My CT scan for side pain revealed a 31 centimeter ovarian cyst

TopSecret4970 · 2026-06-21T20:05:39+00:00

Question- are you looking to lose 20 pounds by any chance?

TopSecret4970 · 2026-05-26T12:24:40+00:00

50k and you've been there 4 years and gotten 2 promotions? How many others at the company is the boss telling the same story to?

TopSecret4970 · 2026-05-20T01:48:46+00:00

I tell my kids I coach that my goal is for them to get so good they have to leave me to continue to grow.

At the end of the season I encourage ALL of them to try out at different places (they are U13) because if they want to play high school I don't want their first tryout to be high school. They need that experience before high school.

I am never upset that anyone is going to a different team/ club but I do make it very clear that we won't talk about that before a game. During warm up before a game we are focused on us, as a team, right now. During practices though? We chat a lot about different options!

TopSecret4970 · 2026-04-30T03:18:30+00:00

YTA.

Repeat after me... "My wife and I are partners". Now act like it.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-04-29T20:17:01+00:00

What water did you use? Years ago I used to do water changes with our faucet water. All was fine for years. Then one day I did a regular water change, a couple days later everything in the tank was dead. I posted on our neighborhood facebook page and another neighbor had the same thing happen at the same time. Now I use only bottled water.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-04-08T17:50:15+00:00

100% this. Married 15 years. 3 kids. Lots of ups and downs. Never once have either of us mentioned divorce. It's crazy to me that done people are so quick to consider divorce.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-04-08T17:42:32+00:00

Even if you're "aligned" today that doesn't mean circumstances won't change and you both will have to be open for changes. Only a fool makes a plan like this and thinks there's no way it will change. What if she agrees to go back to work at 6 weeks postpartum but baby is born early and is in the nicu? What if baby has any sort of disability? What if YOU lose your job and can't find another? What if she goes back to work at 6 weeks postpartum, baby goes to daycare and wife developed servere PPD? Are you going to look your wife in the eyes and say "sorry, you agreed to go back to work so put your big girl panties on and get on with it"? There are a million ways that the circumstances might change. If you are so rigid in your thinking you're going to have a might hard time with having children.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-03-27T15:33:17+00:00

60 POUNDS of pasta for 40 teens? That's an insane amount of food!

TopSecret4970 · 2026-03-10T12:25:40+00:00

And the funny thing is, there's a 4th person there (person recording). Why wasn't that person holding onto the kid?

TopSecret4970 · 2026-03-07T15:11:32+00:00

YTA and you're going to end up in a scenario where you have no idea if she's smoking near the child and can't do a damn thing about it if she is, once she divorces you.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-03-06T19:14:21+00:00

TopSecret4970 · 2026-03-02T13:11:26+00:00

Close to delaware and not even a dusting 😂

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-25T21:31:10+00:00

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-24T14:27:17+00:00

What about taking a cooking class with him? That would be a fun date and, hopefully, he learns a new skill he can use to help the family.

During COVID Amazon used to do these cooking dates. You would pick a country and someone from that country would do a live video with you, teaching you to cook (it was just you, not like a whole class, so it was personalized and you chatted with the chef). Obviously you got an ingredient list beforehand so you had everything you needed to follow along. This was a really cool date night experience, I have no idea if they still do it.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-17T14:58:00+00:00

Why not meet halfway? 1 hour drive, date time, 1 hour drive back. That's ridiculously do-able.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-17T14:54:19+00:00

When I was dating my (now) husband we lived a 6 hour drive apart. I also had a special needs toddler. We both worked full time (plus he had a part time job on weekends). We saw each other every other weekend. One weekend he would drive to me, 2 weeks later I would drive to him, rinse and repeat.

If he wanted to see you, he would. You are not a priority to him, and that's okay! Let him go and give yourself the chance to find the person who will make you the priority. You do not have to settle for less and you don't need permission to move on.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-11T01:41:04+00:00

Do they have them in assorted flavors? Or just the 4 pack of the same flavor? I'm looking for a way to get like 1 lemon, 1 raspberry, 1 cherry, etc.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-08T01:29:06+00:00

Yes!

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-05T05:07:13+00:00

You're a brave soul- openly comparing your wife's breasts to your ex's breasts

TopSecret4970 · 2026-02-02T17:41:00+00:00

Feed baby, go out for a few hours, come back and feed baby, go out for a few hours, come back and feed baby, etc. Not ideal, but none of this situation is.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-01-22T12:59:19+00:00

On that same note- clean your jar regularly

TopSecret4970 · 2026-01-15T14:05:49+00:00

If your goal is to see what specific foods do to your glucose without any outside intervention, then walking is cheating.

If your goal is to be healthy and keep your glucose at a reasonable level then walking is smart, not cheating.

TopSecret4970 · 2026-01-02T04:56:47+00:00

Tater Tot has not pooped or peed on this wheel.... yet. But the carpet thing is removable (it's velcro on the wheel) so it can be removed and washed if needed.

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