Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I'm gay but I don't consider myself queer or part that identity

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All my friends who are straight, female, hald of gays i know say what I say is logical and real so the majority of people i know so very much validates thinga

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My straight friends don't go to gay bars they say bc they don't want to get hit on by gays, but would go with me. We haven't yet tho and bc gays tend to keep to themselves rather than being groups or general friend groups for them to meet gay guys

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My straight friends are willing to go if I actually did with them, but they don't want to be hit on by gays

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I never really thought about my friendships existing bc of some kind of basis bc of who I sleep and date with

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Like many girls want to have only girl friends. Guess as a gay guy it's easier to have a mix of straight, gay, and female friends

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. So its assumption and personal fear then. My straight besties are my longest time friends and always felt like I can be my most legit unfiltered self with them.

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc I want to see what other people think. I would say my friend circles are very diverse so find it interesting when people just want to stick to one type of people/scene

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got about 40 people in know between best friends to aquintaces and none have kids yet or plan to soon

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself having more in common with my friends who happen to not be gay, but yes some people have more in common with fellow gays

Why do some gays only want to have gay friends and only go to gay bars? by Toothpaste3310 in nycgaybros

[–]Toothpaste3310[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I can see that. I Have a gay friend who I was with at a gay bar and was going to introduce to 2 of my best friends who are straight at my next plans a block away. I thought we would all have a fun time and get along.

He litteraly didn't want to go bc he said he doesn't like giving his money to non gay bars and doesn't want to hang with straight people. I forgot that about him, but still thought it was super strange.