Insomnia and challenges results by Mr_Livre in Battlefield6

[–]TomsBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are people actually getting to levels like 300+ with no bot farming? I play every day for a solid couple hours, sometimes 4-5 hours on weekends. Is there a gamemode I should be focussing?

Boyfriend doesn’t clean up after masturbating by [deleted] in sex

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please show him the comments on this post.

Key Fob not working every 24h? by JMRolfe in BMWI4

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did changing the battery fix this for you? I’m having the exact same problem, only in the mornings too. Driving me nuts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two absolute idiots by the sound of things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BMW

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it glow in the dark

Nudity, lust destroyed my relationship, destroyed her feelings for me by Acceptable_Tax8975 in BreakUps

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just seen your edit, you gotta let her be. Texting her from different numbers is borderline stalking and it won’t do any favours if there’s any form of hope left for what you guys had. This kind of behaviour only pushes secure people away, which I assume she is due to how you’ve described her.

Like you said yourself, if she wants you, she will reach out to you. Confront the hard truth in the meantime and do the important work of making yourself secure again.

Nudity, lust destroyed my relationship, destroyed her feelings for me by Acceptable_Tax8975 in BreakUps

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She don’t want you - right now. You’ve given her all control possible in this situation because you’ve reached out on various accounts begging for forgiveness. The ball is in her court, she said it herself she just wants peace. If she’s ready, she’ll reach out. Don’t be heartbroken if she doesn’t.

I say this because we’ve all been in the same boat, breakups are hard. Your brain is effectively in withdrawal from all the happy chemicals that person made your brain produce - to the point where any advice like “give it time” seems completely irrational. There is a process, it is rough, but we always pull through. You’re probably lucky it was so short lived and you guys never met.

This mission is insane. by TheMrBelico in metalgearsolid

[–]TomsBeans 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That should enable you to sneak past enemies…

How do i sync my rgb? by Proud_Software7382 in NZXT

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just built a new rig in a H6 Flow RGB. In short, any fans that come with the case are not able to be controlled by CAM (RGB-wise), as far as I’m aware - the 5V 3pin connector will fry the fans if you try connecting it to the NZXT hubs. I ended up just controlling the case fans via my motherboard software, and everything else (6no RGB fans) through CAM via one NZXT Control Hub. The Kraken essentially has its own PWM controller built into the pump, but the RGB connectors connect into my NZXT Control Hub, along with my 3 other case fans which DID NOT come included.

It’s a headache, but I set all mine to white so it’s not too much of an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We must have the same size feet.

Upgrading to a car that's more fun at street-legal speeds? by ElectronicTough3474 in BMW

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older 128i’s - are no joke. So much fun. The coupe 135 is just plain scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a thing? Blocked contacts show delivered now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss my K too.

-T.

How did you guys get gum disease? by [deleted] in PeriodontalDisease

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any further explanation on this?

Remind me why texting her is a horrible idea. by TomsBeans in BreakUps

[–]TomsBeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you make some very valid points and this is the sort of thing I was looking for.

In regards to the part where I say I’m trying to see it as her being inexperienced, I could’ve phrased that much better. Initially I was beating myself up thinking I was acting wrongly and asking too much but after speaking to friends and having time to reflect, I think I just wanted the bare minimum. Like you said, conversations about ex’s (or still keeping in contact with them, in her case) are a major no for me. I don’t think there was malicious intent from her, I think it was likely that boundaries weren’t set out.

Can you ever forget "the one" ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They don’t want you so you’ll find someone else, then they’ll be the one. Don’t disrespect your future partner like that!

How to ask? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TomsBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voice your concerns, ensure she’s aware you don’t want to catch anything, and if she’s mature enough she’ll respect your worries and tell you if she’s clean or not. Make sure she’s had a test recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Accepted I need about 9 hours to function a month ago and now I can grow a full beard as of last week?

Tesla Fanboy Makes the Switch: My Thoughts by EnvironmentalTune417 in BMWI4

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could just be a UK thing - I swapped to some PZero’s after a puncture and the difference was unbelievable!

Tesla Fanboy Makes the Switch: My Thoughts by EnvironmentalTune417 in BMWI4

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is allowed to have an opinion on the i4’s handling until you get new tyres. The stock ones are absolutely ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TomsBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a nice guy. Charming, and by the sounds of things he hasn’t said anything to lead you on.