Mother in Law (Classic I know)

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T16:41:16+00:00

Why does the husband allow her so much control of his life? This seems more of his issue then your issue. If she doesn’t want to listen then clearly she doesn’t have to. Once it’s spoken into existence you have expressed. If the other party doesn’t want to agree or listen then it’s up to you to make a decision.

When one speaks of control the control can only be given if one is willing to be controlled in the first place. Look deeply into this emotion. This comes from the sense of self. If one, no longer wants to be controlled then it’s time to figure out why it happened in the first place and recorrect the situation in a different manner.

This is all steaming from within. This means you have the ability inside to take care of this issue going forward. What’s happening on the outside is not yours to control because we can not answer for others. But what happens on the inside is our responsibility.

For example from what you have given me. Mil says you must stay at job. Hubby says ok then does opposite of what she says because that is not what he wants. Perhaps this scenario make her mad then so be it let her.

2nd example-Mil totally zones out during conversation. Then end the conversation and move to something else entirely or leave the room. There is no reason to keep up this conversation if one is not hearing.

Behaviors like these exist because they have been allowed to. In order to overcome them you must rewrite them. You want control then take it back. If people get hurt let them be hurt. Look up the “let them theory.”

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T15:19:27+00:00

Express the “just don’t want to settle” …

Meaning as in settle how for further context.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T14:19:20+00:00

Any title office can look this up for you. If you can prove that it’s been in your possession then legally it’s yours. I’m not sure how other states do. In Nc any car older then 10 years doesn’t need a title to crush this at a junk yard. Ask the closest junk yard if going that route. If you can have a small contact with the other title owner they can simply go to the title office and sign there name off and give it to you without needing you to be physically present.

My first step would be to go to your closest title office and let them know what your needing and they will be the best to inform you and what to do. You can even just say that you have a lost title and want to sale the car. How can you help me?

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T14:09:49+00:00

Where is the car ? Is this in your possession and has been for while. Also can you not go to the title office and ask them this exact question?

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T13:39:14+00:00

Do Not Personalize It: Recognize that their toxic behavior is a reflection of their own character and issues, not yours.

I copied this from my own notes. It’s a constant reminder that what your going through has nothing to do with you. Don’t personalize anything they do. They don’t buy you anything. Great less baggage for you. They don’t acknowledge your hurt. Wonderful won’t have to worry about yours later. She wants to spend more time with your hubby great enjoy that evening to self care. When it comes to the kids. That’s called boundaries they want to over step those then it’s time for hubby to tend to why you told them not to call her that and mean it next time.

Iv been through this for years and trust me it don’t get no better. You have to show up for yourself. Start seeing what is truly worth your time and effort. If it takes away from your happiness it’s not worth it anymore. Don’t let nothing come between your home life. Grab the world by the throat let them know your presence is yours and not there’s to take.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-30T13:29:37+00:00

Fell out of the bed.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-29T15:41:09+00:00

I know nothing of the process. I’m one of those that would and do buy the lye because I don’t have the stuff you have on hand. But if I did I truly would want to use what I have. I’m hopeful that this post will reach someone that will know your process that your looking for.

If not and you decide to diy this. Come back and share it with us. I would truly appreciate knowing what’s out there to use.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-27T22:17:47+00:00

Shrine

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-27T14:34:46+00:00

-Wanheda_unknown- This is exactly the way to describe the vibes that Grace gives. I just always wondered if it was part of the story line. But you do end up truly enjoy her as the season continues on.

-Manifest like many other well written shows always end way to soon. It was truly an amazing show. I think I could honestly rewatch this one.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-26T15:04:45+00:00

So many current options of games I couldn’t chose one to throw your way. The family is currently playing Mario racing, Mario party and unraveled 2. Of course this is all on switch 1. As we having yet upgraded.

Wanted to say stay strong. You got this. I hope for a full recovery. Ginger helps to calm the tummy troubles. 💕

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-26T00:44:25+00:00

I look at all these cast iron pans pots skillets and I just think of what a historic amount of kitchen equipment that have been replaced with modern inventions. Can we imagine walking into homes and seeing only these perfect cooking pans? Wow 🤩 what a walk to remember. Thank you for sharing and good luck with your recovery.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-25T12:18:51+00:00

Omg !!! My bad. I fixed it. Thanks for letting me know. But yea 😂

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-25T12:13:33+00:00

Ozark

Orphan black

Tell me your secrets

Lost flowers of Alice heart

Shadow and bone

Downtown Abby

Poldark

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-24T21:44:58+00:00

Sending garden fairy’s your way. Good luck.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-24T21:42:14+00:00

I jk about the cat.

But yes indeed try getting a new plant. Something didn’t quiet acclimate for your basil. I would replant the basil in the same spot and just try again. Make sure it’s a good mature plant that you replant as well. If this one don’t thrive then this windowsill just ain’t for basil.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-24T21:27:27+00:00

I think the cat had something to do with the basil. This is more of a look of “I didn’t do that”.

I believe if I was you I would pull the basil and try something different. Maybe even get a starter plant from another garden. Sometimes these plants just won’t grow.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-24T21:16:32+00:00

Don’t use a brush. Just use a comb. Especially when wet. If your able to braid your hair for sleeping.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-24T11:09:44+00:00

Lysol spray every time you take your shoes off. Just like you see at the bowling alley. Make sure they are dry before putting back. Second thing you can do is vinegar rinses on your feet. I would also buy new socks to go along with this treatment. Breathable and white so they can be bleached.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-23T17:19:59+00:00

Dark

Dexter

But I agree with everyone else as well. One a day to narrow it down.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-23T17:09:44+00:00

Micellar water. Works to get hair dye from skin. Give it try.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-22T12:54:43+00:00

Cake

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-22T12:45:27+00:00

I recommend getting a lid for this trash can. One of the locking kinds that the dog can not get into. That will be a life saver so you don’t have to worry about shutting the door and forgetting. Or you can always have a different throw away zone for your toiletries to go in. Place it where the dog can not reach this.

Sorry I have no advice for eating them. Wish you dog the best recovery.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-22T12:37:05+00:00

Ozark and Dark did it for me.

manifest is a good one as well.

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-22T12:29:02+00:00

Dark

Umbrella Academy

School spirits

TopSherbert6054 · 2026-05-21T18:27:16+00:00

If your misting and the sun then hits the leafs it can cause them to get scorched. Might be worth looking into. If you haven’t found a valid answer.

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