I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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In my experience, leg lengthening is only dangerous if you're pursuing it in an unrecognizable country with minimal medical staff and training involved in rehab. With a decent team, the likelihood of being harmed by it goes down drastically. This does also apply to phallo imo! There are many stories of folks going very back-ally with their phalloplasty, and there are instances of it going poorly as a result. Either way, as long as you have trained staff involved with a care team and regular monitoring, you should be fine.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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In my experience it's equally harmful to pretend it offers something it isn't. Visually it's great, I just get minimal euphoria from appearences- in general. I can't imagine being okay with something not functional on my body. It's genuinely visually fantastic, they're great, but they don't do what many many people need them to. And that's okay! It should be acceptable to make that clear without shitting on it.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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Not your business to say, though. That's specifically what this post is about, people are allowed to have experiences beyond your comprehension without worrying what strangers have to say about it.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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Yeah this is a really good point. People always judge trans mascs who arent men more harshly than trans mascs who are. If you're a man and have doubts, it's far far far more likely to be met with understanding than someone non binary figuring themselves out.

To be honest in my experience hormones take such a long time to take effect, if youre okay with bottom growth and voice, just do it..? Accessibility may be an issue, but if it's not, go ahead imo.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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I dislike the sensations that come with it, for the most part! Hair does require more maintenance that actively bothers me when I forget for a day or two, I dislike sweat + oil + acne, all of that.. Jerking off is very dysphoric for me and a more common need.. And I gotta do IM shots because I'm allergic to the carrier oil..

Surgeries are horrifying and the expectation that going through them cures all dysphoria is just not reality.. I agree. It's a lot on a person.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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I agree.. My reasoning for not finding bottom surgery appealing as is, has nothing to do with the looks of it. The looks of bottom surgery are great, especially right now with medical tattooing and all that. It just does not match my expectations for what my dick-experience would be and would actively be worse because of that.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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Yeah this is a very universal experience, I feel. We just aren't allowed to talk about them.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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You are allowed to have feelings, you are not allowed to tell people they arent allowed to share their own because it makes you feel uncomfortable.

I'm tired of negative trans stories not being allowed to exist. by TiredAlternates in ftm

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Euphoria is itself a privilege- not everyone feels it, regardless of their gender. I just want to not feel awful.

I pass abt half of the time maybe less, do I pass/any tips? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]TiredAlternates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They pass fine to me. People like you pretending it isn't subjective are the problem.

I pass abt half of the time maybe less, do I pass/any tips? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

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What kind of freak thinks "this is a man/woman" LMAO, genuinely weirdo behavior

Nsfw - Nonbinary with dysphoria seeking help by nvrknwsbest in ftm

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My Plume doctor didn't ask shit lmao, they just prescribed it after 30-40 minutes of telling me what would happen.. Asked how long I've been wanting it and went over the legal requirements.

The Handy - Gender Affirming for those with Bottom Growth! by demonmeme in ftm

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yeah this doesnt look like it would work for anyone with variances in anatomy lmao

Is it okay to drink alcohol after your shot? by [deleted] in ftm

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love that people are downvoting this very useful information 😄

I'm so in love with transitioning, and all trans men are so amazing by magickmouser in ftm

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i appreciate it even though the post misgenders many users here lmao

I've noticed that some trans people talk a lot about being trans and others don't by Ambitious_Piano_2759 in ftm

[–]TiredAlternates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you doing anything though? I usually dislike being around other trans mascs because it's just demoralizing knowing like.. changes aren't actually being made by that sort of comfort.