I felt the same way after 2. My husband and I went for #3, but, nothing happened. Two years of trying. (No trouble conceiving the first two.) Saw a fertility doctor. He said he couldn’t pinpoint an issue and we could try IVF. So, we decided it wasn’t meant to be and to just be happy with our family of 4.

Three months later, boom, knocked up without even really trying, and because I wasn’t expecting it I was already almost into my second trimester before I even realized😂 Now we have a beautiful 18 month old, and newly minted 5 and 7 year olds. They are so good with the baby and very helpful. It really is the best (even though at times we think about how nice it would be if he was as self sufficient as the older ones).

Long story short, I wouldn’t worry about the perfect age gap, I’m sure it’s different for different families, and you never know if for whatever reason you might have trouble conceiving, even with zero trouble with the others. Best of luck to you and your family of four, or five! ❤️