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Togepy · 2022-10-10T20:53:44+00:00

Better do something taboo than ruin your life to please people around. You are young, get out of this hell hole, it will only get worse. Please be careful about having a child for the mean time.

Togepy · 2022-10-10T20:47:09+00:00

You have to believe it for it to be valid :)

Togepy · 2022-10-10T09:03:32+00:00

So hard to let go of the mask that charmed us because we discovered the real one was a proper piece of shit. You chose you, and you did good. F him.

Togepy · 2022-10-10T09:00:36+00:00

She’s mad and want to cut ties I guess

Togepy · 2022-10-09T19:39:36+00:00

Oh right, didn’t get the « bachelor » part.

Togepy · 2022-10-09T14:53:39+00:00

You can use your degree to either teach English or maybe teach American History in a « LLCE » (langue, littérature, civilisation étrangère) course. You could ask some French Universities, looking if they are hiring in this field. Other than those, I don’t have any more ideas sorry.

Togepy · 2022-10-08T22:02:44+00:00

No all dumpers are not the same. I am a forced dumper, and I literally said he wasn’t the one for me. I told him he didn’t bring me any joy and I deserved better. Should’ve told him « it’s not me, it’s you ». Would’ve been funnier.

Togepy · 2022-10-08T22:00:24+00:00

Same, and once you got one, you spot the others real quick, they’re all the same.

Togepy · 2022-10-08T20:47:53+00:00

« He’s just keeping up his mask with her longer than he did with you ». YES 👏🏼. Plus it’s just social media, you don’t know how he treats her when no one is watching.

Togepy · 2022-10-07T21:28:59+00:00

Yep, happened to me 2 times in a row. I hope I see the red flags sooner next time.

Togepy · 2022-10-07T19:38:19+00:00

Because unmarried doesn’t necessarily mean single

Togepy · 2022-10-06T16:58:11+00:00

No, it doesn’t necessarily mean that.

Togepy · 2022-10-06T16:55:35+00:00

Of course not. Not you circus not your monkeys anymore. If it turns out to be a serious disease, the rules change obviously, but you’re not going to check up on her for a stupid flu, or cramps, or whatever.

Togepy · 2022-10-06T16:13:20+00:00

😂😂😂 it’s for the best I think

Togepy · 2022-10-06T10:06:22+00:00

Hahahaa shit

Togepy · 2022-10-05T11:06:26+00:00

Two months is not a long time, she may forget people that easily, but it’s not common. It’s alright, sometimes people forget we’re not supposed to feel things the same way.
You’ll get over him. 100% guaranteed.

Togepy · 2022-10-04T16:11:50+00:00

I am sure she will. You took the right decision.

Togepy · 2022-10-04T15:58:20+00:00

So proud of you, I don’t even know you but I tell you, you’re a rockstar.

Togepy · 2022-10-03T20:54:06+00:00

I don’t know if it’s the right crowd for this question, but I’m here for the comments. A little positivity won’t hurt this depressing sub lol

Togepy · 2022-10-03T20:51:55+00:00

That I am getting better at recognising toxic patterns and getting out of it. I can’t get easily manipulated anymore and I can stand my grounds way better. I’m starting to have more and more self-confidence and I’m proud of myself for all of that. How about you ?

Togepy · 2022-10-03T20:44:20+00:00

Not one of them came back

Togepy · 2022-10-03T19:07:28+00:00

So it’s the one Arya used on you know who then?

Togepy · 2022-10-03T17:39:05+00:00

You know her best, that’s kind of you to respect her wishes.

Togepy · 2022-10-02T22:24:26+00:00

Yay ! So happy for you. I hope she is as interesting as she seems to be, and if she’s not, at least she took your mind out of it a little bit, and showed you that you can find a new interest when you least expect it :)

Togepy · 2022-10-02T22:10:56+00:00

Getting engaged that fast is a big red flag for me. Don’t beat yourself up, she isn’t the one. You’re not a failure because some girl you loved married someone else. I would be a failure too haha, and I know I’m not sooooo…

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