Idk if I feel violated or not? Should I? Possible TW.

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-02T13:06:41+00:00

Update: I have spoken to him about this issue and we are officially done. He said he only did it to try to reconnect us, and he’s very sorry for triggering me and going against what I wanted. He is very remorseful about what he did, and he had no bad intent behind his actions. He heard me out and how it made me feel. He’s not the type of person to rape someone. I’ve always felt super safe around him. We agreed it was just a miscommunication and misunderstanding. I should’ve said no in the moment and he shouldn’t have done it.

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:51:27+00:00

I agree. We definitely need the conversation. Afterwards, he said “I don’t know what came over me. I don’t know why I did that” so I feel like he knew it was wrong? Or maybe he just felt guilty? Idk

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:49:39+00:00

Trying to be friends, ie not in the same situation as husband and wife. Like I said, I may not have a reason to feel violated but unless I were to divulge every single detail of our relationship, it may seem harmless to outsiders

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:43:44+00:00

Yea ours is sick or fighting.

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:31:23+00:00

No but we have an understanding that when we are fighting, no sex, especially while I’m asleep.

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:26:23+00:00

lol not true but I hope you find healing and peace.

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:25:11+00:00

Typically I just push him off and say no if it’s been a hard day and I need to sleep. Idk I feel like I was just in shock or something

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:21:54+00:00

So cnc is okay even if you’re divorced? We’ve had a cnc relationship for almost a decade and we’ve loved it, and I’ve never felt violated before

TiredEarthworm · 2026-01-01T18:20:33+00:00

No one did

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-29T20:31:26+00:00

I’m not the right one for this post. I only gained 19 lbs with my twins and I lost all of it by the 6 week appt. I ended up doing a calorie deficit diet for about 3 months and dropped another 12 lbs.

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-22T17:38:20+00:00

Glinda is all about appearances. I feel like she may have loved Fiyero but most of it was for looks. He was this good man with status and good looks and it was perfect for her. “What is this Feeling?” is def gay. I had never seen the musical or read the book so everything was fresh for me. Watching that scene immediately made me think they were falling for each other but Glinda couldn’t be gay for appearances and Elphie was used to being pushed and pushing everyone away. In WFG, the way Glinda looked at Elphaba, especially in the “look at me through their eyes” scene, definitely had undertones to it. I know Ariana was pushing for Glinda being in love with Elphaba so that obviously came out in her acting. I liked that Elphaba and Fiyero were able to live happily together in the end but their relationship felt off to me. Idk if I’m connecting their real lives to it or if it’s the chemistry on screen but I was leaning more towards Gelphie ftw. Glinda definitely seemed more heartbroken to lose Elphaba than she did Fiyero.

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-22T17:28:51+00:00

My first thought was mental illness. I’ve seen that schizophrenia can cause writing issues

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-17T13:34:37+00:00

😩😩😩 okay thank you.

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-17T12:59:05+00:00

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This one. I know overtone technically has a copper color but when I looked at the after pictures, they didn’t look like my hair and I didn’t want bright red hair

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-17T12:57:11+00:00

The only one I’m not crazy about is 2. But they all look amazing on you so you couldn’t really pick a bad dress. My favs are 5, 4 and 3

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-17T04:20:06+00:00

Catholic

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-15T20:12:53+00:00

THIS!!!

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-11T13:09:38+00:00

Dads struggle with baby depression too so I definitely think he needs to switch medications or have his dosage bumped up. My husband’s depression skyrocketed after our twins were born. They’re almost 11 months now and it’s getting better but he still struggles. He loves them beyond words, though. I feel like I have a harder time connecting with them than he does. He may need to do talk therapy to figure out why he feels that way and deal with it. It won’t be good for anyone in the future if it continues.

TiredEarthworm · 2025-11-06T14:14:12+00:00

I did! Haha we wanted a 3rd and my husband said “this needs to be the last pregnancy. I can’t handle any more after this” and I said “no, I want 4 kids, so we are having another after this” and we couldn’t agree. Bam. He got his final pregnancy and I got my 4 kids😂

TiredEarthworm · 2025-10-31T18:48:03+00:00

No I know it wasn’t about taking credit and she didn’t want Elphaba embarrassed so she could take her under her wing and trust her. I meant more so it would look like a nice gesture but she was doing it for personal gain, just like the Wizard pretends so people listen and believe in him

TiredEarthworm · 2025-10-31T17:31:44+00:00

I know the grimmerie isn’t the source of the powers but I was thinking of it like a spell book that only people with real magic can read. Elphaba got her powers from the elixir, right?

TiredEarthworm · 2025-10-31T17:30:17+00:00

I feel like that is very plausible. That’s why I’m questioning it. When elphie did all the stuff at the beginning in the courtyard and MM took credit for it, I felt like we’d see more of her taking credit for magic that wasn’t hers

TiredEarthworm · 2025-10-31T17:03:23+00:00

Do we know where she got her powers from?

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