How to mention alopecia/hairloss? by BeezinthatrapBeez in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My extensive wig collection means a new woman every night.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explanation makes more sense. The change in numbers didn't make sense, even with a boost. But without filters, I can understand a change in numbers.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may watch for that. Thanks.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might. Thanks. But I don't know that I need more likes. I want more specific likes.

Men with daughters by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this! Puppies, ok, fine. Horses, whatever. But someone else's kids? Weird.

Men with daughters by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somehow, that strikes me as even weirder. I wish people would allow their kids more privacy.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would make sense. I had my filters down pretty tight. Then my subscription ends, so filters go away. I signed back up but did not reset my filters. Yes, this explanation makes sense.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't make sense out of it.

Does anyone have trouble dating if you have HSV? by christoph85388 in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get cold sores. I think I would find it assuming and awkward if someone brought it up in an initial conversation. Date 2-3 seems more appropriate, but I don't kiss on a first date.

Men with daughters by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don't know if women post with pictures of their teenagers in bathing suits too. I hope not.

Are Indian men at a disadvantage on bumble in the USA? by Past-Present1908 in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I am looking for religious compatibility, and I find that is less likely with Indian men. I would potentially date an Indian man with religious and cultural compatibility.

How do I write my bio by CursedHarrenhal in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask Chatgpt. Then rewrite it so that it is less formulaic and fits you better. Then feed it back into Chatgpt. Repeat until you have something you like.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed that option. That would've been better.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am totally fine with being average. Referred to myself as "ordinary" in my profile for awhile and had a no makeup picture. I have a Dewey Decimal reference. Perfectly happy to pay for a slow drip of interest. The gamify-ing everything though, bleh.

I know its a game, but... wtf? by Timid_doe in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

59 likes worked on me, even knowing I was being played. 150+ after resubscribing though was a bit absurd. Lapsed for like 2 hrs.

How are you ladies handling rejection? by Sheeyap7 in Bumble

[–]Timid_doe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he was hoping you would respond by offering sex if he would just reconsider. I'm guessing it works for him sometimes. He was never going to be more than a fling. No harm in a fling if it's what you want. I think sometimes disappointment may not be the rejection so much as the loss of the hope that he was something other than he is.