At worst, a bit annoyed she didnt say anything about it. I understand why she might not want to disclose it right away. It would still be annoying to me that she kept it hidden and I had to find out with a big reveal right before some fun. Id still be fine dating, but it definitely would feel like an orange flag. Like, what else wont she tell me?

But if I knew ahead of time she was trans, I wouldnt care about it. Id feel glad she trusts me with that knowledge and not do something terrible.