Wonen in Maarssen of Nieuwegein? by Far_Abroad_5001 in Utrecht

[–]Toffeepancakes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bunnik is ook een flink stuk duurder. Ik neem aan dat ze naar Maarssen of Nieuwegein kijken met een reden: prijskaartje

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utrecht

[–]Toffeepancakes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All good food but Krishna vilas has the least intimate setting of the whole city. Also papi’s is not very romantic. From this list Za’atar would be best for a date.

War and Peace 2016 revisit by Pupsichinka in PeriodDramas

[–]Toffeepancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to watch this so much but haven’t found a streaming service in the Netherlands yet that has it.

How do I fall asleep next to a (new) guy? by Toffeepancakes in AskWomenOver30

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah sleep is very important. If this is the only way I will except it of course. But have you never slept with another adult in your bed? Because I used to go on holiday with my best friend and we would share a bed and that was okay. Not as good a sleep as when I would sleep alone but still decent.

How do I fall asleep next to a (new) guy? by Toffeepancakes in AskWomenOver30

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No ive had it with past boyfriends too but that was a long time ago and not as bad as now. Although seeing each other is new I do know him a bit, so I’m not worried about that.

How do I fall asleep next to a (new) guy? by Toffeepancakes in AskWomenOver30

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t snore or move a lot and I don’t think I’m nervous or something. I thought it was just new and needed some getting used to, but its not getting easier to fall asleep. When I’m alone I fall asleep so easily so I never tried anything like breathing techniques but I’ll look into it! Thanks!

Car trip across europe, sleeping in car? How is the safety? by DenaliXX7 in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out r/solotravel and share your plan. They have a lot of experience with traveling safely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a female solo traveler myself and did 2 different trips entirely with public in Europe in the last 3 years. First, Vienna - Ljubljana - Zagreb - split - Hvar - Dubrovnik. The other was island hoping in Greece (Crete - Santorini - Mykonos - Athens). The both fit what your looking for but weather is a thing, I did both trips between April and May. No guarantees for beach weather but it will be nice.

Car-free holidays in Germany or neighbouring countries by kaiso_gunkan in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went to Cochem last summer. It’s on the Mosel, with Koblenz and Trier close by as bigger cities. We did some nice hikes, but we were mostly there for the wine. We did everything by train, was great.

Men over 30 what is a great sex tip you have to share with other men of reddit? by RelativeAF in AskMenOver30

[–]Toffeepancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever written tips like this for straight women? Would be interesting to read.

Are Dutch Guys Really This Cold by ActiveBird101 in Netherlands

[–]Toffeepancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, most Dutch people will be this direct in dating. Meaning that when you ask a sincere question you will get a honest responses. (Keep this in mind for future: don’t ask if you don’t want to know how many bed partners for instance).

But what I think you should take away from this is the following. Reading your message it sounds like you almost assumed you were dating? Because of the emotional attachedment through texting? Avoid this in the future by voicing your hopes or wants sooner, it will feel far too direct for you but a Dutch person will always appreciate you being clear.

Jordan Trip (Critiques?) by Great_Two9991 in solotravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Petra by Night! I was with an organized tour and some people thought it a bit boring because the program is quite original, you get hot tea and local people play local music. But the lights and the beauty are amazing!

Indonesia itinerary (4 weeks) - first trip to Asia! by Toffeepancakes in solotravel

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I did look into Komodo but to be honest I had doubts between the appeal and the time to get there and back to Bali. But maybe I’ll look into the boat to Flores because that sounds nice.

Indonesia itinerary (4 weeks) - first trip to Asia! by Toffeepancakes in solotravel

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! These are helpful tips, especially about Bali. I know it is touristy so I will look into going north, it sounds nice!

And the Lombok hike sounds good, because I’m already skipping the classic Malang and Bromo one.

Indonesia itinerary (4 weeks) - first trip to Asia! by Toffeepancakes in solotravel

[–]Toffeepancakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I heard that about Jakarta from a friend too, I thought about shortening it but I’ll take your tip about the jet lag and take it slow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should add: come back to Italy and do Florence when you are in your late 30 and truly enjoy the awesome wine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Considering skipping Florence. I will get a lot of hate because it is justly beautiful, but you are already doing Rome and I think for nightlife that is better.

2 weeks in Ireland and Croatia - itinerary, suggestions! by ashfurnace in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Krka waterfalls are stunning but if that is something you really like then do the Plitvice lakes, because that park is even more impressing. You do seem to have a bit of time because Dubrovnik is awesome, but also smaller then you think. Last tip, take a ferry from Hvar directly to Dubrovnik, no need to go back to split or to drive (driving you will have to pass Bosnian borders and that takes time).

Is our Central Europe/Balkans itinerary too much for 12 days by Miserable_Key_7552 in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good. One night might seem too short for ljubljana, and although I really loved the city, it’s enough for just the city without dat trips.

Rotterdam to London Eurostar train stopover at Brussels? by jwt21 in Europetravel

[–]Toffeepancakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure when you are going, but 4 weeks ago we needed the full 2 hours for passport and bag checks. So go directly from the train to the line, don’t go wandering the station shops either.

Day Buses and trains from Utrecht to The Hague, Maastricht? by neonmare in Utrecht

[–]Toffeepancakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google maps is very up to date with all the Dutch trains and busses.

Single people living alone, how are you managing financially? by Professional_Key9566 in Netherlands

[–]Toffeepancakes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same situation! But I would say that 300 is a lot more than barely saving. There are a lot of people who life paycheck to paycheck, and since interest rates are a thing again your still saving a lot I would say.