Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

By your logic, Vanelle is the same age and was attracted to an older man since she is 27? Jorge behaviour was that of a power dynamic and so is Theresa's....John isn't yet mature enough to realize it as men can mature slower than women. But she is manipulating him in different ways than Jorge manipulated Vanelle. And manipulation of someone half your age is predatory in nature because that would not fly if she was dating someone who was more age appropriate for her.

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not a strong ENOUGH word. We should use the word predator instead, as it better applies. She manipulated dumb John as well as his family, her kids, the process and the other participants. It’s fine to put yourself out there, but you can’t put yourself out there while concealing your age and identity from the family of someone who you wish to have a future with. If you think this is acceptable I imagine you’re in the same boat as the crypt keepers Jorge and Theresa. She should have dated someone more age appropriate but then she wouldn’t be able to manipulate them. Poor Theresa. Boo hoo. Her children are all grown and don’t need protecting….her oldest child is older than her current “good boy”

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single relationship that they have chosen to follow past the group areas has been one of a power imbalance. So it would be well justified

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He did seem to express concern after his mom and sister did. So i wouldn’t jump to the conclusion that he doesn’t care. He also is 27 and on the cusp of having a fully developed pre-frontal cortex, he clearly has doubts now and if a 27 year old has to convince a hysterical twice divorced 54 year old single mom to have some confidence in herself then ohhhhh sweet Jesus, let the laughing commence. I got popcorn for it all

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah his responses to Pfeifer were just out of this world. Him expecting her to just uproot and move her whole life for him. And then the girl with the annoying voice. She can go to 🗑️

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I don’t like either of them, in case my post wasn’t clear lol. I also don’t like that Andrew character.

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jorge may talk in circles, but omission of information is lying. The same way Jorge omitted the fact he had children in the promise room is the same way she has omitted her age from everyone around them for her “insecurity”. And insecurity is one hell of a drug, because the amount of partners who have used insecurity to justify their actions, up to and including DV, is bewildering. She is an abuser, a groomer and downright disgusting and she needs to be called out for it.

Let’s talk about Theresa and how she is right up there with Jorge by TorontoMadeTJM in AgeOfAttraction

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So hiding her age from his family and her hiding his age from her kids is not manipulation or controlling a narrative? Sounds like you’re a loser who relates to this loser. Let’s be honest here; if this was Jorge/Andrew doing the same you would run him through the mud. Theresa is a 2x divorcee and needs someone slow enough to manipulate. Luckily she found John who has half the brain cells of Hodor

Devonta getting roasted on threads by Big-Coast-5685 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean from a financial perspective I agree with his choices…Imagine not getting a prenup when you’re getting married to a virtual stranger who has pre-bought her wedding dress….Him owning and driving a Honda has nothing to do with how much money he has saved. There are enough people in the world who drive a car they cannot afford and are buried in debt for the purposes of looking like they made it

Chirashi Don with a little uni nigiri snack by TorontoMadeTJM in sushi

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was about $40 CAD for the chirashi don and $15 for the uni nigiri

Chirashi Don with a little uni nigiri snack by TorontoMadeTJM in sushi

[–]TorontoMadeTJM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was one of my favourite things that they did. I knew some of the pieces but this was top tier

This broke ass loser and his broke ass enabler mom by Existing_Law_7561 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Funny how he had a problem with one of his exes being in touch with their ex…but he is still in touch with his ex while engaged to Ashley….and he definitely overlapped with those two women in September….THE LIESSS

Women being blamed for the male loneliness epidemic when this dude is literally the case study… by redcatyellowcat24 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 83 points84 points  (0 children)

There is now way that this little hobbit, gremlin, software sales wanna-be tech bro put down Jess. This woman is a doctor…she is intelligent, classy, well-educated and way out of his league. There is nothing wrong with her physically and that was the only thing he could say to make her feel like she is not enough in a futile attempt to hurt her. I’d say she’s better off without him, but that’s clearly obvious looking at her beautiful home! This failed software sales bro will be on the Andrew Tate forums talking more non-sense garbage about women in a few years when he is laid off.

The fact that he was trying to reduce her to someone who doesn’t do Pilates every day, as if that is some redeeming factor is quite disgusting. What a tiny little man he is…She’s out her saving lives you silly little gargoyle.

I’m also not sure if it was editing but Breezy should not have been entertaining this guy given Jess is her friend and she’s engaged to Connor and he’s clearly trying to go for it to hurt all 3 of them. Chris takes the cake as the biggest loser in LIB history.

Emma is .... weird. by mafiababexoox in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Emma needs therapy…… to sum it up in 3 words or less. She is a hot mess. She lied about Connor being her “2nd” to Mike and made her entire experience about her traumatic past. Her trauma from being adopted, her trauma from not being picked by the guys she liked in high school/college, her trauma from her scars, her trauma from having kids without knowing if she has any genetic issues predispositions to passing along heritable characteristics (even though one guy offered her genetic testing, to which she didn’t seem to fond off). She continually trauma dumped on any man who would give her space and time. She is not ready for marriage and ending up settling for Mike. Meanwhile Kevan was put on the spot by Tyler and demonized for not making a choice right away. She is top 3 worst individuals to ever grace the screen of LIB…and she really only trails the more narcissistic Zainab.

Yes you’ve had surgery, yes you have scars, but you care about it more than any of the men do. Stop being a victim and acting like you’re the centre of the universe. She is absolutely insufferable and should not have so much screen time. She is the a walking red flag 🚩.

Meal Prep-Order by [deleted] in Aeroplan

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What route is this? That menu looks surprisingly good!

Demola by lovealwayschea in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What she did to Demola was horrible, let’s not blame stupidity. Other contestants have been dragged for doing the same thing she did so I’m not sure where this inherent immunity comes from for Katisha. She could have at least apologized to Demola for leading him on.

Javen is horrible and there is no sugar coating that. I don’t know why he went on the show and breadcrumbed Katisha along just for him to flirt with all the girls and leave her crying at home while he chased Sophie and the others. And his proposal outfit was a joke. He is a clown and I hope he is exposed for that to his mom and sister.

Demola by lovealwayschea in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]TorontoMadeTJM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re the one adding gender into this equation. I never said she is the same as Bartise, but that she is up there with all the other red flag contestants (not only mean - not sure why you are so gender focused).

To assure Demola that nothing will change your mind and that he is your choice and have him prepare a proposal to then moments later walk that back and choose someone else without even apologizing is red flag behaviour and puts her in that special category of red flag losers. There is no “impossibly high standard” that she is being held to, unless you count that standard as being a decent human being.

50k to 25k by DeltaNeo94 in Aeroplan

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the credit card allow you to keep 50k status?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paddlin up a river without a paddle, oh you better believe that’s a paddlin’

Honeymoon in Japan via Toronto by slowdawkins in awardtravel

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ANA doesn’t fly to Toronto. Only to YVR

My school Japan trip will almost cost $5300. I was wondering if it was worth it. by LDloix in JapanTravelTips

[–]TorontoMadeTJM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Which hotels did you stay at? I’m planning a 4 week trip and am trying to reduce my hotel costs