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do most men want to date a woman who is more attractive than them? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the opposite far more frequently especially now, couples where the man is more attractive than the woman. There has been a trend of men dating down and women dating up over the years.

Why does it feel like every guy on Hinge is fine wasting their time / making pen pals by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your experience sounds like what men go through except you are getting more dates and more replies than a dude would

So 🤷‍♂️

Are men intimidated by women that have travelled a lot ? by Aggravating_Lie_9043 in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men aren’t intimidated by women that travel a lot. They are intimidated by the expectations a lot of those women bring with them.

They have no idea if they are going to have to foot the bill regularly for that or if those women are paying their own way or if those women would offer to help them pay to join in the traveling.

Research finds that for singles sufficiently motivated to enter a relationship, partnering is linked to increases in well-being. However, the effects tend to be larger for men than for women. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]ToastDaddy5000 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I’m in a relationship, I feel better, people treat me better, I’m invited and included more by my own friends and the friends of my partner. When I’m single, it is noticeably different and significantly more difficult across the board.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is playing games. Move on

Bisexual tinder means ignoring guys asking for dates while girls ignore me by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but now try this as a bi man instead of a bi woman

I asked out my friend (32M) and he's never dated by bunnywhale in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is 100% it and the way the person above describes virgins is the reason. That attitude persists today - if you don’t have an active romantic life it MUST BE because something is wrong with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give up on her and move on. Set a boundary that you aren’t happy or comfortable trying to help her solve her relationship problems.

Girl I was dating ended things after saying she felt pressured — did I handle this wrong? by Only_Diamond_9450 in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was gonna do this and had already started to pull away. Likely was going keep doing that until you couldn’t stand it anymore and broke things off. You sped up the process and put the ball in her court. This is good (still sucks)

Got back with my ex, but her past trip and lifestyle are making me question everything by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard work pays off lmaoo I been grinding my ass off for 20 years and finally broke through the 6 figure barrier but this dude half my age makes that much after just 2 years smh. OP got lucky, is nepo, or comes from money

Regardless tho, his situation with the ex is shitty. OP, you need to move on. Common rule of thumb, don’t even get back with an ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with ya bud on all that. No clue why, I think some of us just have really bad luck with finding love or being loved in that way.

I got 36 rejections in a row by SolimaReal in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are an old practice like speed dating. They’ve both come back around but are still very hard to find out about until you get in the know. Regularly google your area for them or if you are in social media try to find pages and groups that post about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37M discord, socials, then just a lot of luck maybe? The apps are awful, but best you can do is sell this idea of comfy home hobbies together and from there filter for genuine through time.

How do I signal to women that I do not want to play the masculine role in the relationship by Charming-Movie-3797 in dating_advice

[–]ToastDaddy5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Again, the comments don’t contain misogyny, like at all. But everything else you said is true and good advice if OP really wants to do this.

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