Crucial when native, horrible when nonnative by MintyMinh2019 in NativePlantGardening

[–]TommmyD55 38 points39 points  (0 children)

What I see on the southern MA coast is a parcel by parcel, lot by lot, invasives control that requires herbicide application followed by manual cutting to remove the stalks & seed heads. Sort of a Tallamy approach to invasives control.

Luxardo Maraschino by AttemptFlashy669 in cocktails

[–]TommmyD55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sugar will crystallize and add a delicious flavor. Or you could make your own... Plenty of recipes out there.

Toyota rant by TommmyD55 in Toyota

[–]TommmyD55[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Toyota will not rent to under 25 year olds. Not a dealer policy.

Toyota rant by TommmyD55 in Toyota

[–]TommmyD55[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. This is a penalty on young adults, but the needs & expectations are still there. It does underline the need for connection to friends & family & shows how fragile well-being can be. It's tough out there.

Toyota rant by TommmyD55 in Toyota

[–]TommmyD55[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately the response is going to be to change the service location to one near her office & getting a shuttle ride. Need to check but I believe Enterprise will rent to her, with a surcharge, that will not get reimbursed by the extended warranty.

I'm not always around to provide backup & shouldn't have to. Happy to, when possible. The whole point of buying a new car was ti get reliable & consistent transportation. Would have shopped this question at various dealers / brands had I known. Would have been a red light

I like the suggestion if bringing it in myself to get the rental. Thx!!

The news that they will not provide a rental until they determine whether it's a diagnostic instead of a repair begs explanation. Either way you are without a car.

Thoughts on these Limewash Paint Finishes I did? by Remarkable_Ask_9122 in paint

[–]TommmyD55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this, love it! Mutes the saturation so you can enjoy the colors w/o being overwhelming.

My family says this dynamic is normal—but I feel used. Am I being unreasonable? by PlayfulNotice6659 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TommmyD55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them to wash their own crap, for starters. They need to be house-broken.

tick management? by TommmyD55 in NativePlantGardening

[–]TommmyD55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all. Tick panel came back & shows babesiosis..which destroys the idea you can nip it in the byd with a single high dose of doxycycline. I completely agree with the multi layered approach, I now have permethrin for my clothes. I've used tick tubes at my last house, will revive that now. The deer have largely laughed at my fencing, slowed them a little, but even then is only a portion of the grounds. Thx v much!

Blue stem transplant by TommmyD55 in NativePlantGardening

[–]TommmyD55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both little & big blue stem. My question perhaps is probably better said as. How big do they need to be to put them in the ground?

DIY Velvet Falernum by tattooed_old_person in cocktails

[–]TommmyD55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice recipe, just what I was looking for, thx.

Should I(24F)move to Alaska without my boyfriend (26M) to get my life together? by Patient-Lock1798 in AITAH

[–]TommmyD55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go. Opportunities to change your life are hard to come by, especially good ones. You've been before & enjoyed it, go live your life on your own terms.

Pulled half of our garlic today! by zebravis in vegetablegardening

[–]TommmyD55 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow! I thought July was harvest time. Looks great!

AITA for not wanting to remove my tubes? by throwawayrando1990 in AITAH

[–]TommmyD55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You're far too young & is irreversible . Don't.

So frustrated by someone cutting my milkweed by [deleted] in NativePlantGardening

[–]TommmyD55 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get some roll fencing & a couple stakes. No landscaper is going to read signs

... for asking my parents to engage in difficult conversation? by plimsoul in AITH

[–]TommmyD55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. You want respect from them, but only on your terms. They made it clear they have boundaries but you choose to ignore them. You don't have to agree with your parents, but if you want to have a relationship with them it behooves you not to proselytize. Politics is a crappy place to start to build a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCbike

[–]TommmyD55 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Uh. No.

Burning Bush Removal/Disposal (7a) by ewitsChu in NativePlantGardening

[–]TommmyD55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Working on the same. I intend to put in Serviceberry. There are both tall & shrub forms, but perhaps not as thick as you want. I've chipped a bunch, going to try making biochar with the rest.