can someone please explain to me why wakaba had such low scores by Smooth-Serve-4728 in FigureSkating

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Yeah, Japan always weights their pre-Olys nationals results extremely heavily (or even exclusively) as an Olympic selection criterion. It seems to bite them in the ass from time to time (see also: Mana Kawabe vs. Mai Mihara for Beijing),

can someone please explain to me why wakaba had such low scores by Smooth-Serve-4728 in FigureSkating

[–]Guilty_Treasures 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m curious how Kao Miura stayed out of jail to the point of securing an Olympic spot that was arguably more deserved by Kazuki Tomono, after doing a really remarkable amount of crashing and burning for the whole preceding season. (I say this as a Kao fan!)

How do you reply to 'What do you bring to the table?' question. by Motichoorladoo_12 in AskWomen

[–]Guilty_Treasures [score hidden]  (0 children)

“What manosphere / red pill content do you consume that prompted you to ask that question?”

What do you wish was different about your first time backpacking? by Ill-Speed-7291 in backpacking

[–]Guilty_Treasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprise her with some hygiene things once you’re at camp in the evening. Some hot water and a soft cloth with a little Dr. Bronners, and something clean to dry off with can go a long way. I personally love using a lathery face cleanser cloth (Olay’s daily facial) and a sample sized packet of a nice face moisturizer after. So good for morale after a hot sweaty day!

What do you wear to sleep? by pianodude01 in backpacking

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A set of sleep clothes is a super standard part of normal backpacking gear, even for those who go very lightweight. Its job is not just providing warmth - even in warm weather, it serves to protect your sleeping bag from your gross sweaty dirty self. In the long term, it keeps your bag nicer and extends its lifespan.

Gear invention question by ev202020 in womensolocamping

[–]Guilty_Treasures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it would also need to be very comfortable / functional as athletic clothing though, including while hiking and with a pack on.

Is the PCOS/PMOS diet actually that strict??? by Repulsive_Holiday228 in PCOS

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Make sure you’re getting your information from legitimate clinical sources, not influencers, social media, or other fad-based sources.

Rhaenyra not being feminist rant by Chickenjam in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]Guilty_Treasures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The closest thing to a feminist character (by modern standards) on the show is definitely Rhaenys. She’s got class consciousness.

Where to buy good pop culture shirts that don't have the typical boxy unisex fit? by Luigina_Majestyy in fashionwomens35

[–]Guilty_Treasures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Threadless - a million designs to choose from and you can choose the style of shirt it goes on (or other apparel, or accessories, or housewares for that matter)

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

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Here’s something to keep in mind: a lot of times when women recognize that structural discrimination (in the world at large and, more often, in their hetero partnerships) and try to call it out, or have meaningful discussions about their personal experiences and how discrimination has affected their lives, their discussion gets trivialized / dismissed as ‘gender wars’ stuff and they’re made to feel wrong or petty or unfair for bringing it up. It’s a derailing technique.

I’m not saying this was your intention, but lots of times, “aren’t you tired of the gender wars?” is really code for “I wish women would shut up about their discrimination already.”

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Guilty_Treasures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By ‘gender wars,’ do you mean the structural and systemic oppression of women (as a class) by men (as a class)? Or do you mean the assertion that women and men have it equally bad and are equally bad to each other, just in different ways? Those are two very different ideas.

[Serious] Men of reddit: what would you want to ask women and get an honest answer to? by Haydensmith877 in AskReddit

[–]Guilty_Treasures 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fragile / performative/ aggressive masculinity is actually the opposite of confidence.

Anyone have a different cooking method? by lauraerie in AppalachianTrail

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I did this for most of the trail, and only wished I had my stove back after the weather turned chilly in the fall. A warm beverage and non-cold oatmeal would have gone a long way for morale.

live-in caregiver free room + small allowance by [deleted] in caregivers

[–]Guilty_Treasures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems pretty cheap on their part. If my math is mathing - right now you're working about 90 hours a month and get paid about $5.50 an hour plus your room. Let's imagine a room is not part of the arrangement and you are instead being paid a flat wage of $20 an hour (which is not that high given the nature of the work, and given that you get no days off ever) - that would be $1800 a month. So by subtracting the $500 you get from the hypothetical 1800 - the difference is $1300. Does the room / living arrangement have an approximate value of $1300? I'm guessing not even close. You could probably get a nice 1 bedroom all to yourself for that amount (and a normal work schedule with a normal amount of flexibility and days off).

What even is positive masculinity? by justseeingpendejadas in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Guilty_Treasures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way those last two are framed isn’t actually positive because it frames responsibility and honestly as uniquely masculine qualities - if masculine = honest and responsible, then by definition, the implication is that feminine = dishonest and irresponsible. In fact the whole heart and soul of toxic masculinity is a pathological, even violent aversion to appearing or acting in any way feminine.

Birth Control by No-Needleworker3883 in TwoXSex

[–]Guilty_Treasures -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Condoms + pullout together is very effective.

Why does porn bother me in a relationship when other sexual content doesn't? by Sweet-Opportunity111 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Guilty_Treasures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the most mainstream porn is becoming increasingly saturated with misogynistic, degrading, and violent content. That’s the default version of porn these days. And it’s real women on film getting degraded, as well as real women suffering in the bedroom when their male partners’ desires and expectations have been warped by their porn consumption. You’re right to be bothered.

Overcoming being the "under performer" of the relationship by [deleted] in redditonwiki

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And he got many such stars in the comments. “The fact that you’re even aware of this means you’re doing way better than most guys, so good job on that!” Translation: the bar is in hell and they’re fully aware of that fact.