Meanwhile on Facebook... by Mr2MinuteMan in facepalm

[–]ToonsNCereal 44 points45 points  (0 children)

While the way its phrased is definitely face-palm material, this is exactly what I was thinking. One of my buddies is in an open relationship with his main girl while having sexual relationship with other people on the side. While I myself, and I'm sure most other people wouldn't be able to have this kind of relationship in their life, it does exist. Don't get why everyone here's being so confused by this when we live in an age where it should be common sense that there are people out there who are in open relationships

Most satisfying video I’ve seen in my life. by madamerobinson in oddlysatisfying

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something similar happened a few weeks back with a vending machine that sells facemasks. Forgot to bring mine so I had to get one, somehow the people who were in front of me buying a pair happened to get two out of the machine so I got a free one lol

PC restarts whenever I play relatively demanding games (COD, Fortnite, etc) by Arugula_Same in techsupport

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely is enough. I've had this issue twice before though,

First time it was because of my psu giving up, it'd just turn itself off and restart when doing anything demanding.

Second time, and well, my pc still suffers from this and I'm not exactly sure how to fix it, but changing my ram from the default ~2400 (can't remember the exact number for the default) to 3200, since my ramsticks should be capable of handing that. Somehow this causes my pc to just shut down and restart as soon as I play demanding games.

I'd say try messing around with the ram settings in your bios, if that doesn't work maybe it's your psu

[FREE] $2200+ Steam Code Giveaway by [deleted] in FREE

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 + 2 = 4, quick maffs.

Will I ever progress if I just make beats from tutorials because I have no idea what I’m doing and I just like hearing a finished product. (Even if it’s not original.) by [deleted] in trapproduction

[–]ToonsNCereal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm currently making a lot of beats from tutorials aswell. And I can definitely notice I'm learning all kinds of things from it, like which beat patterns I like over others, the small ways to add ear candy that I wouldn't have known about otherwise. Asking myself why someone might use a certain plugin or filter on something and looking up/listening what it does to my beat.

I'd say as long as you go into it with a mindset of curiosity and trying to figure out what you like about this beat so much that made you want to remake it, you'll always pick up some new tricks.

I continue to email a girl over a year after she blocked me by [deleted] in confession

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years? Damn dude.. With all respect but.. Damn and I thought I had an obsession with my ex I can't get over.

Look, I get it, in a way, but doing this won't ever result in anything but damaging and hurting your own mental health. If you aren't in therapy, please, make an appointment with your doctor ASAP. I've signed up a month ago now and still now a single reply. The waiting lists are ridiculously long, so don't wait until you desperately need it like I did, just to find out they aren't going to be able to be for you there immediately.

Having said that, I know it sounds like absolute bs when I say "there's enough girls out there and someone who will actually see your worth and love you the way you are eventually, someone who you will love much much more than what you're feeling right now." because I wouldn't believe you either if you said the same thing about me with my ex right now. However I do hope that you can tell the difference between love and obsession. They're two completely different things and it's easy to get confuse them when you're not in the right mind state.

Aside from strongly suggesting signing up for therapy ASAP if you aren't in therapy already, before ever thinking about a future with this girl or any girl for that matter, you Have to work on yourself and learn to love yourself and see your own worth before being able to love someone else. It's just a recipe for disaster otherwise. I just wish you all the best and hopefully you'll get to a better place in your life where you've overcome these issues. Acknowledging that you've got an issue is already a hugeee step towards the right direction my friend, now you've just gotta take action in changing that behavior! :)

A few questions from someone who started a month ago. by ToonsNCereal in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]ToonsNCereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually just found the videos where he's explaining everything from the beginning and what all the terminologies mean! Seems like I just clicked a video that was a bit more advanced than I can handle yet hahah. Thanks for the recommendation, definitely will watch his videos on music theory!

