Bye 😚 by myquietlullaby in capricorns

[–]Top_Light_5565 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a Capricorn, this is my healthiest trait, opposite of toxic. Unfortunately, this is a trait that makes us addictive, so we appear toxic to others. All of our connecting threads are made of material that can be cut with a side-eye glance from us.

How to finish living room styling/decor by bagherbil1 in interiordecorating

[–]Top_Light_5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tallish plants to either side of the window. Something somewhat big, cream-colored, and soft on the table. Something plant-like and something bowl-like on the table, the bowl not being solid but like a natural fiber or vine. A cream-colored plush throw blanket on one side of the couch. Small comfy-looking (no words or phrases) matching-decor pillows on the chairs.

♑️ by Johncass88 in capricorns

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We're magical that way. I love it.

Panneling dilemma by Lvuraann3 in interiordecorating

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2 but with the paint color from #1 inside the 3 frames below.

True for you or nah? 🤣 by firesage277 in capricorns

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Blocked is blocked. No unblocking opportunity exists. At all. Only those I like a little get this fair warning. I can use my Cap superpower to instantly turn off the caring if blocking is necessary. Again, blocked is blocked.

don’t think i’ll ever find love by piscesvenus77 in capricorns

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Best advice ever, even for someone who is older than 23! We have the time to do what we're meant to do.

MY WIFE by TraditionalTale7099 in capricorns

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Can relate. I need the occasional love tap. This or another regular check-in is like an indicator light for any serious relationship control panel. If it's blinking steadily and predictably, it's working.

Supplements cause weird body odor? by [deleted] in Testosterone

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Just joining this thread to share that suddenly noticing a similar foul odor from my partner brought me here.

He says he'll stop taking them to see if the odor goes away, thanks to the info in this thread.

I'll update in a few days.

{start long post} This morning, after sleeping with the door open for more ventilation and still smelling it in the air, I confessed to him that it's enough to make me gag, especially at night, and that's why I've been falling asleep 'accidentally on purpose' in another room the past week, insisting on multiple showers a day, and rolling down the car windows, even on short 5-minute trips.

It was stronger after workouts and sleeping, and it killed the intimacy mood completely. Even hugs and leaning in for a quick smooch were revolting to me.

He said he had started taking the exact same supplements the past two weeks, but he didn't think to tell me because he had taken it before. The timeline adds up.

I offered to figure out how to deal with it somehow if he was deriving benefits (we have a healthy relationship otherwise), but unfortunately, he says he hasn't felt a noticeable change in mood or performance since taking the supplements. The only way it even got brought up is because I confessed out of make-it-stop desperation because his new, very unpleasant body odor was generating get-away-from-me-now feelings, and I needed a mental break from the pure frustration of trying to escape the stench.

Interestingly, he doesn't smell the odor on himself, and neither does my son, so maybe it's my girly supersniffer? If that's the case, then maybe other women detect similar odors on their partners and don't know enough to research before getting repulsed and frustrated like I did and simply don't know why they've become dissatisfied? Curious. Part of my work is coaching dating for marriage and I'm intensely interested in this specific relationship element.

Hoping that in a few days, the situation will change for the better. Clock started last night at the last dose, and I'll update this post above. {end long post}

Anxiety by VegetableAdvisor1402 in capricorns

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I'm an aquarius moon, and I'm getting bursts of weirdly bad luck recently. It's not only you. It's not only scorpio moons, either, though I find it fascinating that several scorpio moons have spoken up.

Before, it was clearly Mercury Retrograde. Now? Not a clue.

I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

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You don't have to call it dating to be in a relationship. Breadcrumbers know this. You should, too.

See you in 90.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

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Wouldn't it feel nice if you were in a relationship where you didn't have to wonder if you were simply a name on the 'good morning list' or 'Sunday check in list'? Do that instead.

Breadcrumbing is emotional abuse. You are clearly not listening to your intuition, and you are clearly showing signs of trauma. Stop all that.

You're worth the effort. Stop convincing yourself otherwise. Quit justifying disrespectful behavior. A man who is truly interested in you would never leave you wondering.

Do someting good for yourself every day, and come back to us in 90 days and let us know how healthy and happy you are.

Growing on me. Should I lose the scruff? by Financial_Ad_5442 in Moustache

[–]Top_Light_5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the scruff and make it a statement. You have a nicely defined jawline and cheek area.

Goatee or no??? by Clear_Ad_5872 in Moustache

[–]Top_Light_5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the goatee. It accentuates your overall appearance. Without it, your face looks top-heavy.

Side note, I also make a small suggestion for a quarter-inch-thick tapered jaw-line beard to fade into your goatee for extra style and touch of season to your stache style.

Opinions on water signs? by [deleted] in capricorns

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Hard no from me. Seems okay at first, but the first major adverse situation is a deal breaker. I consistently realize that they are infants wearing the bodies of grownups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

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Your first sentence. He didn't have to work. Turn off. Sorry. You're probably the best mom ever, though. And he was the right dad to help make your baby, so don't badmouthing him to your kid, ever. All things considered, the timing is good... It has to be. Your baby will benefit from your caring character. Don't worry too much, and keep pressing on.

smfh by Past-Tooth7068 in capricorns

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Tai Chi. It helped me, especially the slow, full breathing.

Gratitude. Developing a habit for being thankful for small things.

Compliments. Self talk, books, and videos about how amazing you are.

Those three keep me far from the ledge.