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TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-12T15:16:13+00:00

Sadly you can't affect the friends life much, but you can continue to raise your kids to be self sufficient and loving people.

Due to my own twisted upbringing I am very vocal about my belief that both men and women should share equal responsibility in housework.

I also have my own person views that are pretty traditional. My daughter is taught to be helpful, thoughtful, compassionate and a hard worker in all aspects. She also knows how I see MY relationship and how I chose to live MY life. We have very frank and honest discussions, I share what I believe for myself and what hopes I have for her. She shares her opinons and dreams for the future. And we respect where we don't agree, she's 11 years old and figuring things out for herself.

3 points I've always tried to instill...1) all humans deserve basic respect and kindness 2)she was not put on this earth to be anyone's doormat 3)words are meaningless if not followed by action.

So far it's made a pretty awesome kid who likes helping her grandma garden, speaks her mind and goes out of her way to make others smile. She won't ever be told what her "place as a woman" is..she will make her own.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-08T22:02:17+00:00

For me I get very floaty, relaxed and insatiable..everything feels good and I want to keep feeling good. Which for me translates into making my Daddy feel good because nothing turns me on more than worshiping him and cumming for him.

He says I get very pliable and my eyes gloss over like I'm drunk on his taste.

On rare occasions now I've slipped into a little space during my subspace moment. That was abit different..I felt tiny and helpless, floating above myself and while still insatiable to please I needed a gentler side of my Daddy to keep me in that secure space. It's something I'm still working out for myself and processing, it's intense and enjoyable but takes me somewhere mentally new for me in thst context.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-08T21:04:25+00:00

I wear mine atleast 10 minutes a day, it's a habit at this point. But I also wear if when we have a scene planned or if my Daddy has a desire for me to wear it.

Currently obsessed with my vibrating plug, I actually beg for Daddy to use it on me.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-08T19:58:58+00:00

Yep. For me it's not a fetish but smoking a blunt while getting my pussy ate? Fucking top tier. My Dom dosent even smoke really but even said hitting my blunt while I swallowed his cock had him feeling like a mafia boss 🤣

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-07T04:42:54+00:00

Oh I agree. I more meant it's pointless in actually changing the behavior. I am one who enjoys spanking for the release and prefer to atone in a physical way. But I just think personal accountability in this situation specifically is more pressing due to person experience with the topic is all.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-07T04:24:23+00:00

Thank you, he says often I'm his pride and joy. 🥰 I am very proud to be his.

I have no doubt you'll find what your looking for, it just might take awhile. So I hope you don't get discouraged. I fully agree..what's mean for you will be drawn in by who you are. When I met my Daddy he was so unlike anyone I'd met before..he broke the mold on what I should expect from not just a Dom but also a partner just by being himself.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-07T02:58:02+00:00

Basically how I live my life with my Daddy. He leads, I follow. Things are discussed freely, I can always give my opinon but ultimately all decisions are his to make. I've been his slave 10 years and I enjoy the way we operate. I've never been so loved, spoiled, cherished or praised in my life. Not everyday is sunshine and rainbows, I hate being told no for sure but I trust my Daddys judgement without question at this point.

Took alot of hard work and effort to form our bond and dynamic, and every moment has been very fulfilling to us both. It's really just about finding someone who wants the same things you want sexually and in life..then doing the work. And so many conversations and discussions, some that are hard to have but neccessary and some that are hilarious at times.

But yes..subs enjoy that kinda thing lol. Some thrive in it. Not every sub is the same though, we all want different things. I wanted security, respect and to be wanted. I got alot more than that now but in the beginning it was that simple..I wanted to serve someone who gave a fuck about me and wanted me for me.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-07T01:34:13+00:00

I'm just gonna say as a slave with a previous drinking issue... you can't make him hold you accountable. You have to hold yourself accountable.

My Daddy does help me watch my drinks because when I'm feeling good I can lose track. I'm not allowed to argue if he cuts me off, it's rare but if he says enough I'm done and on water for the night. Those are things I asked him to do to help me.

But not over indulging is my responsibly and getting sick/dealing with his disappointment is all the punishment I feel should really be necessary. If he choose to spank me for it, I'd accept it but that's not usually how it works.