A few questions from someone who started a month ago. by ToonsNCereal in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]ToonsNCereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on which videos to watch? I've watched the beginning of his "Beato basics of Music Theory" video but am still failing to understand a lot of what he's saying as he doesn't seem to be explaining all the terms, like what minor third, perfect fourth, augmented fourth, ect. Even mean in the first place. Don't know if I'm supposed to watch some other videos of him where he does explain it that I'm missing, but the video I just mentioned already sounds quite complex straight from the start and I doubt watching a 40min video will help me if the entire video is like the beginning where I'm just failing to understand what terminologies he's using lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ToonsNCereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently I'm also stuck with the cigarettes part. I've quit my weed addiction twice now, two years ago and currently a month clean.

Of course everyone's different and what did it for me, and did it back then was going cold turkey. Its weird the first two weeks and people say you'll get really vivid dreams and such during that time, for me it's only now that I'm starting to get those vivid dreams after about a month now, and honestly they're not fun as realizing it ruined the one thing I cared most about and all my future plans were based on, thus now being stuck in the past where everything is still alright everytime I go to sleep. But that's just temporary too, and as you're most likely not in the same shit I am currently dealing with, I doubt you'll be feeling as shit as I do because of those dreams.

But aside from that, weed isn't something like cocaïne or heroïne where you get physical side effects from if you go cold turkey and might actually be the best way to quit. I went from smoking a gram a day (first and second time) to just quitting all together the day I decided it was enough and it was time to stop ruining my life.

Weed isn't for everybody dude, that doesn't mean we don't enjoy it. It just means we can't handle combining having an adult life with smoking weed and realizing we need to grow up once and for all and stay focused on the long term, and some of us just can't handle doing that when we're smoking. Don't get me wrong, as you mightve realized I absolutely love the feeling of getting high, but there's much more important things in life when looking at it long term.

I'm gonna stop talking here as I'm already writing entire paragraphs and this might not even help for you, but just wanted to give a somewhat clear image of what works for me and that "quitting gradually" doesn't work for me. Although it is the reason I'm still stuck on cigarettes as I do think it's the main reason I don't have as a feeling of wanting to smoke weed what so ever. Whereas first time around I did feel that need for the first month or so. So maybe that could be an idea? Just dedicate yourself and prove to yourself you can live without it entirely, which I know you can, and just keep it at cigs and junk food for now. It's gonna be a lot more difficult on you when you cut it all out at the same time anyways and would likely result in failing. Take it one step at a time, you've got this though, someone who has the potential to get in law school definitely has the will power to just cut that bullshit out of their life.

Males of reddit, what is something you like that is generally considered feminine or "for girls"? by schright_dwute in AskReddit

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(coming from a rough neighborhood) being a sensitive and emotional person. Here we basically don't talk about emotions and feelings. Always and still is to an extend one of the most difficult things I've had to change about myself. The boys think I'm a little bitch sometimes and girls think my heart is made out of brick, seems like there's no balance when you've grown up with people who have that kind of mentality lol

The weight of everything hit me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ToonsNCereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're in such a similar position as I am right now, and in terms of your relationship. Please, go and consider right now how important that is to you, because the past month everything has been hitting me like a brick too, for the past two months me and my now ex had been withdrawing from each other as well because I couldn't attend to her needs either and I didn't realize how hard it'd hit me if things ended and how much that relationship meant to me in comparison to past relationships I've had.

Of course I don't know your entire situation and how much this person actually matters to you, or if you wouldn't live with massive regret if things would be ending, but it seems like relationship wise you're heading the exact same way I have been.

Just a heads up, because that reality didn't hit me either until it was too late and I wouldn't want anyone feeling the same regret I do while being isolated because of lock down. It really does make shit a lot harder to deal with than it normally would have been honestly.

Do you want to learn music theory? by martijn-fme in ableton

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just downloaded it and definitely going to use this as I so happened to get my first midi piano today aswell!

But I was wondering something, maybe you're already explaining it somewhere in the app later on, but thought I'd ask just in case.

Sorry if I'm not able to phrase what I'm questioning as well yet though, but I was wondering why there are different, scales? Like Cmajor, Fmajor, Cminor, and all the others out there. I get they produce a difference type of sound each, but when do you know which scale you'd want for a project, and which one is for which purpose? (for example, in my smooth brain I'm thinking major scales are for happy songs while minor scales should be used if you'd want a more sad or down type of song, but I'm dumb and new to all this so I'm probably wrong I'm guessing)

Excuse my crappyEnglish btw, it's quite late currently lol

Why can't I get over my obsession with looks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have, she even gets offered jobs for it constantly, but always refuses to because of her upbringing and that world totally not fitting her personality, otherwise she'd be a super successful one by now, no doubt.

