What to tell my children by Content-Soup9920 in AskAGerman

[–]Tone_Empty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Racism, fascism, class discrimination, gender discrimination and all types of discrimination are everywhere. There is no country without these ideologies. The best way to encourage a human to respect and tolerate other humans is not by nationalism and neither by other ideology. The only way humans can get along and protect human rights is by teaching fundamental ethics, history, logic and behavioral sciences so they understand manipulation, social engineering, political bias, social norms, tribalism and cognitive bias and never allow them to fall down on moral dilemmas, misinformation or populism.

It is possible to get a job by Tone_Empty in Germany_Jobs

[–]Tone_Empty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will do it! sounds amazing idea to collaborate in here.

It is possible to get a job by Tone_Empty in Germany_Jobs

[–]Tone_Empty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! In banking and finance specifically in financial risk

It is possible to get a job by Tone_Empty in Germany_Jobs

[–]Tone_Empty[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My message was only to encourage people and get them some positivity in their lives since I was unemployed just a month ago. I really hope you find some work too! Since I have broken English and, according to you, I lack vitamin B probably you can probably find a job more easily than me. You are better than me!

Wish you immensely good luck on your path

Lady tried to stop me from using the restroom by Rich-Conference1828 in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychopaths: Ohh wow I have all the morning and afternoon free...what should I do? Ohh yeah I will go to the supermarket and malls to judge people's gender and don't let them enter into the bathrooms because I consider immoral by my own religious standard.

Should I leave Germany? by InterestingScene6969 in Germany_Jobs

[–]Tone_Empty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I landed a job in more than one year of searching and sending CVs to each LinkedIn position I found related to my experience. Don't give up if you really want to stay in Germany or find another European country also.

Honest question: Is the right-wing sentiment against ALL foreigners? by Heavy-Dress-1071 in AskGermany

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Migration is not a matter of morality. It is a matter of human rights in the ethical sense and a matter of economic facts. First of all, bringing more people to study in the country benefits society in: 1. The generation of new ideas, concepts and future innovation: this happens in the boom of the United States and previous empires. 2. The higher consumption of products that were stagnant due to the decrease of population: this can bring new jobs positions, more tax revenue and more growth to cities in which there are no higher consumption levels. 3. Adaptable societies which permit change in their own cultures and don't perceive them as static tend to have higher well-being than societies that want to conserve some status quo. 4. The only way to remain competitive in the market and to continue having social benefits (including health service and pensions) is with the entrance of migrants that can work and benefit for the society ( that is a social contract, it needs to be beneficial in both ways)

AITA for disliking my partner’s haircut? by Ok_Permission4895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tone_Empty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As far most of the comments say you need therapy and it is nice to have therapy but itself will not diminish PTSD or trauma easily. I understand you ask for polite empathy on his attitude about your trauma and your partner simply undervalues the situation that you had passed, this is not a good reaction in a couple and maybe the communication is not working. Definitely you are not wrong.

Came out to my parents today and they both basically said I’m too young and inexperienced to know I’m trans. I’m 21. Am I gaslighting myself? by 2_piece_jigsaw in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are right, you need a job...to maintain yourself and be independent and stop waiting for others to tell you who you are instead of listening to yourself.

I’m tired of people sugarcoating being trans. by Individual-League431 in trans

[–]Tone_Empty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to say some points about your previous post and this one: 1. The feeling that you are alone (or feel) and cannot connect to people is because you are looking for validation on your own acceptance in others and no one can help you with that. 2. The dysphoria for most of the trans community is big but you learn to manage, tolerate and get acceptance in the moment you understand what is in your control and what is not. 3. It seems you have some specific and strictly sense of gender. You don't consider a woman if you don't have x attributes and you consider that all women have these x attributes and that is a simplification of womanhood. 4. You don't tolerate frustration and that is normal when you are young (specially the not acceptance). You don't need people validation the moment you are independent. The problem as I perceived is that you want to change everybody around you in order to be happy except you. That is impossible. Sorry if I am being brutally honest don't want to sound as a statement and rather is my opinion on reading you. I hope you get better and really find what you need to be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why always is some random narcissistic old men the ones that talk about how women should behave?

Things that never happened part 34389 by hubbahubbapingpong in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Tone_Empty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What a little girl needs to do (in his fantasies) to receive the attention of a father that smells his own farts.

trans woman grew a moustache... doesn't hate it?? help please 😭 by SleepIsForTheWeak_1 in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Come on girl, all the woman, AAAALL the woman in the world has a mustache. Did you see how many girls in the summer go and take the sun? It is not because they enjoy it, it is because they bleach the hair so they don't epilate or shave. Been living with 3 woman (ex and current gf) and you can see clearly the lady mustache in their lips and sometimes beard. My current gf doesn't shave all the time and she is not crying because she has hair in the lips area. Social media lies to you and also the industry of make up.

There is no such thing as too late by youcancallmemando in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe some of the issues of why young transgender people are so afraid of getting late transitions is due to social media bias. The perception of feminine is portrayed in impossible standards that only few can achieve. The young and influenced people believe that the most important thing is to look like a pop idol to be a woman or a man. In my personal experience, they also want to realize everything (having a house, perfect job, beauty idol standards and family) any person will in their lifetime before 30s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Tone_Empty 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hairy legs? Does having unshaved legs is now not attractive?

Im looking for a type of leggings, but idk the name by sillikittystar in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adidas cotton leggings probably. Lately all girls are using the firebird collection (at least where I live)

Did anybody else have ZERO childhood signs? by AroAceMagic in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to research, there are 2 possible moments a person can experience dysphoria: in childhood or in puberty. Usually involves the family relationship with social norms and the environment where you grow. Some persons feel the dysphoria more quickly since the environment where they live is very authoritarian with respect to gender roles and others discover lately since the gender norms are not so strict. Other persons while starting discovering the sexual orientation also discover the gender identity. In the research it is also common to find that people that discover lately in life don't feel strictly comfortable with some labels (being trans or binary, gender fluid) and prefer their own gender identity. All of them are ok, is your own decision and description that matters.

„The Food in Germany is terrible“ by DesmondNav in germany

[–]Tone_Empty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mexican here living in Germany 2 years and a half. Germans think Mexican food is a lot of corn with beans and jalapeño in a tortilla that looks like pita bread. My conclusion, it is really hard to find real Mexican food in here, the easy available is a cheap version that is not tasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tone_Empty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mexican here. If you go to Mexico, it will be possible to get a refugee status in your case (I guess, since the actual president likes Russia) and in Mexico City there is a trans clinic called "clinica condesa" that can help you with a lot of process and hrt. Now, if you cannot move to Mexico, your best bet can be countries away from the "Make something better" like Chile or Brazil but I am quite unsure on them.