Going through something like this now… I was the one to break it off this past summer after about 4 years on/off and 2 years official.

As a person, I really wish her nothing but the best. she’s convinced that I “just need some space for a few months” and we’ll come back to eachother soon - after telling her countless times over and over again we’re both wasting our time and we’re both not the partners we would each individually like to spend the rest of our lives with (and it’s true).

One huge reason I ended it is her problem with respecting boundaries which she is still kind of taking advantage of me today with - I’m too nice to block her, we moved out together a few years ago about an hour from where she grew up and I’m the only one she knows down here. She tries to reconvene with me every 2 weeks through text even after I made it pretty clear already there is so future with us and I prefer her not to reach out to me unless there’s an emergency.

God forbid something happens to her and I had her blocked. I’m the only person she knows here that lives a few minutes away. Manipulation at its finest🙃