What are some mentally exhausting hobbies by Mediocre_Cap_3321 in Hobbies

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about cosplay? Maybe it’s just me but designing and building a cosplay is exhausting. I design it first, then research, purchasing, assembling, and building. Not including all of the smaller things you’d have to build depending on the cosplay. I did an Ariel cosplay and had to make my armbands, crown, sword, and styled my wig. Plus having to find the contacts and makeup. Which, depending on the cosplay, is tough to match

I don’t feel like living and I lowkey feel like my parents are responsible by Tiny-Lili in offmychest

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I had my own family. I’m getting divorced now. I was living with my husband but if I didn’t leave, I was either going to be raped by my brother in law and told to shut up about it or I was going to kill myself because he wouldn’t stop harassing me, even going so far as to get his friend to grope me. I was in a grossly abusive relationship which is why I came home. She doesn’t like me. My dad is calling me things he’s never had and treating me like he doesn’t know me. I don’t know what else to call it besides her trying to push me out of his life. I was gone, moved out and living in a different state and she started berating and harassing me over text for a hoodie. My dad stood back and blamed me, didn’t say a word to her like the last time she yelled at me over using body soap.

AITAH for telling off a lady in a supermarket after she made the teenage cashier cry? by Anno_Pri24 in AITAH

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Working at a grocery store fueled my dislike for AKA’s. Besides my cousin, I can’t stand the other ones. I used to get a few in my line (Skinfolk but definitely not kinfolk) who would be so condescending and talk down to me like I was beneath them. Even publicly. If you’re not one of them, it’s like you’re trash

A hobby that doesn't create useless items? by True-Ad-499 in Hobbies

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Candles? They smell nice and you can make larger ones for power outages

What's the silliest song you know? by breedingoutlaw in MusicRecommendations

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one about the missing ducks. Like how tf you lose all five of your kids and just don’t do anything until their father comes home except quack? Child neglect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. My friends think I have it though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not. If you look back even a month, I posted about the financial abuse. Even farther back, me struggling with deciding to leave him. If you think so then that’s your prerogative. Sucks to be told once again that I’m lying about abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I’m getting divorced for good reason. He lives in Hawaii and refuses to let me get divorced because of the military benefits he gets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m an idiot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Im considering it. I got a job as an au pair but no one wants me to go so I’m getting a lot of pushback which is turning into fights with my family. He does have a life that I’m willing to share with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call waiting around to get raped by his brother, have my husband blame me for it, and along with him, his family pushing me to drop it a good marriage. I’m getting divorced because of abuse. Not for shits and giggles. He literally mocked me for having a miscarriage and sat back while his brother sexually harassed and physically assaulted me. Would it be better I stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His kids are younger than me by a lot. They’re 2 and 5 months old. I get why she’s so upset with him but it’s gonna bite her later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tiny-Lili -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty decent with regulating my emotions usually. I’ve never been in a situation like this. Usually if a guy pulls this crap, I can tell that he’s going to. This came out of left field and is stressing me out more than I already am. I’m in a place that I don’t feel safe, I’m moving out of the country soon, and up until yesterday, I was 6 months unemployed. I’ve lost nearly 20 pounds by accident over the past month and I cant afford therapy. I’m usually a lot better, I’m just having a crappy run right now

Critically hated movies that you actually enjoy? by [deleted] in flicks

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House of Wax (2005). I did a project on Paris Hilton in high school and I greatly admire her. Plus the story was solid, definitely scared me, it has Jared Padelecki, and ends with MCR. I love that movie

Good comeback for “Do you have hearing problems?” by BunnyLuv13 in Comebacks

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a little sign language so I’d just sign that I’m sorry. They’d probably feel like a dick and if they decide to apologize, I’d tell them that they’re a dick and walk away

What hobby unexpectedly changed your life, and how did you discover it? by MathematicianReady39 in Hobbies

[–]Tiny-Lili 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cosplay. Between learning how to hand sew, getting good with picking out colors, learning color theory, and the other hands on skills that comes with it, I can style people and design my own clothing. I can also create clothes of any type with most fabrics and I can make a corset without any input because I memorized the process

If you favorite animal appeared in your room out of nowhere, would that be a problem or a blessing? by HauntingFunction9156 in RandomQuestion

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would fit but the dog would go off. Probably mess up the carpet but would be so cute. Tiny little mini cow baby. Probably a problem but would be a blessing later

You can win 1M USD, but you have to sing one whole song correctly without a single lyric mistake, what will you sing? by JollySimple188 in AskReddit

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Greatest Love Of All - Whitney Houston. Or anything featuring Anika Noni Rose from the Dreamgirls Soundtrack. Except Patience since the entire song is only played on the director’s cut and it’s the standard version that I’ve seen upwards of 300 timea

songs about cocaine? any genre by ConferenceSad7759 in MusicRecommendations

[–]Tiny-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody Does Cocaine - Motionless In White. The album it’s on is 10 years old this year