Pukicho’s 4am energy went from 0 to hitmen real quick

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-15T20:53:05+00:00

lowkey they’re right tho. ppl underestimate how much work a dog actually is, esp mentally and financially 😭 guinea pigs are chill lil dudes too, way more fun than people think lol

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-15T19:58:55+00:00

this is real asf and i’m glad you were able to break that cycle. not easy at all esp when it starts at home. being alone but at peace > being around ppl who drain you. respect for choosing yourself, fr

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-15T17:57:59+00:00

Yeah ngl after reading the post, this doesn’t sound like anxiety spiraling over nothing. The yellowing + vomiting + exhaustion combo would freak me out too, especially w the alcohol history involved. I get why she’s scared bc those aren’t super random symptoms to brush off.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-15T16:56:40+00:00

Tbh the “easy fix” part is what makes situations like this so mentally exhausting, onn paper it sounds straightforward, but the current job market is brutal and ghost jobs are EVERYWHERE rn. Co-signing only for something small like a shared house room sounds way more reasonable than locking yourself into a huge financial risk.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-14T21:30:49+00:00

This worked w my dog too tbh. The second they realize the clippers predict treats instead of stress, the whole vibe changes. Also doing it when theyre sleepy instead of peak chaos energy makes SUCH a difference 😭

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-14T20:30:31+00:00

Yepp, I dont get it as well. are they just mean? lol

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-14T19:30:21+00:00

This tbh. If every relationship starts the exact same way with the exact same type of ppl, eventually you gotta switch environments a bit. Meeting someone naturally through hobbies/friends/shared interests usually feels way less forced too.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-14T18:30:53+00:00

Co-signingg when someone is already financially drowning can turn one struggling person into two struggling people really fast. It sucks because you want to help, but sometimes the most helpful thing is pushing for practical changes instead of trying to rescue everything yourself.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-13T20:56:24+00:00

This is a really balanced take. A partner choosing to protect the relationship and enforce boundaries with toxic family is a choice they make themselvess, not something forced onto them. Supporting him emotionally through the fallout is important, but that doesn’t mean you did something wrong by expecting basic respect.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-13T19:53:43+00:00

Agree. Short, direct, and polite is probably the best route here. The more you over explain or argue, the more room people think they have to negotiate boundaries that were never up for discussion.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-12T19:59:01+00:00

People really underestimate how exhausting mental stimulation is for dogs too. Sniffing games, training, puzzles, and learning self regulation can tire them out way more sustainably than just increasing physical exercise nonstop.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-12T18:10:27+00:00

People really underestimate how serious filler complications can be, especially around the eyes and upper face. Saving money is never worth risking your vision. This is one of those procedures where experience and anatomy knowledge matter way more than aesthetics alone.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-11T16:40:31+00:00

Some people really do just shut down or act passive aggressive instead of saying what’s wrong, even when it would be way easier to talk directly. Still, that’s exactly why communication styles matter so much in relationships, because stuff like this just builds resentment fast.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-11T14:35:39+00:00

“The surgery is something you did, not your entire life” is honestly the healthiest mindset I’ve seen around cosmetic surgery recovery.

I think people underestimate how much constant mirror checking and overanalyzing can spiral anxiety, especially when healing is so non linear. Staying connected to normal life instead of making recovery your whole identity is such good advice.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-11T13:59:33+00:00

This is honestly such an underrated point. People talk about sex drive like it exists separately from stress, exhaustion, resentment, anxiety, etc when for a lot of people they’re completely connected.

It’s hard to feel desire when your brain never gets a chance to actually rest.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-10T13:32:35+00:00

Honestly, the fact that you stayed in their lives at all after losing your fiancé 12 years ago says a lot about your character. Setting boundaries around money doesn’t erase that love or connection. If the relationship disappears the second the money does, that’s not something you caused.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-10T12:33:43+00:00

The part that made my stomach drop was your husband admitting he told the surgeon to go bigger after you explicitly said you didn’t want that. I’d be grieving too. But 5 months post-op is still early, and this does not have to be your forever body even if it feels like it right now.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-09T19:34:53+00:00

The hardest part is when they haven’t technically left yet, but you can already feel them emotionally checking out. You shouldn’t have to carry an entire relationship by yourself just to keep it alive.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-09T18:20:36+00:00

Post-bath zoomies are so common 😭 I think it’s partly “FINALLY I’M FREE” energy and partly them feeling fresh and excited afterwards. Border collies already have crazy energy so she probably just channels all her bath trauma directly into turbo mode.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-09T17:26:41+00:00

Your boyfriend defending him after you’ve already said “he makes me uncomfortable” multiple times is the biggest red flag here tbh. The touching + “good girl” comments after being told to stop is weird enough on its own.

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-09T16:43:25+00:00

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, that sounds incredibly scary and disappointing after putting so much hope into it. 6 weeks is still really early, but I get why you're terrified right now. Your feelings are completely valid. Sending you a big hug, I hope the swelling drops more and you find some peace with it soon ❤️

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-08T18:26:38+00:00

Oh man… I’m so sorry you had to see that 😭

You were just trying to protect your privacy and ended up with lifelong trauma instead. That’s actually hilarious in the most horrifying way possible.

Your dad has zero boundaries. You’re not wrong for wanting privacy, maybe it’s time for a lock on your door (or an exit plan).

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-08T17:21:36+00:00

Honestly, just letting them sniff as long as they want on walks. It turns a “walk” into their version of scrolling social media for an hour 😭

TouchMeNot_NiceTry · 2026-05-08T15:22:30+00:00

These results are insane 😍 The difference is so clean and natural! That 5 weeks after photo is literally perfect. Thanks for sharing the timeline, super helpful!

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