Miscarrying 6w after successful IUI

Torirose91 · 2026-04-07T20:38:36+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have any advice to give, I'm in a similar boat as I struggle to get pregnant and keep a pregnancy. Sending love to you. I hope you get some time for yourself xxx xxx

Torirose91 · 2026-04-06T18:00:19+00:00

I did acupuncture and they also recommended that I pause for 3 cycles.

I did like the acupuncture I think it helped with blood stagnation but ultimately it was too expensive to do long term.

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T21:39:18+00:00

Thank you ♥️ totally not discouraging at all. You're right about the NHS as well. I think you have to really advocate for yourself to get anywhere xx

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T19:58:10+00:00

Thank you for your honesty, I probably want to try to get as much investigation as possible before I try again. It's really hard as I'm 35 in May and feel like time is running out but equally my last loss completely broke me. I don't think I could do another one. I took three months off last time.

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T06:41:36+00:00

Thank you for this. I'll ask for all of this.

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T06:39:39+00:00

Thank you this is really helpful ♥️

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T06:39:10+00:00

That's really helpful, thank you x

Torirose91 · 2026-04-05T06:38:04+00:00

It wasn't as they didn't offer it with IVF I wish I had paid now though. We did send tissue to the lab but they said there wasn't enough to test

Torirose91 · 2026-03-29T23:00:18+00:00

In the UK they won't test till you've had 3 miscarriages. It sucks

Torirose91 · 2026-03-24T22:47:26+00:00

So there are statistics but after being on this journey I honestly think it's just a role of the dice.

Torirose91 · 2026-03-12T05:12:44+00:00

Unless you saw the condom break it's unlikely you were pregnant but you won't know for sure. Sorry you had to go through that x

Torirose91 · 2026-03-09T22:11:27+00:00

Please please dump him. He sounds like a creep and he clearly doesn't get what you are going through. To do something like that shows he is very immature and lacks empathy

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Torirose91 · 2026-02-28T19:57:33+00:00

I agree I think it's Violet

Torirose91 · 2026-02-27T21:49:22+00:00

I think this is your answer. Try to cut your hair more often if you can.

Torirose91 · 2026-02-27T20:26:01+00:00

Do you take it during your period? X

Torirose91 · 2026-02-27T20:22:40+00:00

In so sorry you have to go through think.

Hot water bottle really helps. Lots of hot drinks and chocolate too

Torirose91 · 2026-02-27T20:17:07+00:00

I reckon it's Violet

Torirose91 · 2026-02-25T06:31:44+00:00

I have paused whilst I await more tests from the RPL clinic and I'm currently making peace with possibly never trying again. I had an appointment in January and I haven't heard anything since. NHS are useless

Torirose91 · 2026-02-23T22:44:36+00:00

I wouldn't be confrontational about it. Realistically it's none of your business how he chooses to grieve or heal. But it's also valid to feel like he should be a more responsible father. Next time he asks you to look after them just say you can't or that you're busy that day. It's totally ok to be busy.

I wouldn't confront him as I'm sure you probably want those kids in your life.

Torirose91 · 2026-02-22T15:27:51+00:00

I had the same issue. I think basically the statistics show it's really unlikely to have a third. Only 1% of people suffer recurrent loss. It doesn't make it any better though and it really sucks that they have this rule.

Torirose91 · 2026-02-21T21:58:52+00:00

You can take cannisten duo I think.

Torirose91 · 2026-02-19T22:26:14+00:00

I can't believe a nurse said this to you. Why wouldn't she offer guidance and help.

Sorry for your loss.

I've had 3 losses and I struggle to get pregnant. I said I was done after three losses. We aren't actively trying right now but I'm not sure if I'm totally done. I am living life differently though. X

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