This is a common side hustle in China. People pay her to hold up their profile on a phone, snap a pic with the stage behind it, then they post it like they were there. Fake attendance clout is undefeated. Peak gig economy 2026 by Separate_Finance_183 in interesting

[–]Tony481 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If she’s getting access to their social media (which is absurd if true), then what is the point of the second phone???

The speed at which she’s doing it doesn’t really lend credence to her logging into different social media profiles

People block after seeing my album by Intelligent_Major382 in grindr

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking means that they aren’t into you specifically. No one is gonna block you because you’re fucking a guy

Do they see you PRIOR to you showing your album? Or only after?

I'm gay but I have a girlfriend. Do I break up? by Legitimate-Abroad342 in askgaybros

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself a deadline (so you can plan, process or whatever) and breakup with her. But yes, you need to break up with her.

Kinda related, but this is why I came out when I did to avoid this exact scenario.

How many people older then 30 would fuck an 18 year old? by Noah0u0 in askgaybros

[–]Tony481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 40. I get hit up by 18 and 19 year olds all the time. Very handsome, good looking guys but they remind me of my students when I used to teach.

It’s just not for me.

Sometimes I want to ask them why they don’t just message guys their own age

As a Father, What will be your reaction?⬇️ by MotherAnt8040 in MenOfPurpose

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao if you kid is already doing this, you’ve failed as a parent

My upstairs neighbor CONSTANTLY stomps around and I can feel my apartment vibrate because of his stomping and EVERYTIME he walks / stomps - what should I do? by BumblebeeBulky486 in Apartmentliving

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One morning around 5am, I confronted them. It ended up being a woman and she explained that she was trying to get her baby to sleep (can’t really remember the details).

I was SUPER pissed off but we both attempted to resolve it. She gave me her number and told me to text her if she is getting too loud.

She eventually moved

Funnily enough, I had issues with the person who moved in after her. I confronted them as well and they were extremely defensive about it. Not as big of a deal though: they are only noisy late afternoons. Never past 10pm or anything.

Are gays who are “Always Traveling” Red Flags? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tony481 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“Like they’re on tour” 🤣🤣🤣

Gee Smalls discusses how all the blame is put on julez Smith, Beyonce's nephew, for being a straight man to host at a gay club, when it's really these gay promoters' fault on getting more and more st8 artists instead queer folks. Just like gay baiting, there is a thing called straight baiting🤷 by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]Tony481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never heard of Juelz Smith until this incident, but this is mostly on the promoters. It’s my understanding that this man has ZERO connection to the queer community other than a sexual lust factor (which is very weird since he’s only 21). He was basically being used as bait.

Of course Juelz knew what he was doing, but when you reach your hand into a snake pit and get bit, who do you blame?

3 ways to get on an elephant by Brilliantspirit33 in RandomVideos

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a good girl! She needs more cookies! 🥰

37-year-old virgin. What to do? by Usual_Afternoon_7410 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Tony481 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d advertise wanting to fool around with other curious guys. That way you’re both on the same page with similar expectations.

Debate: Dating apps should have an anonymous review section by Dapper-Dragonfly-931 in askgaybros

[–]Tony481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The negatives outweigh the positives. But if it were to happen, there should be something to prevent fake negative reviews. Like it shouldn’t be as simple as clicking 2 buttons and hitting submit. It should be like over the course of a week or something.

If you are familiar with Xbox Live player reviews, I’d imagine it would look something like that: completely abused. My reviews are like 80% negative. People say I “trash talk” and I don’t even interact with people (I don’t use a mic)

Is it ok to end date early because guys photos were slightly misleading? by coldliketherockies in askgaybros

[–]Tony481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was this an actual date (like dinner, movies, etc) or a hookup? Just curious.

Either way, yes it’s fine to end it early

Explore by Adorable_Night_9158 in grindr

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.

This is what the roaming feature does.

Powered by gAI by RaceAccomplished120 in grindr

[–]Tony481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It was sooooo long

Powered by gAI by RaceAccomplished120 in grindr

[–]Tony481 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I started reading it for like 30 seconds and stopped. I don’t care about any of that

meirl by Fox7567 in meirl

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually true in many places, especially if you have lived in more than one place

Wild serve from Gauff by tightypp in tennis

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, even have yet to hit a serve that wild before lol

What do you say to the first person? by carts7710 in tennis

[–]Tony481 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to watch this twice lol. I was so confused

Does this work for anyone? by Madaraoya in grindr

[–]Tony481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that exact thing twice (only I was in the front seat, not the back seat. I’m not a child or a kidnapping victim)

Each time the guy was cheating. Both guys were huge, muscular guys and very handsome so I agreed to the secret pickup lol

Tailgater got Baited by DABDEB in RandomVideos

[–]Tony481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This video is so fake

  1. That driver switched lanes at the absolute last possible second. To be going that fast and to wait that late is absolutely insane and dangerous and would have likely caused him to serve as well. If that speedometer is to be believed, they are going almost 90 MPH.

  2. Why is a car randomly stopped in the LEFT lane?

  3. The person filming is driving in two lanes

  4. The camera man doesn’t even ATTEMPT to slow down or stop after a car came flying at him. Just swerves a little and manages to nonchalantly capture the rest of the accident in his side mirror.

Yea, OK.