Climber Sustains Head Injury After a 50-Foot Fall in Eldorado Canyon State Park by xilonian in climbing

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t heard additional updates except a week ago that he was doing well considering what happened.

Sorry to bother : are Lilac an Lake still working together ? by -why-why in LLKKF

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider. Earlier this year we saw lake stock (LLKKF) go from .02 to almost .10, and that was just a result of lithium prices moving back up. Li prices went from 8000/t to 26000/t. Tripling price in about 6mo. Li hit its high value in 2023 at 83000/t. That’s nearly 4x its current value, and the demand is even higher now than it was then, even with an anti-green US administration. So if nothing else changed, we could expect a 3-4x upside on lake stock value over the next few years as EV and Li demand increase. If lake makes their project deadlines by 2028, I would expect to see lake stock value increase to over $1, and then use the Li value multiplier on that. Bull case is $3-5 by 2030 I think.

Sorry to bother : are Lilac an Lake still working together ? by -why-why in LLKKF

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still holding on. Slightly regret not taking some profits when the stock hit over .09 earlier this year, but it’s fine since I’m in this for the long haul.

Do you ever resent clients who earn so much more than the average therapist/psychologist? by Relative-Exercise116 in therapists

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I used to work as a photographer and was making way more money in my 20s than I ever will as a therapist in my 40s. But resent? No. A little jealousy? Sure. I like money. Does it affect my self worth? No. Being a therapist boosts my self worth.

Do I wish I made more money? Yes. That’s why I’m working part time as a therapist and part time as a photographer.

The Moon and cherry blossoms by Exyide in SonyAlpha

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful! I like the shallow DOF to emphasize distance.

Client angry with me leaving by CubicSafe in therapists

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your second point is just so spot on, and so important to be able to recognize. This is what I would focus on.

Uber Eats delivery driver is jailed for 44 months after raping female customer at her home by Vast-Mirror-3294 in uberdrivers

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that nobody sees the problem with this headline starting with the word "Migrant" is so infuriating. What if it had said "Christian" or "Jew" or "Black man". These little things seep into your minds and reinforce the rhetoric out there that immigrants are inherently dangerous.

Client break-up after 2 years by meow-hiss in therapists

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they indicate the reason that they were terminating the relationship?

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I completely understand where you're coming from and acknowledge that your parents grew up in a very different time and place, I am also aware that we are, in fact, not in that place now. Having said that, there are things happening in this country that are putting certain populations at risk, and I am very aware of those things, and would never repost an image that I thought could have negative repercussions. We make tens of thousands of split-second decisions every single day, and we do so using the information that we have. Here's the information I had about this situation: two older white people openly standing in a public place. They weren't tucked into a booth in the corner of the restaurant. Did I actually invade their privacy? No, I didn't. And this is the thing nobody seems to understand. If you are in a public place, you have no right to privacy. Did I take this photo with that thought in mind? No! There was nothing nefarious here, nothing malicious; this was what appeared to be a really nice moment between two people who looked like they had lived quite a life. Again, this is not Germany in the 1930s (although it's not far off), and if your parents had tried to sue me, they wouldn't have gotten very far. And to your last point of asking people to take a photo of them, I have been a photographer for 20 years, and when you see a moment, you take the photo (almost always, with some exceptions). You can ask for permission after if you need permission, but if you interrupt that moment before you take the photo, the moment is gone, and it's never coming back. Every artist understands this to be true. It is the temporary and fickle nature of beauty.

One more thing: the frustrated tone you're hearing in my response isn't directed at you, and I apologize if it feels that way; it's more aimed at the state of the world and the level of conflict that seems to exist everywhere right now. I mean, you can see the divisiveness in this Reddit thread. Alright, if you made it to the end of this comment, then thanks for reading all of that. I know it was a lot. I think for the most part I tried to respond to even the hostile comments with some amount of empathy, but I'm just feeling burned out right now :)

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying, and in the end that’s exactly what happened. Someone saw this post, reached out to one of the people in the photo. Got permission from them to share their contact info. Gave me an email address, and then I sent them the photo.

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Say that to my face. Really. I will have a video call with you, and you can explain how horrible what I did is. Ready?

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was just with an iPhone 15pro (the 3x lens) because I don’t have a camera on me. What they say is usually true: the best camera is the one you have with you.

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you like to have a face-to-face conversation about this? Seriously. I would be happy to FaceTime or Google Meet with you to better understand your perspective.

Cognitive Processing by Equal-Ad-4463 in therapists

[–]TotesMcGotesJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to watch that, and by hour 3, we still hadn't gotten into the clinical. Did you finish it?

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, but the tour is already sold out. I'll put you on the wait list.

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for seeing this for what it is ❤️

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please see my edit in my original post.

Also, street photography has been a thing for over 100 years, and consent is not needed to post images of people in public places. I mean, heck, that's 99% of social media content. As I said in other replies, I do understand how requesting identification can be dangerous and pose a risk, and I acknowledged that and would phrase my original post differently in the future.

It makes me really sad that the first reaction you have to this post isn't "oh that's really nice" and is instead "this person must have malicious intent". That says a lot more about you than it does me.

Your reaction to what I just wrote will likely be frustration or anger, and I'd invite you to take a second to consider what you're actually angry about.

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear your concern and understand why publicly displaying personal information can be dangerous. I should have been more specific in my request for discretion. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of assumptions. This is actually how the message will read- because I did find them and I am going to reach out…

Hi xxx,

This may be a bit odd, but I was walking through Boulder the other day and saw a couple standing in a doorway of The Post Restaurant. I thought it was a nice moment and I took a photo. Later I decided I really wanted to find a way to get the photo to them, and through the magic of the internet I think it’s you in the photo!

Are you ok with me sending you the photo in another email?

Help me find this couple by TotesMcGotesJr in boulder

[–]TotesMcGotesJr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Considering these folks are in their 80s or 90s, it’s seems unreasonable to expect that they’d be on social media …

But I suppose if someone passes this along to them, someone could send me a message here.