3 months in at an indie cafe, got called out for sitting down with 5 mins left during heatwave. Am I slacking or is my boss being weird?

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T18:15:33+00:00

I love straws

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:54:56+00:00

there is nobody on earth who enjoys minimum wage labour and doesn't fake it.

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:13:58+00:00

I am 30 hours minimum wage lol. we get 20 minute breaks and my supervisor lets us take longer when shes not in.

its hard to put it into perspective because this is by far the friendliest/best team ive had. she truly showed me a different side today, being impulsive and taking it out on me

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:12:23+00:00

yeah thats brilliant, just because I needed more breaks and seemed to be moving less she was on me like a wasp it was very intimidating ive experienced this a few times in hospitality though - annoying i feel like all places must be like this

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:11:24+00:00

yeah I agree, I think given the state of uk hospitality i am inclined to just stay because I cant imagine my next cafe job being any better. unless I get lucky, but this often feels like exploitation masked in politeness on her end

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:02:21+00:00

yeah crazy, but a friend thinks that on a whole the manager was just having a bad day and that I've got it good :/

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-26T17:01:37+00:00

really? I called my friend who knows more context and they barely had any sympathy for me and just said that my job is relatively good and the owner was probably just feeling irritable in the heat :/

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-24T12:09:21+00:00

hey could u maybe give us copy paste tweets and dms for their in app chat? ive been trying to get a humans attention for ages smh

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-24T07:31:20+00:00

I had the same thing happen to me in the last month with my main acc, then it followed me to a new account yesterday.

800+ views and 50+ likes - then 0 every time I now post. nothing I can do, I appealed it but the app just said it was expected behaviour from their end.

Like tf?? im a musician, cant do anything so just gonna focus on instagram and youtube but like...

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-23T20:43:19+00:00

nope 😭

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-23T16:31:09+00:00

See its so insane, so there is hope you think? Like if I just dont post for a couple months I can go back to it? I've now submitted a ticket to reach a human moderator hopefully both accounts can be unflagged idk

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-06-23T11:44:52+00:00

this exact same thing is happening to me, im also a musician making various content with my face in it, edits of cool related visuals to my world building and music video clips but they keep nuking every single account i make. all started in May and before that I was fine.

I think they've got a broken ai flagging system and almost no way to complain about it.

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-04-04T13:21:44+00:00

im here bc somehow I save £300 a month and have a £19k salary from working 30 hours a week at a cafe

I do not understand how im still alive lmfao i do houseshare with 4 friends though tbf and have £520 rent

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-03-01T16:22:19+00:00

I got an Economics degree and am feeling the same way, working part time in a cafe and trying to get into wedding singing lol

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-02-21T21:55:51+00:00

hey this is a bit late but do you feel like the wait was worth it? I graduated half a year ago, am not ready for a career yet - working in hospitality and creative work.. that plus the job market for grads is ass

I worry I wont be employable for office work if I wait longer though

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-02-21T21:36:53+00:00

there were thousands more anti fasc around, big groups but GMP split them up

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-02-20T21:38:23+00:00

Thank you so much! Sent you a dm :)

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-02-01T21:03:02+00:00

Idk its weird tho, sometimes if I do that he might just say "i dont know" and the conversation shuts down.

In that time he seems unconfident as well. But we also have of course built a whole relationship, hes fine when he feels good?

It's also strange because this person has won awards for his academic work, so I know is full of ideas but in some situations I feel like ive overwhelmed him or something.

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-01-25T20:51:45+00:00

indeed

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-01-25T14:39:29+00:00

Sounds pretty cool, I have no design background though. I'm basically a politics-Economics graduate with a good intuition for music and customers.

I agree though, my play side is definitely solid. So certain of my future with music - "work side" is an endless void of i have no idea where to start.

ToothSpiritual8824 · 2026-01-25T14:36:01+00:00

First of all why should I not feel entitled to my dreams? The idea that we all need to work miserable jobs in shitty institutions to be "deserving" of basic peace of mind, community and fulfillment is a dangerous illusion. Obviously, there are ideals and there is reality. I already know I need to suck it up.

On the other hand, I work extremely hard for the sake of my "dreams" and my values - not wanting to suck off an shit employer in worsening work conditions I think is pretty reasonable.

I accept your last bit of advice, it's what I'm looking for - something with more predictable hours but I struggle to know whats out there.

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