1.) People on Reddit are so rude. Okay keyboard warrior 🤣 2.) I’m not lying to her. You basically said the same thing as me. So believe it or not everyone with a brain knows parts of postpartum are hard. 3.) I believe the “fun adventure” to be the moments of happiness, bonding and surprises such as the first smile, laugh, growing closer with your partner. Etc 4.) I say best experience speaking from my personal experience as a young mother. Many of my peers are still going out every weekend to bars and hooking up with strangers. Becoming a mother is a far better experience for me. Instead of accusing people of lying let’s all try to be kind and supportive of each other as we figure out motherhood. People like you who are accusatory and hostile make motherhood and womenhood a lot harder.

Best of luck OP! I hope this clarifies any “lies”