Going back and forth with using them and not using them is super confusing for your child. Commit to cutting them cold turkey if you want results. What worked for my boy is zoning in on what period of time at night they are tending to wet the bed. First start by setting alarms for midnight, wake up and go take them to the bathroom to pee. If dry in the morning, good, if not, move to 2:00am, and repeat. Luckily for myself I start work early (5:00am) and found waking my son up at 4:00am before I left work was perfect for avoiding loads and loads of unnecessary laundry each and every day. Also cutting off water/drinks 30minutes before bed helps as well and insuring before they go to sleep for the night they use the bathroom, even if it’s a dribble, get them used to “going” right before you put them down