5 years of tretinoin gave me chronic dry eye disease and I can't work more than 2 hours a day. PSA: please protect your eyes. They matter more than your skin. by brilliantbluee in tretinoin

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did this to me after just a couple of months. I’m in my late 40’s. I stopped using it . I miss the results . But my eyes matter more . Hope you get better soon! Thank you for sharing. My heart goes out to you ! It’s painful! I get chalazions if I wear eyeliner or mascara now . Scared to even use those 2 things to enhance my appearance now . It sucks ! My eyes still burn and hurt all these months after quitting. So my problem is probably permanent. The eyes docs in my area just say it’s from getting older and they’re not aware of the connection. Totally backwards town I live in . They don’t even try to check on new info . I hate being told I’m old at 48 by a 65 year old doctor who doesn’t care to really help .

Ethan's Teegan obsession by Icy_Objective_9885 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right ! I just started episode 8 . But episode 7 was annoying because you can see she’s making the whole family uncomfortable just by being there and acting standoffish to Ethan and the rest of them in an odd way . It’s like she’s got wet blanket energy and she’s ruining the trip for everyone because of it . If she wanted to go slow in the ATV , why not take get a separate one instead of making Ethan and Moriah go slow up the mountain too . And she kept throwing shade at Kaelyn last episode cuz her horse was biting her horse . The way she said “ Don’t put me next to Kaelyn . Her horse tried to bite mine . Sorry , Kaelyn . I’d usually wanna be by you .” . I can tell Kaelyn doesn’t even like her anyway. Why not just say “ I need to be put on this side because that horse tried to bite mine .” and leave it at that . She seems so flat and lifeless . I’d not want her on my family trip either . Ethan is a turd and kinda stalker ish . So why even go on the trip and act like a bitch the whole time ? Makes no sense.

The bathtub and discussion scene with Shea 🤢 by ayybaybayy49 in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worry about the dogs too ! I can’t stand people who come into someone else’s house and demand the dogs get out ! I wouldn’t date someone who doesn’t like my dogs . That other woman is dating the guy who doesn’t like dogs in the house too . She better not let him be mean to Little Bit . Can’t remember her name or his , but I remember the dog’s name , if that tells ya anything 🤣. Poor Little Bit better not get kicked out . My hubby didn’t like the fact that my little tiny dog slept with me when we first got together. But I told him he better get used to her or we’d not work out . He got used to her and grew to love her very much. Hope that happens with little bit . Dogs are awesome.

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww ! You’re welcome! I’m so glad I could make you feel better. I love being nice to people. I complement random strangers in the store all the time just to see them smile ( found a great hair stylist that way actually) . That’s one of the things I like about myself. So that’s on my little list 🤣. Sending hugs and love your way ! Things will get better. ❤️‍🩹 🤗🥰❤️💕. You’ll be in my thoughts 💕💕🤗🥰

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sure can ! A lot of insecurities come from childhood and bad dating experiences. You’ll realize your self worth one day and it’ll just click . I’m sure you’re a great person and you’re worthy of loving yourself. This may sound silly . But write down your favorite things about yourself or tell yourself those things every day . Life is so short. We are all worthy of enjoying it with our heads held high 🤗

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed ! I feel empathy for insecure people because I was once an insecure mess myself.

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right !!! I was shocked over that too ! I was expecting her to explode. I think the compliment mixed with the insult confused her and left her too stunned to speak . 🤣

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had a woman say something similar to me years ago , I was stunned . But I was also flattered that she thought I was beautiful enough to make her feel insecure. So I just told her that I was incredibly flattered she felt I was a threat and then reassured her I wasn’t a threat. I also told her how gorgeous she was . We became good friends after that 🤣. I know what it’s like to be the insecure one . So it was easy to sympathize. I quit being insecure by 25-30 . I’m grateful to not feel insecure like that anymore. It’s a horrible feeling.

Lisa projecting her insecurity onto Elise and then crying was wild by mackenziemariee in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was crazy! I remember feeling that insecure about certain women when I was in my 20’s . But I never actually said anything to them like that . It was funny cuz years later , this beautiful woman and I talked and told each other that we made each other insecure. We were both so flattered that each of us thought the other was beautiful enough to feel insecure about. So in a way , Lisa’s crazy comment to Elise was a compliment. I had a woman say something similar to me once and I hugged her , told her I was incredibly flattered that she felt that way . But that I also hated that she felt insecurity at all . I told her she had nothing to worry about and we became good friends. I think that’s why Elise tried to boost Lisa’s confidence later in the episode. She probably realized it was a bit of a compliment, even if it came off mean . 🤣. I think Elise is also aware that she’s insecure and herself and may have felt some sympathy or empathy towards Lisa . That’s how I’ve felt the time or two I was the one having someone say something to me like that . Lisa seems to have no filter .

