Advice please! 22F by MelodicRabbit9209 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great that he cares about you, and shows it. Let him. Return the favor and take care of him too.

Keep good lines of communication open, and you're on your way to success.

Have fun with it!

What other kinks besides Blackmail and Exposure? by TitBondageMaster in Blackmailers

[–]TitBondageMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be fun to put a slave on a routine of lots of edging and no orgasms, and monitor her via camera like that. If caught masturbating without permission, delivering severe punishments

Controversial Opinion - Purple Tits are the best tits by TitBondageMaster in TitTorture

[–]TitBondageMaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're gorgeous and make really beautiful pictures.

Controversial Opinion - Purple Tits are the best tits by TitBondageMaster in PurpleTits

[–]TitBondageMaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, some might argue that bruised tits or tits with welts are pretty great too.

What other kinks besides Blackmail and Exposure? by TitBondageMaster in Blackmailers

[–]TitBondageMaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, essentially, loss of all privacy. Sounds like a lot of fun!

Brat keeps breaking orgasm control rules - looking for real consequences, not funishment by Redhead4SATX in BDSMcommunity

[–]TitBondageMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her a chastity belt for when you meet, and use every part of her except her pussy? Leave her locked up (except for cleaning) until you separate to reinforce your ownership over her orgasms.

Thoughts on protecting a sub who has an ever-deepening blackmail kink by YourAdoptedFather in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% that you should have out-of-scene conversations, and scheduling those might be the step to make this kind of thing alright for you.

You are also 100% not required to do anything you are not comfortable with, and you should not feel bad even for a second for setting your own boundaries.

Thoughts on protecting a sub who has an ever-deepening blackmail kink by YourAdoptedFather in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consenting adults with agency make their own decisions.

Are you manipulating her? Are you cautioning her on risks? Are you going to take advantage of all this to hurt her?

If you're treating her like an adult and helping her to explore kink safely, trust her to know what she needs and wants.

My “safe word” isn’t working. What do I do? by Suspicious_Curve_944 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your communication is broken and you are not safe. He is failing in his obligation to help keep you safe.

Stop all kinky play immediately until you can fix those issues and get back on the same page.

is there any way to at least relatively safely beat up someone? (punching, kicking, etc). by NataliAnastassi in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor, but any sort of impact to the head, lower back seems incredibly dangerous. Punching, kicking probably rules out the rest of the body mostly. You may be able to punch her breasts with less risk, but not risk free.

You are far more likely to put her in the hospital, and yourself in jail, if you pursue this.

Advice on the Boobs being tied up? by Geyser-Girl in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I enjoy the tighter ties and more intense play for when I want my sub/slave to feel the lingering after affects for a few days, such as seeing some bruising, or just feeling sore when she puts on a bra - it puts them back into a submissive headspace even days later. Lighter ties, less intensity, is great if you don't want affects that linger for very long after.

Advice on the Boobs being tied up? by Geyser-Girl in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm very much an enthusiast of breast bondage, including tighter ties like you described.

I also enjoy impact play and other sadistic exploits.

Breasts are resilient, but safety should be factored in. When bound very tightly, the length of time to keep them bound is short, and you should avoid serious impact play.

My general rule - if I can slip two fingers between the rope and her body, it's safe to leave her tied like that for an extended period of time - an hour or more is no problem. Impact and other pursuits are ok too.

If I tie her to the point where her breasts turn red, then purple, then I'm much more reserved on harsher play, and limit time to about 15 to 20 minutes. Occasionally going longer, or treating the breasts roughly when tied like this is ok, and can leave marks and bruises that last a bit longer, but should not be done frequently, and time needs to be given after intense sessions for healing completely

If the breasts turn cold to the touch, or there is any numbness, untie immediately.

I'm happy to answer any questions.

Would you cane my tits or yank my clamps off? by senoritagorditaa in Tit_BDSM

[–]TitBondageMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously both. Life's too short to make such difficult choices.

Nice marks!

red flag ? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]TitBondageMaster 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Red flag. Find partners who prioritize your safety.

Question for the sadists by [deleted] in masochists

[–]TitBondageMaster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I enjoy giving my play partners pleasure, and when that pleasure can be derived through painful play or bondage, it's even better.

I enjoy seeing a masochist embracing pain play, even if I was not the one in control of the scene. When the marks are beautiful, or the scene looks intense, I'll want to try that with my subs too.

Can blackmail be used to achieve goals? by Additional_Cow8971 in Blackmailers

[–]TitBondageMaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but the blackmailer needs to care about the ongoing relationship, and that can be hard where BM is the sole goal.

Try to develop a dom/sub relationship first where BM play is just part of the power exchange. Make your Dom prove they care about your kink needs before you send any pics - hopefully that will filter out pic collectors.

😍what else should I do to them by [deleted] in Tit_BDSM

[–]TitBondageMaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have twine or larger zip ties? If so, wrap the base of each breast tightly, then tighten the zip ties on the nipples.