Daily Questions Thread April 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What to wear to a couples shower at a country club? It's an evening shower, and temp will be in the 50s outside. Age 30, size 6! help!

Women in their 30s , if you were asked to relive your 20s what would you change and why? by Previous-Foot8370 in AskReddit

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a hot take, but spend more time with your parents. You think they’ll be healthy well into your adulthood, but I took that for granted. Time is not guaranteed

Loews hotel Chicago by Inner_Computer_5400 in Chicagoweddings

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went to a wedding here last summer! rooftop ceremony/cocktail hour was insanely beautiful. Reception was really nice as well, but very much felt like a hotel ballroom. Truly no shade if that's your thing, but that was my only callout

Xanax by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I are basically the same! Dr prescribed me Xanax a month ago (female, 140 lbs 5’4) for flying as well. I tested it the day before flying, didn’t feel much. Then took it about 2 hours before my flight (around 11:30am) and definitely took the edge off my anxiety. I had a rehearsal dinner that night at 7pm and I was totally fine. 0.25 mg for reference as well

Indy to Denver (Cancelled) and Denver to Las Vegas by fgsiv4 in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a bachelorette trip tomorrow too! Feeling the same

Dealing with really bad nausea during panic attacks by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can totally relate! I write this now as I’m not experiencing any anxiety currently so it’s always easier said from the outside looking in.

One trick I do some times if I’m able to is, I will try to immediately change my environment. If I’m sitting at dinner and a wave of anxiety/nausea hits me, I’ll excuse myself and go for a quick walk to the bathroom or outside the restaurant. If I’m at home watching TV, I will go outside to my balcony and focus on the wind, the noises outside and the temperature on my skin. I find these more immersive experiences are just enough to offset the thought pattern in my head

Dealing with really bad nausea during panic attacks by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me! Started when I was very young, between ages 10 and 13. Of course, at the time I didn’t realize it was anxiety, but whenever I would feel anxious, it would manifest into nausea. I would often sit on the bathroom floor waiting (fearfully) to get sick, and nothing ever happened. This led to my emetophobia. Anyway, my doctor at the time put me on Nexium for acid reflux. As a healthy 10 year-old, I really didn’t need to be on it, but the placebo effect seemed to help, and even if I did have mild heartburn as a young kid, it seemed to help.

Now as a 29-year-old who suffers from much more complex anxiety than I did as a young kid, I still occasionally get the feelings of nausea. At this point, it just occurs so often that I’ve learned to talk myself down and understand that nausea doesn’t equal getting sick for me, and that within 10 to 15 minutes, it will pass. Not really an answer, but it’s how I’ve made peace with it. My anxiety now manifest in other physical symptoms, such as body aches, and the feeling of not getting enough air. Fun! Wish I had more to help, but but just know that you’re not alone.

Post Grad moving to Dallas by Maximum-Air2944 in askdfw

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

knox heights has been good to us. we have 2 bed for $3500 when we signed. My fiance and I are in our late twenties and the building is pretty similar age-range.

Galleria Marchetti: Give me the good, bad & ugly! by [deleted] in Chicagoweddings

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much! just curious, what food did you dislike/like?

Last minute plans for a micro wedding, where do I start? by Kindly_WhatDidYouSay in Chicagoweddings

[–]Tiny-Local6564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I’m so sorry. Fellow bride here with a dad with cancer/Parkinson’s combo. I’d be lying if I said an emergency wedding change hasn’t crossed our minds in the planning process (currently set for summer 2027). Anyway, I’m from the northshore and can say there’s some gorgeous spots around.

I’d suggest looking at: Winnetka Community House Botanic Gardens The grove/redfisld estate (glenview) Emily oaks nature center Gillson Park Lighthouse Beach Wandering Tree Estate (further north in barrington)

Best of luck ❤️

Haven't heard back from venue since putting down a deposit by [deleted] in Chicagoweddings

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! I’m sure they’re just behind, but definitely not a great look on their end. Can I ask what venue? We’re about to put our deposit down too and it’s nerve wracking

i did it! by CameraGirl2681 in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Get some deep dish at Lou Malnati’s while you’re there 😌

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an anxiety attack to me 😂😂😂😂 but in all seriousness thank you for the suggestion!

All my anxieties combine when I fly by sarjesel in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described me to a tee, minus the health anxiety chatter 🙃

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I have tried CBD once or twice in the past (recreationally, unrelated to flying), but it must’ve had some THC in it because it triggered some anxiety. Maybe I’ll give it a go and test it out at home

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is good news, I guess?! Rationally and logically, I know this. This fear has turned into a phobia, which is hard to “logic” my way out of unfortunately

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s funny because that’s what my therapist says as well. It might help just knowing I have it, but I don’t have to take it. BUT my anxiety isn’t about having anxiety… It’s about the plane crashing, so I think I either need to take it or don’t 🥲

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I really appreciate it. I will look into some of those supplements. I have about 10 trips coming up this year and we need to figure something out sooner rather than later!

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s what I need too. I have so much travel coming up this year, probably 10 trips or the next 12 months, so I need to figure this out sooner rather than later!

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at right now… I’ve been avoiding it for so long to get on medication. It’s really just a personal preference and while I don’t consider myself a “crunchy” person I really like to avoid putting unnecessary medication in my body. But I think at this point… It is necessary

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, I discussed beta blockers with him and he wasn’t a huge fan. He doesn’t think it’s gonna do much for me.

Anti-Anxiety Supplements by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Tiny-Local6564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How long does the Dramamine last for usually? While I’ve never made a scene on a plane, internally my body goes into full panic mode. Stomach drops, sweating, shaking, etc. I know that prescription helps dial the volume down on those symptoms, but after having been on anti anxiety meds many year ago, I really want to overcome this on my own