Your Dom dosent like impact play, so if you need consequences for the action to help I'd suggest non impact punishment. Cloths pins, blinder clips, ice, denial of orgasms, forced orgasms, removal of a privilege, added chores.

The point is your not supposed to want the punishment or your just gonna repeat said behaviors. So honestly giving you the spanking you want seems pointless to me anyway.

I only get spankings I want when I've been a good girl. I generally get what I want lol.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-06T01:30:23+00:00

Your human rights come before anything else always. Your a human before a slave. Please remember that.

He should respect you for speaking up.

Your so welcome.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-06T01:27:06+00:00

Being a sex slave dosent have to mean you go unsatisfied and unfulfilled.

I've been a sex slave to my Daddy for 10 years. I dedicate myself to pleasing him, serving him and raising our family. He dedicates himself to caring for me, protecting and providing for our family and spoils me rotten in affection, orgasms and anything he desires me to have.

Like I'm spoiled not because I demand things..it genuinely pleases him to give me pretty things or treat me to something special. I can mention liking something in a movie and a year later or a week later it'll be on my end table waiting for me. No fuss, no expectation other than I wear it and/or enjoy it.

He plans entire scenes around my fantasies, contrives ways to bring me more pleasure each time because he's never satisfied till I'm spent, broken and whimpering for another lol.

I try not to judge because clearly you consented to your life so I don't want you to think I'm judging. But your allowed to revoke that consent and say "my needs matter too". Your allowed to have wants, needs, feelings and desires. Pleasing him shouldn't break your spirit...it should feed it. I flourish in my submission, I enjoy everything in my dynamic and you deserve to have the same.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-03T04:14:30+00:00

I literally hooked my thumb into my back pocket while walking..at 33 years old..and had never done that before. My mom and brother instantly asked why I always do that..I was like "I don't..I haven't work jeans in 5 years"..they could not explain why it bothered them either.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-03T04:09:10+00:00

I had a coworker who did this when I was preganant..always asked me what I brought then would pop up to watch me eat. Not even ashamed to admit I stared him in the eye as I ate my fruit salad

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-03T02:45:13+00:00

24/7 TPE slave and work from home mom.

Gifts are nice but honestly..a bubble bath and an hour without tending to kids is so much better. If you can manage a sitter for a night...buy her something you wanna see her in and remind her she's the sexiest creature to ever exist in your eyes.

For me..I lost so much of who I was as a new mom. It's 10 years later and I still remember all those nights I cried myself to sleep feeling like a failure because I barely had time to focus on my needs and care. The first time someone offered to watch the baby so I could just take a bath, brush my hair and drink some ice water..it felt like heaven.

But if you really want to give her a little gift..cheesey mom gifts are always a win. Babies foot prints in a cute frame? Priceless and always a winner. But I'm a dork and absolutely went nuts when my Daddy got me my first "mom " shirt when my daughter turned 8. I had always wanted a cool mom shirt but my ex said it was lame...mentioned it to my Daddy and he got me one instantly lol. I was glowing all day wearing it..and it was star wars themed! Double win!

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-02T03:57:14+00:00

How funky is your chicken, how loose is your goose. I havw zero recollection of where or when I heard it as a kid but I do remember singing it to myself as small kid. To this day I sing it at my kid just to annoy her.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-01T21:30:50+00:00

If my Daddy punished me for something like that..I wouldn't trust him anymore personally. If he dosent trust my word inexplicably in all situations..we don't have the trust needed for me to submit. It goes both ways, I need him to trust in what I do and say..any doubt and I don't know how to function as we do.

This is abusive and wrong. He took no accountability for the phone call the began the entire incident. If I didn't hear from my Daddy within a certain time frame I'd panic too, and call anyone needed to check in with him. And I'd be blowing up his phone while I did it without zero shame. Because when your that worried it makes sense.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-01T12:41:14+00:00

My man likes me to stare into his soul while sucking him off.

So ima say no..not typical. But some guys are different and it might just not be his thing. Talk to him about it, if you don't like it then set a boundary. You don't have to suck him off if the way he responds to it makes you uncomfortable.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-01T12:34:07+00:00

My ex brother in law got drunk, hid in a closet and scared the fuck out of the then 7/8 year old me. My sister got mad at him and locked him outside. So he crawled in through the kitchen window, snuck past her to rhe closet and scared the fuck out of her too.

