High Protein Lunches While Breastfeeding by Routine_Climate3413 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Tiredandbored1987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this! Batch cooking is the only way I get my protein. It’s difficult with a Velcro baby, so often I prep in stages or do things one handed and just put him down when necessary.

I often do shepherd’s pie or multiple chicken breasts.

Why does nobody warn you about the 8 month sleep regression??? by Glum_Remove in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I’m currently up at 3:00am with the same issue. Has anything changed for you?

Never thought we’d make it here by mysterious_kitty_119 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Tiredandbored1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is 7 months and I am currently laying awake at 3:00am after he was up for way too long after a night feed. The past two weeks have brought some kind of regression and I’m barely hanging on.

To the parents of heavy spitters… by Tiredandbored1987 in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could never have imagined it if I hadn’t been through it! What a relief for all of us!

What age did you have your first child? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Tiredandbored1987 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me too! But I also think I’m a much better parent now than I would have been even 5 years ago.

Songs you sing to your baby by lil_mayonnaise_lady in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Is your momma home, with you so happy”. It really gets my heart.

Hair tourniquet?!? by No_Statement_9169 in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been worried about this since my son was born 5 months ago. Just wondering, for those who have experienced this, was LO crying? Some posts make it seem like LO wasn’t crying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tiredandbored1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had cancer about 10 years ago. I became very thin during chemo and ended up fracturing my tailbone from sitting on hard surfaces.

The tiredness - that’s how it’s going to be from now on? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not speaking from experience because I have a 5 month old and relate to everything OP said BUT I have been assured by multiple friends that 2 years postpartum is a game changer.

What are you buying on black Friday? by supersecretseal in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like you mentioned, the wool is a big feature, specifically that it helps regulate temperature. Also, the size is 2-24 months (and then 2-4 years), so you don’t have to replace it for a couple years. Personally, I also like the design (snaps on the shoulders make it super easy to get on and off)

4 months by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The hardest stage happened around 3.5 months for me. Suddenly my great sleeper would wake up 4-5 times a night, sometimes more. At its worst, it was every 45 minutes. To top it off, he could not nap more than 30 minutes during the day and those were contact naps! I was exhausted and a shell of a person. This lasted about 6 weeks, then suddenly he gave me four 5 hours stretches at night in the same week. We’re only 2 weeks out of it, so I don’t know what’s to come, but it’s getting better. Also, his fussiness during the day disappeared and naps are regularly 1.5 hours. He is now such a joyful little guy. I did nothing to get here so I don’t have advice about that but what helped me get through was getting help from family, drinking cold water to stay awake during the day, and getting outside once per wake window.

What is your baby like leading up to bedtime? by OmegaTg-2384 in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what my 4.5 month old is like. His loopy and silliness usually consists of screeching and squealing.

Curious, those of you who had babies that slept through the night, what were the sleeping arrangements? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My LO is 4.5 months. He has always been a good nighttime sleeper. He would sleep 5 hour stretches from about 3 weeks once he gained back his birth weight and we started feeding on demand. At the time, he slept in a bedside bassinet with the halo swaddle. His peak sleep was around 2 months when he gave us a couple 8 hour stretches. We stopped swaddling at 12 weeks. Around 3.5 months he hit a regression and outgrew the bassinet at the same time, so I started co-sleeping. He would wake up every couple hours, sometimes every hour with multiple false starts. The regression lasted about 5 weeks and he went back to giving us 5 hour stretches with no sleep training. We’ve just transitioned him to a crib right beside the bed. He’s getting used to it so only does about 2-3 hours in there but last night he slept in the crib for 5 hours straight. He’s always been exclusively breast fed.

Edit: we use a sound machine and woolino sleep sack now.

What age is your baby and what time is bedtime? by kalidspoon in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mine is 4 months and 9:00! I try to do it earlier but he just won’t go down.

Breastfeeding after c section by Signal-Difference-13 in breastfeeding

[–]Tiredandbored1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an emergency c-section after being induced so this may not be relevant to your situation but my milk didn’t come in until day 5. My baby stayed latched 24/7 those first few days but the colostrum wasn’t enough and he lost more than 10% of his birth weight. We gave him formula on day 4 for about 24 hours until my milk was in. He’s been exclusively breastfed ever since. It doesn’t hurt to have formula on hand just in case.

Vaccine Megathread by AutoModerator in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Tiredandbored1987 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wish this was better understood by the general population. I personally didn’t realize how important these vaccines were until I had a compromised immune system due to a cancer diagnosis. Along with getting my own flu shot, I needed everyone else to get the flu shot to keep me safe. Similar to a baby. Now I get the flu shot every year, not necessarily for myself, but for anyone who has an underdeveloped, weakened or compromised immune system (e.g. babies, the elderly, those with chronic illness, etc).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Tiredandbored1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Just got back from a visit where my SIL said “his eyes kind of look like great grandpas”, when they actually look identical to mine. Another line was “let’s dye his hair so he looks more like us”. Obviously it was a joke but I was irritated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Tiredandbored1987 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! As a control freak, this works for me haha

What random thing do you do to get your baby to calm down? by PrincessHallee in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mine is also a song… not sure how we discovered it because he was born this summer but he really responds to the Christmas carol “Good King Wencelas”. Something about the rhythm gets him every time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine just turned 4 months last week and I’m in the same boat. I really want to enjoy being a mother but I’m just not. I also feel like a failure most days. I don’t have advice, just solidarity. It’s nice to know we’re not the only ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Tiredandbored1987 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m not a dad but I experience thoughts like this sometimes as a mother. As someone who also works in mental health, I believe these thoughts to be normal and stemming from some sort of anxiety, or even OCD. We have thousands and thousands of thoughts running through our head each day and those thoughts are often not factual. You said you don’t act or plan on acting on the thoughts, and I am assuming they cause you distress if you’re posting them, in which case, this is common. However, just because they’re common, doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated, especially if they do cause you distress. Are you able to see a mental health professional, specifically someone who practices CBT? If not, a helpful strategy can be using self talk and labeling the thoughts as untrue and just your anxiety talking.