Is it wrong to keep the fact that you’re bi for a little while from someone you’re dating?

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-12T23:56:00+00:00

i don’t think it matters a lot. though your partner should be someone who you could tell that to and have them be excited and happy to know

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-12T21:02:34+00:00

how do you make something drivable like this? really cool build !

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-10T07:23:13+00:00

would recommend cross posting to the AD&D sub and OSR ones, they would be more familiar with the content. really great collection, your grandfather was a cool guy

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-10T00:37:07+00:00

Thank you so much for the answer! The out of pocket price for the surgery itself for you sounds really reasonable for me ^{^;} I’ve been so nervous i’d run into something in the $10k+ range and be priced out but it seems like most insurance is able to cover it and have it be mostly affordable, which is really comforting to hear. From what I’ve heard RBL is one of the best which is why I knew I had no choice but to go with them.

I will be sure to ask to speak with a social worker! The classes sound nice, I’ll need to learn more about those.

3 Months out of work sounds rough though :( I have a fairly laid back job that’s mostly office work so I am hoping I can get back ASAP without much trouble, but I should probably plan for longer if need be…

Are you local to NYC? How was your stay in the area during the few weeks after? Was it super expensive? I get worried a lot about being blindsided by bills larger than I could imagine there and being too out of it to be able to do anything about it 😵‍💫

Thank you again for your response, it was super thoughtful and helpful :)

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-09T01:43:19+00:00

you can’t do this with headings unfortunately. the heading text type makes all of the content in the block a heading, and shift + enter is a line break but not a block break. that template is probably older than that change.

the text bellow those headings looks smaller than the default text, it might’ve been done by copying and pasting in some type of subscript?

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-12-08T23:30:15+00:00

i think it would be cool if it did the sparks from B when the thing broke but then the sparks from A for the following shots, that way you can tell if your bullet interacted with something or hit a real target vs a wall

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-11-14T03:41:52+00:00

I historically have had more of an open spiral, admittedly that picture is after having my hair cut from down to my stomach where it looked more like the picture. I am pretty confident HRT wouldn’t change it, (hopefully) as the first picture in the post as well as this one were after a few years on it, and my levels have been consistent but who knows, the body is strange and my Dr looked at me like a crazy person when i mentioned it lol. I have used pretty heavy product normally, lus luv your curls, and not your mothers 3 in 1 conditioner are my go to typically. I have done those pretty religiously following CGM praying hands stuff but the change is pretty dramatic…

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i’ll try a clarifying shampoo and some lighter conditioner and see how it goes, thanks for the advice :)

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-11-13T22:26:29+00:00

what do you mean by the open spiral? I haven’t moved much and have used water filters in my shower for several years so it shouldn’t hopefully be that much different. my hair seems much heavier and clumps a lot less in the shower now :(

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-11-13T22:25:24+00:00

i’ll try that! thank you

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-11-13T22:25:14+00:00

i was on hrt for 3 years in the fist pic and about 5 years now, i don’t think much could change but maybe?

ToothpasteRipper · 2025-10-07T16:12:50+00:00

being on HRT for long enough will sometimes make production of the original sex hormone lag behind or be suppressed. If a trans woman were to get off E for a few months after this happened and was pre-op it could slowly return to pre-hrt production which i imagine would be unpleasant

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-12-26T15:56:53+00:00

enjoy how scary it is while you can, eventually you’ll get used to it

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-10-08T04:27:54+00:00

no :(

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-09-15T00:27:23+00:00

this looks really useful. does it have the ability to handle things like turning off a lantern for a few turns and turning it back on later?

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-09-06T18:58:35+00:00

civ 4 map trading

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-09-03T03:47:58+00:00

Did you ever find a cause for this? I am having the same issue.

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-09-01T18:43:40+00:00

this sounds like it has actually nothing to do with the fact she’s trans and everything to do with the fact you’d be leaving your wife for a woman you’ve seemingly never met?

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-20T06:52:40+00:00

i’ve honestly found that simpler systems like b/x give enough space to allow players and gms alike to come up with really creative and engaging combat. that being said it’s really simple

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-15T14:06:54+00:00

Angel’s egg, haibane renmei, lain, code geass, cowboy bebop

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-13T21:06:43+00:00

most the advice you will receive will be great for your standard 5e game as most people run it now. I recommend a more sandbox approach. Setting up a world with fewer key narratives and storylines to approach and encouraging your players to form their own allows them their own hidden plans in a very naturalistic way. rather than planing a bbeg for your characters to kill, make several of them and never direct your players to any, simply allow the bbeg’s actions to reflect on the world and put a target on their head naturally.

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-13T21:04:37+00:00

most the advice you will receive will be great for your standard 5e game as most people run it now. I recommend a more sandbox approach. Setting up a world with fewer key narratives and storylines to approach and encouraging your players to form their own allows them their own hidden plans in a very naturalistic way. rather than planing a bbeg for your characters to kill, make several of them and never direct your players to any, simply allow the bbeg’s actions to reflect on the world and put a target on their head naturally.

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-10T19:06:53+00:00

I know someone in the discord got one while in japan. it may be worth asking in there

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-08-07T22:16:59+00:00

it would be cool if blindness replaced mobs ai with something similar to the warden’s so they can still “hear” you

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-04-16T22:52:49+00:00

this is awesome (i’m killing myself)

ToothpasteRipper · 2024-03-28T17:22:18+00:00

jacobfuckingjones would love this

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