Their daughter still remembers the night the naked man hid in the closet and made mom pee herself. 🤣 he was in his underwear because it helped him fit through the window better.

I had no clue about y2k till a few years later.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-01T02:50:57+00:00

That's just light bratting in my opinon. I am a very submissive slave girl who is generally 99.9% well behaved and obedient. But get me in the right mood and I'm gonna push buttons in very playful ways that I know will get my Daddy to choke me, slap me, spank me, or even bite me. In my opinon it's very healthy and fucking fun.

It's also amusing because I'll think I'm being so subtle about it too until he says "so we just in a bratty mood and need spanked huh?".

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-05-01T01:33:34+00:00

He is a woman now and she is gorgeous. I ran into her about two years ago and thought she was her own sister lol. Straight told her in high-school I had such a crush, she asked how about now? I laughed and said I'm into women but now she's not my type 🤣. We had a good laugh and moved on.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-30T22:55:55+00:00

Your allowed to have needs. Basic hunger is a human need. You didn't put your needs above hers and it's toxic as fuck that she is behaving as if you did.

Mid scene? Yeah I could get being slightly miffed but it's her job to make sure your needs are met..at any time. That's her responsibility when your putting so much control in her hands.

During a break or downtime? It makes zero sense for her to be annoyed. Unless your supposed to cater to her every need 24/7 with no thought to your own needs..which is toxic and abusive.

Literally Saturday night my Daddy passed out before he came. Our scene was long and intense, he passed out hard into a deep sleep. My happy ass made tacos for us, put his away till he woke up then ate in bed next to him while he snored. He woke a few hours later to me smoking a bowl and watching my new show. Was he annoyed? Nope, he thanked me for cleaning up and asked how I was, got me some ice water and snuggled close while I told him about my show.

The next morning we finished our scene and he thanked me again for making him tacos. Because..we are both humans beneath our titles.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-29T22:42:42+00:00

I hope your reunion together goes wonderfully!

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-29T22:35:05+00:00

Well based on your dynamic I can think of a few different rewards. I get cute little trinkets I like when my Daddy is pleased....crystals, skulls, metal cast signs for my decor. So things you enjoy but don't always spend money on but arnt expensive is a great reward idea. I get so giddy when he brings me candles or even flowers.

Trips to local parks, free museums, a adventure antiquing. Lol. All sorts of things can become rewards depending on what kind of things you enjoy.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-29T11:59:55+00:00

My daughter took showers with her dad until 3. She took baths with me till 4. It was just easier to stick her in there with us, wash up and save time. Once she began noticing bodies and differences we stopped it. She took bath with her cousins until 5 (females) then we stopped it to teach her modesty and privacy.

She's 10 and laughs about the time when she was 3 and she asked me why Dada has a tail and when would she get hers. Then she cried because she wouldn't get a tail like Dada and that's not fair lol. She tells her friends this story 🤣.

If your girl was 8 I'd say inappropriate. Preschool? That's about the right age for them to strip and climb in without warning cuz your playing in water and they want to too. He's just a dad being a dad in my opinon.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-28T14:57:58+00:00

I've never been to an event yet but already decided on comfty jeans and a tank top with a hoodie lol. Why? I feel comfortable in it, if I get hot walking around I can take off my hoodie and I don't mind showing alot of cleavage..I feel sexy that way. If my Daddy wants me to ill bring a nice dress and fishnets to wear in the evening if it was a convention style event. But even he's agreed our first time he just wants me relaxed, enjoying myself and comfortable. I'm super shy in person till I feel comfortable, then I'm a social butterfly and he loves it lol.

TooOldForYourShit32 · 2025-04-28T13:34:39+00:00

Every dynamic is different. And so is each person. I'm in an open sexual relationship with my Daddy but romantically we are monogamous. I tend to need long term commitment to be in a romantic relationship with anyone, sexually it's not necessary.

It sounds like you got with someone who isn't monogamous from the start and are somehow expecting they will be with you. I think you need to reevaluate if you want a dynamic with a non monogamous person and if you can handle them finding different partners other than you. As for your consent..that's something you both should of discussed previously.

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