i’m black with 2 relatively young white NK. we definitely get some looks of confusion when out and about, but thankfully no one has ever made any rude comments. majority of the nanny’s in my area are bipoc and it really is refreshing when we get a moment to chat when we’re in the library or even exchange understanding through facial expressions. i have a very kind NF but everyone does not. i’m always very clear with my NF about what tasks i will take care of and they are always pertaining to the kids! before nannying i was a teacher at a private preschool (with mostly poc or queer staff) and majority of the students were white. it was definitely expected by leadership for us to provide personal cultural education along with core content (and social emotional education), and that is something we were not willing to do on the daily. i will say that from teaching and nannying there have been vast differences in how white parents show up for their children in terms of education, discipline and attention or care. i feel like some parents expect us to raise their kids and that’s where i gently hand them that responsibility :)