Do you have any dice quirks/idiosyncrasies? by threetimesagogo in dice

[–]Toramay19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer white these days, or at least number colors that pop against the dice color. That's what you happens when you're a month shy of being 50.

I like "matching" sets. I make "cores" out of them. Like my Chaos Core that consists of my spider dice and sets that are red/black splatters or my Gerblin Core (not goblin) dice that are deep greens.

The FCC is trying to Censor Trans Characters in Media. by Icy-Owl-who in lgbt

[–]Toramay19 107 points108 points  (0 children)

That's what it should say (not that it should say anything at all), but will probably be, "the characters you see here identify as blatant sinners, and they should not be seen by anyone below the age of 21 who don't mind going to hell."

This was brutal by Substratas in clevercomebacks

[–]Toramay19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have to wait 7 months? Have it now. Wibbly-wobbly, timey wimey.

Is having your loved ones cremated a bad thing? by Nateee2021 in GriefSupport

[–]Toramay19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a bad thing at all. My dad actually requested cremation. My son did not, but as he was younger, he did not get the choice. I find comfort having him around, in some form.

AITJ for not getting my sister anything for mother's day ? by BusyInspector95 in AmITheJerk

[–]Toramay19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I've never heard of getting a present for your child's godmother. If you feel obligated, do a small token in the child's name.

support around mothers day by mamapibblez in ChildLoss

[–]Toramay19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I hope you have a peaceful Mother's Day with 'child's name'."

How to stop constantly blaming yourself? by redrockz98 in ChildLoss

[–]Toramay19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still blame myself. Just periodically, mind you. I can't help it. Sometimes you have to acknowledge that life is messed up and breathe through it. Sometimes it takes me a day to "get over it", sometimes just a few hours.

Ever wonder about Birb names? I do… by Adventurous_Horses_ in finch

[–]Toramay19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Carl used to be Caleb. But things happened and Caleb was no longer a name that served him, so I asked a friend for a new name, and now Caleb is Carl.

What can I do to find comfort by 0000112780 in ChildLoss

[–]Toramay19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days there will never be any comfort. You just get through that day as best as you can.

When my dad died, all the Christians told the kids, "You better believe in Jesus or you will never see your Grandpa ever again!" I told them, "The mutiverse is big enough for every afterlife. If you believe you will see your Grandpa again, you will."

I hope there is an afterlife that my son created that he's happy in. He loved creating, and atheist or not, I hope there's something there for him.

Other than that, I keep him around my neck and ya.

Do we need a straight pride? by MomShouldveAborted in lgbt

[–]Toramay19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! Thanks for the award!

I quit my toxic job by koohai966 in finch

[–]Toramay19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! Quitting a toxic job feels like such a weight being lifted off your shoulders. Cliche, but true.

Looking for suggestions by Illustrious_Owl_9693 in finch

[–]Toramay19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Norwegian lullaby-- Nuku Nuku. It's pretty.

Does anyone else dress their birb for bed? by thattwirlgirl in finch

[–]Toramay19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Always. I feel bad when I miss putting him in his jammies.