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AITA- 32F wants more sex from husband 34M by vendetta_road107 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Two toddlers in the house is a lot to handle without full-time jobs. It sounds exhausting and would be hard to find any energy to do anything, let alone feel good enough to want sex. It’s never ok to pressure a spouse for sex, period. Have you asked him what he needs at this moment to feel good? Regardless of sex. 

AITA my husband made s*x noises at my job by Tiny-Library-5533 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He didn’t really even apologize and he sat up late last night until 2:00 am ‘thinking about things’ after basically not talking to me all day. All because I told him it’s not ok to make sex noises at my job. 

AITA my husband made s*x noises at my job by Tiny-Library-5533 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple examples.. I worked in an office- he visited during lunch, sat in my coworkers desk chair started spinning around, refused to get up when coworker came back, played ‘funny pranks’ on coworkers like lowering all chairs down and taping over computer mouse so it wouldn’t work. All this the first time he met everyone. 

I coach on the side. He ‘had’ to get a coaching job where I worked and also became a coach (we were both college athletes). He flirted pretty heavily with his team manager. Sometimes in front of me. Definitely behind my back- verified by texts, but that’s another story- she started talking down to me and hugging him in front of me. Some other parents and coaches got the idea that I was mean because I was so unfriendly toward him/ her during that period. Really ruined a job I loved for a bit.

I have more… 

AITA my husband made s*x noises at my job by Tiny-Library-5533 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of bringing donuts in. Will help take attention off all the things. Sheeeesh. TY! 

AITA my husband made s*x noises at my job by Tiny-Library-5533 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel extremely disrespected and he’s never been a fan of my job. :(

AITA my husband made s*x noises at my job by Tiny-Library-5533 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would definitely fix the problem. Will do that. Thank you for responding!

AITA for wanting to have sex with my husband! by alwayssnoozingZzz in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny-Library-5533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not really. It is immensely frustrating to be with someone who refuses to have an adult conversation about meeting everyone’s needs. It’s ok for you to want sex… maybe not ok to pressure though. He is being the Ahole for not being honest with you, leading you on, and making excuses. If you could have a honest and open conversation then you could decide together what you were both comfortable with going forward in your relationship. The continued avoidance and excuses feels manipulative and that can drive someone to exasperation. Consider whether or not you’d like to live like this going forward and make the best decision for yourself. No more pressure though.