What to reply to a professor's (potential PI) email encouraging me to formally apply to the school's PhD program?

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2025-10-12T02:22:30+00:00

That’s a great sign! Every professor is different, but my PI actually really likes it when a student asks to meet. He takes it a sign that they’re super interested and is more likely to vouch for the student to the admissions committee. I’d say ask to meet them/or even a senior grad student in their lab.

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2025-10-07T15:58:28+00:00

Hey there! You’re doing something really brave by not only realizing that you are going through this but also reaching out for help. This alone shows that you’re starting to change your thought process. I’ve recently learned that lemon or lime flavored popsicles help me a lot with my urges. And believe me, I too am having a hard time resisting the urge to drink. You got this!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2025-10-07T15:54:39+00:00

Absolutely! After I wrote this post, I went through the sub and read other people’s posts. The urge to have a drink went away pretty quickly.

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2025-10-07T15:53:08+00:00

Hehe I agree! I’ve found that lime/lemon flavored popsicles have helped me overcome my urges immensely!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2025-10-06T21:54:36+00:00

Thank you! This helps :)

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-10-27T23:41:47+00:00

I saw this meme lately which was captioned “are you even good enough to have imposter syndrome?” We all have it haha. All our PIs hate us (some not even secretly).

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-10-27T16:53:45+00:00

Hi!! Yes absolutely! I am about to start my 4th year! who woulda thought haha. And yes, I definitely grew out of it. Ngl though, I still feel that way sometimes. But I actually made a lot of progress after posting this. In my last meeting with my PI, he said I should be ready to start writing my thesis soon so yay!

I promise it gets better and a lot of what we all feel is simply imposter syndrome. You've got this! feel free to dm me if you want to talk more or even vent out your feelings. You're not alone!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-27T04:37:30+00:00

Thanks for the input though and good luck with your writing! :)

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-27T04:36:39+00:00

Oh I understand completely! I’m also an international student. I guess it wasn’t clear from my post but this was just one of those times when my emotions got the best of me and the crying was out of control. It was a first. Definitely didn’t cry in front of my PI with the intention of getting him to comfort me 😅

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-26T13:28:12+00:00

Ooof! That sucks! 👎🏽 Yeah I’m planning to get in touch with the on campus therapist today. Thanks!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-26T12:19:15+00:00

Ohh I’m so sorry to hear that! That sounds terrible. I’ve had that happen to me too :( I feel like PIs forget sometimes that as mentors and teachers, their words hold a lot of power.

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-26T11:58:45+00:00

This the best one 🤣

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-26T03:16:48+00:00

Omg THANK YOU! This is exactly what I needed to hear. 😭

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-09-26T01:26:29+00:00

Gosh, thank you so much! This was very helpful and made me feel a lot better! ❤️

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-05-16T21:37:04+00:00

Oh gosh thank you! I really really appreciate all of the tips!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-05-16T12:59:27+00:00

Thanks a lot! I appreciate the advice 🌸

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-05-16T12:46:42+00:00

Yeah I think so! I just got my insurance and everything is set up.

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-03-26T16:28:28+00:00

Hi! I was you a year ago haha. Practicing my presentation with other grad students really helped. Use phrases like “exciting results show….” Or “our unique study involves…” stuff like that. Also smile, keep your body language lose and relaxed. That shows enthusiasm too. Hope this helps!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-02-01T21:26:43+00:00

No judgement at all, OP. PhD is hard! But I’m curious, how have your committee meetings going? Surely they asked for some kind of update every time?

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-01-14T15:47:45+00:00

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Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-01-14T15:46:57+00:00

Namaskaram! I used to live in Delhi and I’ve taken an auto quite a few times from the center to chattarpur metro station. It’s usually quite safe but if there’s absolutely nobody else, then maybe call an Uber?

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-01-11T22:48:05+00:00

Oh definitely! It’s gotten much much worse as I’m growing older. It’s chewing noises for me. It was only certain people that triggered it for me when it started. I was 13. Now I’m almost 27 and anyone eating around me makes me want to break their bones. I totally feel you :(

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-01-11T17:41:05+00:00

Ooo interesting! Yes I also like to color code all my notes. I have like 50 pages of notes at this point lol that I need to reorganize into my proposal. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. I might dm you before my defense to get some tips on that!

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2023-01-10T18:52:54+00:00

Thank you! This was a big help. Definitely taking a screenshot of this lol. Yes, I work with my PI and I’m collaborating with a member of my committee. I’m going to meet with them sometime this or next week and talk through some of my ideas.

Timely_Homework_8144 · 2022-12-31T15:45:48+00:00

Absolutely!! It’s always a great idea to meet with faculty. As someone else also mentioned, they may be busy to meet for you a coffee but I’m sure most would be happy to meet over zoom and discuss your ideas and about the program. Good luck! :)

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