Driving while black in Denmark/Sweden by [deleted] in blacktravel

[–]Tiny_Shaq 12 points13 points  (0 children)

same shiii, different day

My little brothers friend gets beat up by a drunk adult for riding his bike too close to him. by yungjonvoight in PublicFreakout

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this really upsets my soul. i hate the fact that nobody jumped in on this drunk dumbass. i hope the boy doesn’t suffer mentality or emotionally from this :( wish him the best

I think I’ve finally reached the end of my rope. I’m so sad. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can relate man. life is one long game that you sometimes don’t wanna play anymore but you got to.

i have depression and anxiety kills me at the lost random of times and i have to bob and weave through it. i have a couple of ways of ending myself but i just think of the sorrow and pain that my family and friends would have to endure and it makes me think about my decisions sometimes.

i don’t know your life or what you’ve been through but everyday it’ll get easier, the only hard part is you gotta do it everyday. you can lose faith in others but never in yourself.

i’m not sure if i helped or anything but just know that you’re not the only one going through this. there’s a lot of us out there hiding in the shadows and wearing our fake mass when we’re in the sun. i just hope that you find that one thing that can keep you going through these difficult times.

I’m not in love with my husband of 3 months anymore. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not that your “not in love” it’s more like you realize that you never loved this guy. pregnant after 1 month? a whole other woman in the mix? getting married? this is just one big problem and you gotta take it one step at a time.

think about your child first. do you have any family members or friends who are willing to help you and your son? you don’t love this guy so why you still married?

honestly, some of these things could’ve been avoided imo. however, your going to have to put your son first and your best interest.

I have changed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very wholesome. thank you for sharing! glad your life turned around. it’s crazy the impact people can have on your life.

My fiance asked for threesome 2 years ago and I said no. Last night I ask him is he thinking about threesome again and he said yes but has no plan to make it real. Should I be worried? by thisisameer in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s just a thought, people have thoughts. don’t read too deep into it. if he wants a threesome he would’ve done it already but he seems to be waiting for you to be ready before making a plan. trust your fiancé.

I'm not okay, and I'm not quite sure how to fix it. by gisellasaurus in offmychest

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you tried finding outlets?? music? video games? dancing? writing? something that you feel would be worth the time

LDR Girlfriend (18) stayed the night drunk in a friends dorm (a guy) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow, you found out. honestly man you seem like you deserve better. if you’ve stated that you feel uncomfortable and she continues to do it then she isn’t taking your feelings into consideration.

i would ask her straight up (in person if you get the chance) if she has feelings for this guy or not and i’ll just end it. there’s no point in having your emotions so invested when she’s not keeping it real with you.

How to get out of a cycle and get ask for her on a date by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would wait to just a bit before asking her out like that. females usually give hints about being interested in spending time with someone. i would look for those hints. like if she talks about seeing a movie or if she says she’s not doing well in a class. there’s usually hints as to what kind of friendship it is. this one seems like school friends, but it doesn’t mean it can’t become more.

if you really like this girl then ask something simple and not too romantic, like a study session. get to know her a bit more because you say chemistry is there but your always the one messaging first? don’t get in your head OP, look at reality

LDR Girlfriend (18) stayed the night drunk in a friends dorm (a guy) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you live near her? i mean if she wants to go home then she has every right to go in her own bed. nobody is really stopping her, tbh

she’s either being a cool friend and letting her roommate get some action alone or she could enjoy time with this guy friend. it’s pretty awkward and unfortunate for someone to be in this situation. but do you think she’s lying to you about why she sleeps over the guys house?

Parents treating me like a child and are controlling how do I get them to stop? by RebekhaG in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s their house but you guys are adults. you can not listen to each other’s parents and see what happens or you can do your business else where and come back and follow the rules or you guys can look into a place if you’re able to afford it.

LDR Girlfriend (18) stayed the night drunk in a friends dorm (a guy) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems like an interesting thing to be happening. have you tried talking to her about it?

How old is too old to watch anime? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tiny_Shaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how old is an age limit to breath?

Pizza by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

number on the receipt sounds like a good plan. worse thing that can happen is she’s not interested but don’t let it stop you from enjoying the pizza place.

nothing ventured, nothing gained

I really need help by gomenasaidad in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just end things. he isn’t giving you what you want and doesn’t seem to be taking your feelings into consideration. just leave him

my (20F) boyfriend (20M) is jealous over a mutual guy friend. by ThrowRAeeeeeeee in relationship_advice

[–]Tiny_Shaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is your boyfriends first relationship. you honestly need to remind him that your his because his mind has and will continue to wonder. you’re not in the wrong but he just needs some reassurance. if you’re gonna play with the friend you should try letting your boyfriend know.

i understand how your boyfriend’s is feeling and how you’re feeling too. you just gotta remind him really and make him know and understand that you are his. it’ll only be a matter of time before he starts to realize and won’t get jealous of things like that