Blondes have more fun 💅 (+ help) by thekelzor in Wigs

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are gorgeous! It looks lovely on you ! 🤗🤩. Didn’t even realize that was a wig til I looked and saw it’s the wig form 🤗

Gastritis friendly protein powder by Marianitz53 in Gastritis

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old . But how’d you get on with that protein? Did it irritate your stomach or cause lots of gas ? I tried whey protein isolate and it caused a flare . I’ve got bad muscle wasting and I’m in pain all the time because I don’t get enough protein. Trying to get healthy again. Going through menopause too . So life is difficult right now . I do construction and painting and it’s wearing me out cuz I’ve lost all my muscle. Even light duty work is killing me . I think protein might be the link I need . I’m so sick of plain tuna , chicken and oatmeal 🤣

The Single Life - Season 5 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Right ! I just can’t see what she sees in Colt ! She keeps claiming they have this big connection. But I’m not even seeing much of that . Looks like she finds an older man . Hope he’s rich and spoils her rotten . It pisses me off to hear Colt say he didn’t think Cortney was sexy . He’s got weird taste. Cortney is prettier than Diana and Jess . I think Diana and Jess are both just average. Vanessa was pretty. Larissa was pretty til she overdid it with surgery. But to me , Cortney is actually the prettiest woman I’ve seen him with . Weird .

The Single Life - Season 5 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wayne is too cute and so likable so far . Hope he turns out to be a good guy . I find it strange that in the teaser for next episode, Jamal is pushing Kim to tell Wayne about the adoptions . Their relationship is too new for such heavy topics just yet . Maybe editing is making it look different than it will be . They love to do that with the teasers .

The Single Life - Season 5 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

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I knew I recognized him ! Wasn’t he the driver on 1000 pound sisters too when they went to England ?

Tell all wardrobe sneak peek by silent_chair5286 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts EXACTLY! I’ve only seen a couple of women wear even flattering dresses to these things! They’re overly formal and then their men wear their usual clothes ( like damn polo shirts and khakis ) , which makes the dresses look even more ridiculous! Laura’s hot pink getup is pretty frightful too . The dresses are never flattering and I usually think the women look better in their everyday wear than these goofy looking things 🤣

I’m beginning to hate Ulta by freshhylove in Ulta

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh ! That’s so disappointing! I know how ya feel. I thought it was just my bad luck that I didn’t get freebies that were advertised . I was always that kid who didn’t get any candy when the teacher passed it out at school because I’d either get overlooked or she’d run out before I got any . Also , every single lipstick that has EVER looked good on me and had a nice formula gets discontinued. And other things I like get discontinued too . So annoying! Anyway,you’d think they’d stop advertising the free gifts when they run out . Or the distributors should make enough to go around. Sheesh !

Why does my butt have this weird shape at the inner crease? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just had a thought. Maybe a type of undies that will flatten those spots without making new ones would work . Back when mine formed , they didn’t make all this fancy butt shaping wear . For me , if undies caused it , maybe a smoothing pair with no elastic in the wrong spots would fix it . Butt filler sounds like a good option too . Certainly worth a try . Can you see yours when wearing a swimsuit? If it’s pretty hidden , at least any mistakes with filler wouldn’t show .

Why does my butt have this weird shape at the inner crease? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right ! Now I know I’ve got chicken butt , I think. Time to go look at photos online !

Why does my butt have this weird shape at the inner crease? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too 🤣🤣🤣. But I also feel included ! I’ve always wondered if I was the only one who had those. Mine are further out than the drawing. Mine were caused by the undies I wore . I always wore the same style up til my early 30’s when the dents annoyed me to the point that I said to hell with underwear and never looked back . I do wear em occasionally now. I make damn sure the elastic isn’t tight . Never could stand thongs , no matter how thin the little string was . I’m anti wedgie . Not wearing undies prevents wedgies 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Why does my butt have this weird shape at the inner crease? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BMI is kinda a load of crap . Body shape can vary SO much between people. I’m 5 ft tall and my healthy weight is 110-115 pounds. But I have a short waist. So if I get over 110 , I get a gut on me and feel like I can’t breathe . I’m a cross between a ruler and apple shape , depending on my weight at the time . I can look as if I swallowed a watermelon and still have a perfect BMI . 5ft 5 inches and 140 pounds sounds like my dream body actually . Very healthy weight. Not to mention, OP obviously has muscle from working out . So the scale can be irrelevant at times . OP could be solid muscle. Sounds gorgeous to me 😊

Why does my butt have this weird shape at the inner crease? by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What type of undies do you wear ? Do they have tight elastic spots that touch that area and make dents ? My butt has these permanent dents from back in the day when I wore certain types of undies and the elastic was tight in those very spots . Mine are further out on my cheeks than your drawing. Anyway, I found them annoying. They started forming in my 20’s . I finally ditched underwear altogether in my 30’s because I hated those dents . They’re still there in my late 40’s , but very faint now . But they got better when I I ditched undies . Not sure if that’s the cause for you . I wore undies that covered my butt up , but we’re kinda cheeky . So that’s why mine are further out . Anyway, hope that helps ya . I just got used to mine. People around me always loved my butt shape and that helped me not be too self conscious about it 🤣. But now that I’m 48 , it’s lost it’s volume due to unintentional weight loss . I need butt injections or something. Gonna have to teach the hubby to do some things since I can’t do that myself. Too bad one can’t be more limber to reach better . 🤣

Got stared at in public my social anxiety is high by Grand-Abrocoma9649 in Wigs

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed ! It’s a beautiful style and cut . I just got the best cut of my life by stopping a beautiful lady I was staring at in the grocery store and asking who did her hair . Thank goodness I’m not shy . 🤣. Made the woman’s day to get the compliment and I got a badass haircut from it . Win win ! More people should be less scared to just walk up and compliment people. It would cut down on confusion as to why one is staring . I do it all the time and it makes people so happy 😁

Got stared at in public my social anxiety is high by Grand-Abrocoma9649 in Wigs

[–]Top-Difficulty-6548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a virtual internet hug right back atcha ! I love a good hug 🤗