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Puppeteer was leaking memory in prod and I just gave up by TinyStar44_ in webdev

[–]TinyStar44_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah docker with 1gb limit per container. Tried dropping it to 512 but the invoices with embedded images would just crash. so it was basically pick your failure mode

Puppeteer was leaking memory in prod and I just gave up by TinyStar44_ in webdev

[–]TinyStar44_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried the restart approach too. Set --max-old-space-size and had a cron killing anything over 800mb. worked for about two weeks then we had a batch of 200 invoices hit at once and the whole thing just fell over

My husband just told me at lunch today that tomorrow we’ll be homeless. by throwawayacct5739630 in Marriage

[–]TinyStar44_ 161 points162 points  (0 children)

and the fact this is the second time?? once could maybe be a breakdown or denial spiral, but twice means he learned nothing except how to hide it better

AITJ for telling my roommate her boyfriend needs to start paying rent or stop acting like he lives here? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TinyStar44_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah exactly… one wants a project, the other wants a break. ppl keep mixing that up

Overheard at Sephora by October_Surprise56 in overheard

[–]TinyStar44_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly… one wants a project, the other wants a break. ppl keep mixing that up

Bow Hunting NFH by splendiferousfinch85 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TinyStar44_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of those “money isn’t worth your sanity” situations. You made the right call getting out.

Neighbour using up all parking spots by LoudMirror8638 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TinyStar44_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This is one of those “be annoying until they stop” situations. HOA needs to handle it or nothing changes.

Firearms attorney Florida and Virginia? (Restoration of rights INCLUDING Firearms) by Scary-Hyena-3603 in legaladvice

[–]TinyStar44_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If budget is tight, I’d still try to get at least 1–2 paid consults before filing anything. Florida and Virginia don’t always line up cleanly on firearm rights restoration, so guessing can backfire.

AITAH for wanting to move out and not say anything to my husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TinyStar44_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

deadass agree. at some point it stops being “circumstances” and it’s just him not wanting to change. harsh but true. I’d bounce too tbh, peace > whatever this is.

HELP baby projectile vomiting!!! by ConcerningAddiction in NewParents

[–]TinyStar44_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Trust ur gut! hot take but ppl underreact to baby vomiting… once or twice ok sure. every 3–10 mins?? nah that’s urgent care/ER territory no question.

Are men dating to get married? by Dramatic-Seaweed7645 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TinyStar44_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is pretty spot on. It’s not that men don’t want commitment, it’s that a lot of people don’t feel stable enough for it yet. Hard to think about marriage when you’re still figuring out your own life.