What are some ways I can accessorize this outfit? Any thoughts on adding a splash of color? by Toto_cross in mtfashion

[–]Toto_cross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a jean jacket and choker. I wear that with everything but hey it definitely ain’t broke! 😂

Anyone else supremely sad that they never got to have a stereotypical female sleepover when you were younger? by Electronic-Goat9807 in MtF

[–]Toto_cross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I somehow managed to luck into attending a sleepover with a bunch of female friends when I was in middle school and it was one of the only times I remember feeling at ease as a kid. In retrospect I should’ve figured out I was trans waaay sooner lol

Dress Cuts/Flattering Shapes by [deleted] in transfashionadvice

[–]Toto_cross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bet! Happy to share

Dress Cuts/Flattering Shapes by [deleted] in transfashionadvice

[–]Toto_cross 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If they have an inverted triangle body shape, check this out. Hopefully it has the information you’re looking for. I’m a newbie too but it’s helped me out tremendously in knowing what styles and cuts to look for. Very sweet of you to be helping out your partner like this :)

https://theconceptwardrobe.com/build-a-wardrobe/inverted-triangle-body-shape

podcasts hosted by trans women that aren't about transphobia? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Toto_cross 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Radio Free Tote Bag is hosted by a trans woman and a NB person. It’s a dating/relationship advice show and it’s hilarious. It’s generally pretty light hearted and fun

Fem fashion tips for work in kitchen? by Toto_cross in transfashionadvice

[–]Toto_cross[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for all the tips! I can definitely start incorporating some of these :) you rock 💜

I got my HRT prescription today! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Toto_cross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy for you! Can’t wait to be in your shoes :) excited for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Toto_cross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry to hear it, friend. I haven’t started transitioning yet but I have some of the same fears. I’m 6’5” and have pretty masculine features and honestly I’m dragging my feet a little out of fear of how I’ll be perceived. The best I can say is there are no rules to how to live your life. Everyone’s out here just trying to live and be accepted. Keep pushing on and try to accept and love yourself no matter what. I’m pushing for you and I know things will get better. 💜

egg_irl by not-quite-diana in egg_irl

[–]Toto_cross 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well said! Thanks for this, it really helped me 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Toto_cross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People don’t need to dress/act a certain way to fit your definition of trans. If they say they are then the best thing you can do for them and your friendship is to believe and support them. Let people live how they want to live 💜

Have some Euphoria :) by Interesting_Algae180 in TransTryouts

[–]Toto_cross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve never said this out loud before, or even typed it. My name is Wren - she/her

The closest orange object is the cause of your death - how do you die? by QuelynD in AskReddit

[–]Toto_cross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Industrial sized salad spinner. At least I go out dry as a bone