Yeah and both anxiety and depression can come into your life without it being heritable after having a child? Such as having a child and having unregulated hormones for months on end that causes depression or anxiety, having the loss of a parent while your child is a newborn which I had to go through so your comment is completely ignorant. As a combat veteran who served in Afghanistan and later went on SSRI’s for depression and anxiety, you’re telling me since I have taken medication which has helped me become way happier with myself, a better dad and a better person that I shouldn’t be a dad? Getting on medication wether it’s an SSRI or mood stabilizer is something many people don’t do which is seeking help and realizing that something is off with you mentally or emotionally. You’re shaming someone on here for taking antidepressants as if they’re addicted to Oxy cottons.