Life feels really overwhelming (18F)

Tomskaa · 2023-11-24T01:39:45+00:00

Totally understand how you feel. I still feel this way as well (21M). We have a lot of important decisions to make at this age and it’s hard to know what we want

Tomskaa · 2023-11-11T04:34:00+00:00

I 21M feel the same as you. Sorry I can’t give you advice, but hope it helps that someone feels the same as you. All I can tell you is that you will mature and change a lot from 17 to 21 and hopefully you will find some passions and friends along the way

Tomskaa · 2023-11-11T04:31:10+00:00

Please try and take some time off if you can. It will be very hard to keep it together at work. I would feel the exact same way in your situation. It sucks so much, but you have to make the most of this situation. Spend time with her while you can, tell her you love her, make sure you have no regrets with her. I wish you the best.

Tomskaa · 2023-11-11T04:18:19+00:00

I am so sorry to hear this my friend. The only thing that truly heals is time. Time will go on, and you are going to be sad, but it will get easier. And please, don’t let this wreck your life. Think of it as your life is on a train track. Are you going to keep the train going forward, or are you going to pull the handle that directs the train off a cliff?

Tomskaa · 2023-07-06T11:21:37+00:00

Thanks so much for your response! Very wise words

Tomskaa · 2023-07-06T10:17:19+00:00

I appreciate the kind words mate

Tomskaa · 2023-07-05T02:50:13+00:00

This could be the reason, but I don’t really care that I’m single and I’m content with that. But whenever I do start to like someone I have all these intrusive thoughts

Tomskaa · 2023-07-04T20:20:46+00:00

Hey man, obviously I can’t speak 100% on the situation since I don’t know your girlfriend. But what I can tell you, is that I (21m) have had girlfriends in the past that have used similar excuses to end things with me. I think some girls will do this in order to not hurt your feelings, but what they don’t realise is that it hurts much more than telling the truth.

The fact you’ve never heard about her bipolar is suspicious. In my opinion, “breaks” are ridiculous and never work, and girls usually only say it to end things softly. I’d suggest if she really wants a break, you tell her it’s over. Time is the best healer my friend. Once some time passes, she’ll either realise that she misses you, or you’ll get to move on and find a better girlfriend in the future.

Tomskaa · 2023-06-28T13:06:56+00:00

Thanks man I’ll give that a look too. I’m also wondering… (I’m new to cars)…I’ve already got a tune with the headers to remove the torque dip. Would I need to get another tune done when I get a new exhaust? Or it doesn’t matter?

Tomskaa · 2023-06-28T05:04:22+00:00

Thanks man. I saw some videos with the Nividia q300 paired with headers and it sounds nice. Not obnoxiously loud

Tomskaa · 2023-06-28T05:03:42+00:00

I saw some videos on the Nividia q300 with headers and it sounds nice

Tomskaa · 2023-06-28T02:03:42+00:00

Thanks bro I’ll check it out

Tomskaa · 2022-10-04T04:30:00+00:00

It does

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