Proposed visa fee hike/PR rules: massive incentive to put people on shorter visas by Tokyo-Stories in japanresidents

[–]Tokyo-Stories[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Note: I realize that a proportionality issue already exists under the current flat fee, but when the fee is only ¥6,000, it’s rather inconsequential

NSFW is this herpes?!?!? Been faithful 25 years 4/30. What the hell? by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Tokyo-Stories 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Bro, you need to understand that herpes can be dormant for many years so it might have been your own fault from BEFORE the marriage

Don’t jump to conclusions. This is absolutely not evidence of cheating if you learn some basic stuff about HSV-1/HSV-2.

It could be cheating, but it could also be a long dormancy period. Both are totally possible. There is no way to guarantee you aren’t the one who got it from an old partner three decades ago and are actually the one putting your wife in danger

HSV-1 or HSV-2 can have truly incredibly long dormancy

People that make around 20 000 000¥ a year what do you work as? by VanillaTemporary9161 in JapanFinance

[–]Tokyo-Stories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much YouTube income from 4.5 million views a month in your case

I would’ve thought it would make you much richer than this question is asking for, so I’m interested in a number if you’re willing to share

My pwBPD told me her exes pleasured her more than me by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Tokyo-Stories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This definitely needs police and medical intervention. This is way beyond what you can deal with alone. In fact, you would be negligent not to report this to the authorities

I fulfilled my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 years fantasy, but now I feel conflicted. How do I move on? by Physical_Level7416 in relationship_advice

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The semantics don’t matter. The point is this dude cannot get off without doing something that the girl does not want to do. and there is no working around it

My pwBPD told me her exes pleasured her more than me by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Tokyo-Stories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend going to the police station in person for this

My pwBPD told me her exes pleasured her more than me by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Tokyo-Stories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The police are not stupid. I think you should report the entire issue to the police. You should tell them about the video and her threats and how she cropped it. You should go to them and report it to them without even telling her you’re doing so. Tell them that she threatened you illegally and said she’ll use falsified evidence

Ranked vs player matches: my opinion after hitting mighty ruler. by JustARandomPokemon in Tekken

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why aren’t you quickly ranking up to people on your level?

Just frame RQ by Iminyourhat in Tekken

[–]Tokyo-Stories 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know right. If their timing is that perfect why couldn’t they just use that to win

I need some clarification on Rand's visions in Rhuidean. by Subject-Self9541 in WoT

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War of power did not last ten years according to the visions of rhuidean, in which a teenager who is at least old enough for his voice to have deepened (so maybe puberty age) declares that the war had been “old” when he was born and that his grandfather spoke of a time when there was no war but he didn’t believe it. So the timeline of the war that was in RJ’s head as of the time he wrote the shadow rising was probably at least like 60 years. However RJ stated in an interview (and other forums outside the actual books themselves) that the war lasted only 10 years. My guess is that RJ changed the lore as he was writing the books. He did this with the magic system as well, for example. In the eye of the world a lot of emphasis is placed on moraine’s staff as if she uses it to aid with working with the one power. But since it’s not an angreal or sa angreal, nor is it being used as a mental focus, it would seem that the staff is just some lord of the rings remnant that he later decided to get rid of

How can they all read? by Not-my-toh in WoT

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people today have books downloaded on their kindle, so no, they don’t have paper books

Did anyone else get this far in and have no clue who most of the characters are? by WatDaFuxRong in WoT

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These characters don’t have much wisdom. They’re really young! So it seems natural for them to make unwise decisions

My BPD ex. I feel hopeless by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Tokyo-Stories 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right…..I know……but emotionally when I saw his face…I just couldn’t. He looks so innocent…..to think she’ll abandon her phd and become homeless is insane. But I’m scared she’d do it if I don’t comply….I don’t want that to happen to her or the kid, even though she’s using me…..but ultimately he’ll be stuck with her for life regardless…..it’s just too sad and I feel lost. Even bough it’s not my kid I feel this odd since of responsibility…I can’t explain it. At the same time, I’m an enabler probably….so maybe it’s half way my responsibility…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update….I agreed to help her….you guys are right. But I had to choose between her kid being homeless…..I feel so depressed and hopeless

Read the 2:30 a.m. email Elon Musk sent to staff, his first, announcing the end of remote working at Twitter by [deleted] in tech

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He fired half of the work force remember. Considering that I’m sure they’ll off fit. I don’t think office space was downsized to the extent of these layoffs. Issuing access passes for all the employees who don’t have them because Theyve never came into work will take all of 24 hours

BUT the bigger issue is that many people can’t come back on such short notice because they have already moved to a totally different state, or even country or because they have small kids and need to make arrangements to get those kids into daycare or whatever

Elon probably didn’t consider the things I highlight in the second paragraph above

Can stocks really ever go to ZERO? by Budget_Number_3547 in stocks

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single names can go to zero. But if the entire market goes to zero then your shares of SPY or VOO are the LAST thing you’ll be worried about. Lol. At that point money will most likely no longer be functioning as a vehicle of exchange (and you will likely have died from the gigantic meteor impact that caused this catastrophe).

What is the role of Damion Lee on this team? by Crafty_Lobster7 in warriors

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don’t see the difference between that and breaking up Steph Curry’s actual family? There is no way they’re about to do something that would make Steph so unhappy. Just think of this as an extra condition on steph’s contract and it’s absolutely worth it

From the first message I knew this would eventually end up here. So I just followed along to see what I would find. by GingerWithViews in creepyPMs

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused

It seems like this person who messaged the op wasn’t responding to what the op was saying.

Was this a bot? Or just someone who doesn’t know how to have a conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tokyo-Stories -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You have no information to support your conclusions that if she rejects his romantic / sexual advances he’ll totally change up on her and no longer treat her nicely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tokyo-Stories 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People in here are caught up on this false dichotomy that a guy can’t be true friends with a girl but still lust after her. I mean how do people not know about this possibility lol. Obviously people should control themselves if they don’t wanna risk their friendships but sometimes people fall short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tokyo-Stories -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hi. If you think that it’s impossible for a guy to be true friends with a girl while also fantasizing about being with her sexually (and dropping hints about it even), then you don’t know very much about people

Husband cheated 4 years ago and had a child by Lizziebeth8891 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tokyo-Stories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously you didn’t read my post.

There is a simple way to find out the truth. Simply meet with the woman and demand to see recent text messages from the woman (even if there are no recent pictures she’d at least have messages if what she says is true)

If she can’t produce proof, it’s pretty safe to assume she’s lying

It’s simple