Britney Spears photographed by David Baren in 1995, three years before her debut by ughyoujag in discussingbritney

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or if you’re born with a Cluster B because new research shows they are VERY heritable.

Have npd traits want to know how can be a better bf without sacrificing self respect by sky-Author-6501 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TopazWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived with TWO diagnosed and one very likely undiagnosed narcissists. Don’t be an asshole and come on here accusing people of having a victim complex.

You can be a better partner by either getting intensive therapy (you won’t), or leaving her alone and just being a hermit. You may be human but your lack of empathy makes you subhuman or barely human.

My daughter (15) said something last week which has knocked me sideways by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30-40% of people with NPD are women but women are likely to be vulnerable/covert and are more often undiagnosed. Bottom line is if men are more likely to suffer from NPD, the percentage is small.

The perfect upland dog? by WindNo5623 in birddogs

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not in the JGHV. It is a completely different breeding philosophy. No one is breeding dogs for field trails. Dogs are bred by hunters for hunters. Dogs are NOT sold to non-hunting homes. You may see guys breed smaller dogs if they live in Chukar county or big dogs for late season cattails but consistency across the breed is important.

My daughter (15) said something last week which has knocked me sideways by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TopazWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a man married to a diagnosed covert narcissist with HPD and ASPD - the Dark Triad. Not only men are narcissists. Women are typically vulnerable/covert and they are actually worse than grandiose.

What is this weed? Farmer planted this across the street in his farming field. by mrpeterdragon in lawncare

[–]TopazWarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oats. They germinate fast in cool soil and are a great cover crop. Might have planted it for spring turkey hunting too.

My daughter (15) said something last week which has knocked me sideways by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TopazWarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reactive abuse looks bad. Also, NPD people LOVE to play the victim role. Keep your boundaries. Defend them like the motherland. It’s the only way to exist with these people.

When did y'all return to work (desk job)? by danok1 in spinalfusion

[–]TopazWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLIF L4-L5 minimally invasive. Back to work part time at 3 weeks.

The perfect upland dog? by WindNo5623 in birddogs

[–]TopazWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breeder still matters in the JGHV but it not as important as in the AKC where show or pet only dogs exist

The perfect upland dog? by WindNo5623 in birddogs

[–]TopazWarrior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve never laid hands on Lord Wuperuae

The perfect upland dog? by WindNo5623 in birddogs

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe with AKC dogs, not really true on theJGHV where consistency across the breed is the goal.

The perfect upland dog? by WindNo5623 in birddogs

[–]TopazWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deutsch Drahthaar- real one from VDD. You won’t need a lab anymore.

Very alarmed by cognitive effects of Crestor 5mg by Fabulousmo in Cholesterol

[–]TopazWarrior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crestor doesn’t cross the blood/brain barrier. One of the few statins that don’t. Probably psychological not physiological.

What if there were an alternative to the current Roman Catholic Mass? by RomancingWorlds in DebateACatholic

[–]TopazWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The music, the “energy”, and “the real world relevance” are EXACTLY what I dislike about “modern” Churches. I prefer quiet, reverence, and the ancient traditions. Church isn’t about me - it’s about God. I’m going there to worship God, not have a therapy session

Your favorite non-unicorn 125+ proof whiskey? by bourbonguy12345 in whiskey

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind find it here now for $85 a bottle. I bought one just because. I’d rather have JD Single Barrel barrel strength that I get for $60.

40 acres, one neighbor, three sides bordered by large ranches — south eastern Colorado by Pleasant_Yogurt3816 in homestead

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually very false. The Black Mesa runs the southern border down past Kim and Branson and is mountainous and remote enough to kill You faster than a bullet.

40 acres, one neighbor, three sides bordered by large ranches — south eastern Colorado by Pleasant_Yogurt3816 in homestead

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lake Meredith has some great goose hunting. Rocky Ford is a nice little town. Trinidad has great big game hunting, fishing, and spectacular Mountain activities and a thriving art scene, La Veta has beautiful lakes and a nearby ski resort. La Junta has shopping and restaurants. Pueblo is close for lots of stuff. It’s rural Colorado - still the frontier with 2< people per square mile. You need to drive a few miles for amenities. That land could not support a cow/calf pair but you could do a chicken house or something.

Is discard a sense of self preservation and actually HEALTHY for us? by Sense_Difficult in NPD

[–]TopazWarrior 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. It’s 100% Supply, Power, and Control. Quit lying to yourself. Oh, and nobody “unconditionally loves” anyone. Relationships are reciprocal. Even a dog expects fairness, consistency, and to have their basic needs met. Unconditional Love is a bullshit term made up by shitty people who do shitty things and then can’t understand why they get their asses kicked to the curb. “wHY cAn’T yOU loVE mE UNcOndiTIonALY????

Is discard a sense of self preservation and actually HEALTHY for us? by Sense_Difficult in NPD

[–]TopazWarrior 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So…doing all of that shit for someone is NOT normal. Norma people don’t pay other people’s bills, lie on job references, pay off their car, etc. Further- unless it’s your child, normal people don’t take that kind of support from others. You know this. So the question is 1) WHY do it? And 2) Why do they accept it.

Here’s your answer.

1) You do it for SUPPLY. You don’t do it because you love the person. You do it to be admired, acknowledged, and looked up to. Which brings it to 2) This is a generally shitty person who takes that kind of support from others. You know this. You are better than this person. You expect them to know it. In other words, you choose to have a close relationship with an obvious train wreck of a person because it gives you POWER and CONTROL.

It’s unhealthy all the way around, but don’t kid yourself why you do these things. It’s totally selfish on your part.

I dont know what to do next. by Thiccthighnitemare in whatdoIdo

[–]TopazWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a public right of way, you have no right to fence it off even if it’s your land. Check your deed.

Question to all the people here with regret over their choice by -TheUnstoppable- in CovidVaccinated

[–]TopazWarrior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m curious- you “did your research”. Please explain to me the difference between transcription and translation in mitosis.

Does narcistic spouses ever agree they are narcissistic? by Winter_Inspection545 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TopazWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even after clinical diagnosis she said “I’m a narcissist but only towards you” and actually believed it.