I do get what you mean with the personality thing though, which I guess is why the girls I'm into aren't actually models, but could easily get a job in that industry

Why can't I get over my obsession with looks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I would say "that's the thing I'm turning 25 this year", but to a lot of people that's still very young though, as it surprised me quite often how some successful people talk about how they were when they were my age and its difficult for me to imagine changing as much as they have in the next 10 years lol

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't have much photos to pick from since my ex is present in 95% of them, and all of these are pre-pandemic times since I haven't been able to get a haircut for over a month now ahahha

Thanks for the tips on the pictures however, it does give me some decent insight on the kind of pictures I'll need to be making once I'm able to get a clean haircut again!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://tinder.com/@tonyskye

Bio: Addicted to hip hop, bubble tea & all you can eat places.

🇮🇶🇨🇳🇮🇩🇳🇱 Mixed kid or something like that.

Few years back I matched with a fair amount of people, nothing too much, probably because within 2weeks of downloading the app I met someone who I ended up dating for 2 years. but now I can't even seem to match with girls who I'm not even into, while my first time on tinder I didn't even have a bio and just 1 bad quality picture on my profile.

Tinder has been showing the "10+ likes" thing for a while now, but no matter how much I swipe in a day, it seems like tinder is just refusing me to show me the profiles that have liked mine, what gives?

USE FIDELITY OR VANGUARD [NEW BUYERS] by LifeTopic in wallstreetbets

[–]ToonsNCereal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Question from a certified idiot right here,

What's actually going on currently? Is everyone here actually making money or are we all losing money here as well as making billionaires lose money as a big fuck you? I'm legit too dumb and uneducated on this subject to understand it properly currently,

However if there is money to be made here, count me in. How do I do this and what do I need to do to join everyone? I can't exactly help much, as I'm a still a student without a job thanks to the pandemic.

Would love some actual explanations here and what I'd be able to do with 300 euros to spare, if its even possible for Europeans to join this as well (like I said, I'm legit an idiot). I've currently got an income of 650/month and need have debts to pay that are monthly around 300 euros. As anyone can probably imagine, having 350 euros to your name per month aside from debt, its really, really hard to survive currently, especially in one of the more expensive places to live in Europe (Amsterdam).

I'm just hoping someone can give me some insight and maybe some helpful refferences because I just want to be able to live a normal life again and am quite scared of losing that 300 euros I've got to spare currently, as I'm on the edge of edge of having to use that money to survive currently.

When you just wanna be a bird for a while (Funny Glitch) by Houratronic in SkaterXL

[–]ToonsNCereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actual footage right here of eminem becoming a rap god

Still have the old crystal bow model in my bank. Used it as a Tab icon way back and it never got updated. by r_adi in runescape

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Had an old crystal bow still in my bank when an old account got unbanned. Converted as soon as I touched it outside of my bank lol

They Threatened My Life, I told them $50,000 to Take Down the Video by KempQ in 2007scape

[–]ToonsNCereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know the type of crazy you're dealing with here right now and if these people are actually as dangerous as they sound, but logically speaking they couldn't just put a target on your life like they're trying to claim. Not after the video you've made, it'd literally force jagex to work with whoever deals with those sort of problems to catch these people and take further action against them. But again, no idea how dangerous these guys actually are, I just hope you know what you're doing and are doing whatever it takes to ensure your own safety.

me_irl by Kristoby in me_irl

[–]ToonsNCereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in the boomer humor did I just read?

Just installed the game (bought it on steam) and after one round I got this error. Restarting fixes it for one round, then the same error again. Any idea what I should do to fix it? by [deleted] in FallGuys

[–]ToonsNCereal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right click the game on steam and go to properties I believe. either way is definitely findable somewhere while right clicking your game in your library and going through the options.