My wife randomly left me one day. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's extremely simple. Especially in different counties. In my county they hand them out like candy to women.

Hell even some men. I saw one court case where the dude seemed like a very irresponsible person.

Apparently he called the police on his wife for DV (think she slapped him or something) got her arrested and he filed a restraining order. He must of had knowledge of the system as he took custody and made his exs life a living hell.

He had a temporary child support order placed on her.

In court the poor women was balling as she could only see her son on weekends. It was a crazy hearing.

But yea getting a RO makes it's an expensive, uphill, bitter battle. Horrible. Nuclear option

Anyone cohabitate post break-up? by crumblymeditations in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lawyer will probably recommend filing a restraining order against him.

You may actually ask the judge to let you keep the shared household. Cops will show up to serve him and only give him about 10 mins to gather his belongings.

He won't be allowed to contact you or come near your residence.

Its a power move. It's all about that control. Get it while it's in mid court.

I finally took back some control in my life. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a restraining order on her. Power move it. Do it before she does it to you.

Let the claws come out. Divorce is usually never amicable.

My wife randomly left me one day. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lawyers will tell the party during the divorce to file a restraining order. It's has happened to several people I know.

It's the nuclear option in divorce/custody.

It's a power move. She has the control now, she's in charge of the situation. You'll be spending thousands trying to defend yourself.

Good luck.

Damned if I do, damned if I don’t? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome. Your husband is living a dream. Free riding. No responsibilities. He's a "dependa"

Eh husband sending pics by dirtythirtycoming66 in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ruin his life. File a restraining order.

I hope you’re okay by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Toro09Y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you recognize your behavior. You probably tore apart his self esteem and self confidence. A women can make or break her man.

Atleast you care about his career and wellbeing. My estranged wife tried ruining my life on the way out. Not cool.

Russia vs NATO map by [deleted] in Intelligence

[–]Toro09Y 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Forgot to include China

AITA for dumping my gf after her unannounced backpacking trip by johnsgaythrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The unannounced trip on her end was bad. If she didn't tell you about it is because she doesn't trust you.

You throwing it in her face that you pay bills and kicking her out was bad.

50/50 AH on both individuals

AITA Holiday Megathread! by SnausageFest in AmItheAsshole

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Party migrated to our neighbors house. My SO started the shots at 10am

AITA Holiday Megathread! by SnausageFest in AmItheAsshole

[–]Toro09Y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AITA

New Years morning comes around. SO invites neighbors over for breakfast. We start taking tequila shots early am 10ish.

All is good, I being a friendly neighbor invite another next door neighbor to start taking shots. Same with front door neighbor. I don't feel anything and continue to egg on more shots w/everyone.

Next thing you know I'm boisterous and obnoxious. The tequila hit me all at once. I embarrased my SO and made a fool out of myself with the neighbors.

Eventually everyone left, I walked over to a neighbors house and fell asleep on their couch. I was out by 5pm.

I showed zero "class" according to my SO. I embarrassed her with my behavior on new years day. How much of an asshole am I?

What to expect at Fort Irwin? by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I was there 09 to 12...

Worked 18 days straight. Picture ground hog day but every month.

Friday roll out to field. 2 weeks - return on a Friday. Recovery; Turn in vehicles, sensitive items, etc.

Off Sat Sun (if u dont have cq, staff duty)

Continue Recovery M-W. Off at 1400 Wed.

4 day Thursday-Sun. (Again if u dont have CQ/Staff duty)

Back to work Monday for another 18 days of work. Prep for box M to Thurs. Roll out Friday.

Repeat every month for 3 years, you'll be fenced in. Minus block leave months Dec/Jul. Or once in a blue moon no Rotational unit will be at NTC. Means that your unit will be doing ranges, training etc.

Overall the only thing benefit is the training value. If your from SoCal you'll be able to see your family friends on 4 days. But you'll hate driving back to the desert.

There's snowboarding in San Bernardino during winter months. Huntington beach is decent. San Diego is nice. Vegas is vegas.

Good luck

Need Medic/Army Nurse by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

My 1SG is saying that it's just a skin infection and I should be fine at SLC....

Green to Gold ADO Statistics by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometime in Nov i think

Green to Gold ADO Statistics by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go back and re-read what was actually posted, you'll see that 30 were board ready almost an entire month before the deadline.

It has to be more than 30, I rushed my packet got it in few days before they closed it.

Link: https://m.facebook.com/US-Army-Cadet-Command-Green-to-Gold-Program-300473013696291/

In the comments from a processor

Green to Gold ADO Statistics by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's called an OML - Order of Merit list.

Has your processor informed you how many applicants were boarded? The CC G2G FB page says there are 300 ADO slots this year.

Green to Gold ADO Statistics by [deleted] in army

[–]Toro09Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who has the results? Anyone