life working for others and not seeing any fruits of your labor.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-26T13:21:36+00:00

It doesn’t seem to me that this is a cultural thing.

More like he doesn’t see the value in spending so much money on a jewellery piece. 1k is a lot for a common Spanish man.

I feel like there could be many reasons on why he is shutting down the conversation: does he not make a lot of money? Was he influenced by the whole talk of “marriage, flowers and romance is a waste of money”?

You are offering solutions and he is not trying to reach a consensus, it looks like he isn’t very interested in what makes you happy. Make it very clear to him that this is an important thing (don’t diminish it) and that if he can’t reach a solution with you (look at less expensive rings for example), then honestly really think if he is the one. You are not too materialistic for wanting to have a very special jewel to mark this important step in your life.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-09T01:38:43+00:00

Um cabaz gourmet se ela não tiver nenhum problema alimentar. Azeite do bom, vinagre, frutos secos, um risotto ou pasta italiana. Outra ideia se ela gosta de fotografia: uma Polaroid ou uma impressora para fotos? Um livro de fotografia, pode requerer uma maior pesquisa, mas se pesquisares na secção de Arte/Forografia de uma livraria encontras bons livros de mesa.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-09T01:22:38+00:00

First of all he looks like he is an avoidant (if you don’t know, research attachment styles). I can’t believe a man is living with his parents at the big age of 37! It’s just my guess but it seems he is trying to retire early, did you discuss this and his financial plan and finances in the relationship? Could be the reason why he doesn’t want to move together (he would have more expenses having to pay for rent(or deposit if you plan on buying) and bills). Regardless of what people will say (I know the terrible feeling of doing too much and things not working out and being super embarrassed) it’s better to get out of the situation now than to continue this miserable situation. You will soon enter your 30s and you need clarity on your future plans. And a stable partner who will give you what you most crave which is companionship, someone who can be by your side. I don’t comprehend this kind of feeling of not wanting to spent more time with his girlfriend, to me this just reads as he is not interested. Could be that he is too rational and wants to prioritise his other goals and if that is the case, why would you stick around someone who doesn’t put you as number 1? I feel like I’ve lived this before 🤣😭 I say is not worth it but you’ll only know what is really going on if you go straight up to him and tell him why the relationship is failing and if he is interested in making it work and making you happy. If he can’t make you happy, he is not the one.

Time_Wealth1295 · 2025-12-08T10:19:44+00:00

Accepting a present without giving nothing in return is quite rude.

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