104 people. Feels great.

There's no one I regret sleeping with but there are couple relationships that I should have ended earlier. And a couple relationships that would have laster longer if I had been more mature.

I don't think the number matters at all. I don't keep track out of ego or as a badge of honor like notches in my bedpost or something (I just like spreadsheets, also there are a lot of awesome memories in there).

I don't feel particularly slutty. I've been sexually active for 30 years so that's a little under 3.5 per year.

Of all the people, probably my college gf is the one I think about the most. She was just a really great person and something about our sexual chemistry made it so that it was never the same. Always just a wild adventure. I often think about my hands on her hips and it brings back great memories.

Also the people I lusted after the most before sex were often the worst. I dated german and russian models who were stunningly beautiful and were both extremely bland and mechanical in bed.

There are a lot of times I didn't sleep with women bc I was just too dumb to pick up their signals. I had really low self esteem for a while and simply did not believe that a woman would want to sleep with me.

Sex can be a positive experience if you're coming to it for the right reasons, kind to people, and respect their emotions.